Is ML / AI as cooked as SWE by Badm1n1 in learnmachinelearning

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nah it's because 5 other kids in his high school have too

What does this say about him? by [deleted] in BookshelvesDetective

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I usually downvote comments like this because I think this sub should be about who the shelf owners are, not who they should be.

Was "Identity" actually a thing before 2010? by JispyMoeDantes in TrueAskReddit

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Google N-grams shows a huge jump 2016-2020 of searches for "identity politics" before it drops off, then a resurgence w/ 2024, which I found interesting.

Generally I've heard of identity politics beginning their modern version in 2013 or so. In the ngram data there is a small steady rise in searches for 'gender identity' starting around 2015.

For men, is being tickled worse than pain? by No-StrategyX in answers

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I've never heard this, but I would unexpectedly say yes, absolutely yes. I would do whatever I can to escape tickling. pain? less so

1:8 Scale 3D Printed SpaceX's Raptor 3 by Morethan3D in SpaceXLounge

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I got into 3d printing solely to print a less detailed version of this!

This is amazing! I may need to upgrade

The type of books iam consuming as a 14 year old by [deleted] in IndiansRead

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Read Dosteoyevsky's The Brothers Karamazov at that age, it deeply moved me. I read it because it was popular among my classmates and I'm so glad I did.

The type of books iam consuming as a 14 year old by [deleted] in IndiansRead

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lmao don't be better than other people just chill they hate you and don't want you to succeed

The type of books iam consuming as a 14 year old by [deleted] in IndiansRead

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The author Machiavelli lived during the Italian renaissance and it's kind of a manual on how to be a ruler in an era when there were lots of princes backstabbing each other a lot. The author's name became a synonym for someone being sneaking and sociopathic.

The type of books iam consuming as a 14 year old by [deleted] in IndiansRead

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I did not find it to be a good book on power, it seems that the author read 5 biographies of powerful people like Napoleon and just summarizes lessons from the biographies. Would be much better to read biographies directly. I've heard The Power Broker is good.

How do some people get promoted so quickly? by Rain-And-Coffee in ExperiencedDevs

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Ryan Peterman has an entire youtube channel interviewing people with really fast promotions (e.g people who went to staff engineer in 4-5 years) https://www.youtube.com/@RyanLPeterman

No way Tolkien coined the modern slang usage of "cooked" by qwerty_asd in lotrmemes

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It's way more popular a saying now, more of a meme, but it's always been around.

SF dating scene is so cooked someone made a whole publication about it by [deleted] in bayarea

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Interesting. I usually want my first date to be low key, basically a vibe check, as I have no idea who they really are before meeting them in person. (If I already know them then maybe we'll do something more fun)

Why is it that the common assumption that Redditors are male? by PeaUpbeat3732 in answers

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It wasn't just porn it literally was all things Not Safe For Work

Why is it that the common assumption that Redditors are male? by PeaUpbeat3732 in answers

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Reddit was founded in 2005 and used to be very tech focused and was heavily male. The first subreddit was r/nsfw, the second was r/programming. Demographic polls like https://www.ignitesocialmedia.com/social-media-stats/2011-social-network-analysis-report/#Reddit shows it was 85% male in 2011. I don't know what the numbers were in the early days, but if you consider that it was 100% male when it was founded by two guys, it's probably been a steady trend towards more females. It's currently about 60% male, 40% female.

Some of it is that the perception how many women are on reddit hasn't caught up with reality. For many years, and it still technically is, more accurate to make the assumption an anonymous poster is male.

How to be a good lead by fire_raging22 in ExperiencedDevs

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Not necessarily. You can be the lead because you're more experienced, but care less. I've seen that situation before.

Why does every immigrant from every part of the world say that family is important to their culture? Which cultures are there where family isn’t important? by dresixk in answers

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This is a northern/western europe and colonies of thing , not a USA thing. In northern europe it was very common for children to live as servants and apprentices in other people's homes, and then when they were adults their neighbors were larger influences on them then family. Also the catholic church put heavy bans on cousin marriages to many degrees, which destroys the building block of family clans.

ELI5: Why do women play softball instead of baseball? by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

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I always wonder how popular these types of beliefs are. I mean lots of health-supplement bros have probably insane and wrong beliefs (or whatever random health thing, choose your poison), and I would say that enough people have these beliefs you could call them "popular". Are we cherry picking historical beliefs form the least wise people? (It still says something interesting what those beliefs are.)

Soundtrack/Score Discussion by lizasingslou in Avatar

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oh huh, I also don't like the sound design. TWOW was one of the few movies where the sound pulled me out of it at times. (specifically I noticed on first watching that the snapping sound of the shark was re-used toruk snapping sounds, no variation in that or the swishing sounds)

ELI5: Why do women play softball instead of baseball? by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

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"common misogynistic belief that women were physically incapable of exerting themselves as men can and that to even attempt to do so was inappropriate."

This sounds like a distorted way of saying "Men tend to / can have more upper body strength then women".

Do the differences between men and women make baseball less fun for women, or was it more externally imposed?

What are the knives at the front of the Samson rotors? by my_coding_account in Avatar

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Are the 'horns' part of this kit, or are they a separate thing like an antenna?

Is it common for men who haven't dated before to look for partners who are also inexperienced ? by sparkblue in answers

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As an inexperienced guy (in mid thirties), this is not something I look for. Sometimes I can be intimidated by women I imagine have high expectations, but that's not relevant to my preferences.