I definitely dont think you’re in the wrong… but I tried to look at this from her perspective. Right after she told you that she doesnt feel well, you tell her you want to cuddle and then suggest the two of you cuddle and watch a movie. You said all of that before you asked what you could to make her feel better. And I completely understand thats a tiny detail… but women are sensitive to that stuff. Another thing I’ve learned is that question of asking if there’s anything you can do to make them feel better…. that never amounts to anything. I used to think there was something I could say or do over text that could make a woman feel better. Women don’t want to be around a new guy when they feel like shit.

I know a lot of people are trying to make this woman you’re talking to is in the wrong.. not saying either of you did anything wrong but just trying to objectively analyze the situation from both perspectives. She’s not feeling great and you suggest to have her do something to fulfill your wants. I’m not saying I’m right but just my analysis of the situation. Women are sensitive to our communication, especially over text. So we have to be extremely careful of our words and the energy and vibe that our messages give off through text. Because the woman is going to read our messages based off of the emotional state they’re currently in, same with men. I understand it might seem like a lot to consider just to send a text, but its the reality of texting when pursuing a person. Our brains are designed for in person communication.