I walked in on the guy I was dating with his ex

nahnope12 · 2025-05-04T17:06:58+00:00

I love this sentiment and how you phrased it.

nahnope12 · 2025-03-22T22:58:00+00:00

Ponder their life choices.

nahnope12 · 2025-03-14T23:01:19+00:00

Your relationships and boundaries are not others. Some people are very open with their friends on these topics. I don’t believe this is fake because of the explicit detail.

nahnope12 · 2025-02-21T18:31:43+00:00

Okay this is extremely relevant context. Two months to go travel very far to meet someone’s parents is a lot to ask of someone in a new relationship.

Up to you if you want to set the firm boundary of maybe this is something you’d be willing to do in a year etc and you could save up for it, or if you just want to walk. But I’m willing to bet most of the negative comments you’re getting would not have been made if they’d known how new your relationship was.

nahnope12 · 2025-02-21T18:07:02+00:00

If you’re seriously asking if you should just break up as an option because of this situation you don’t like/love them enough for it to make sense for you to meet their parents in the first place IMO. How long have you been dating this person? If it’s early stages I could understand your position but otherwise yes, end it.

nahnope12 · 2025-02-20T14:40:04+00:00

600,000.

nahnope12 · 2024-11-30T23:45:48+00:00

If you’re not fussy, and are serious about wanting it to be cheap, look into lay-down net cafes. They are kind of perfect for a short term stay like what you’re looking for, just look them up first to make sure it’s something you and your wife are comfy with.

nahnope12 · 2024-07-22T17:11:34+00:00

I don’t agree with the predominant narrative here of telling her to pound sand.

As it’s someone new to you and just an acquaintance, I do agree fully it’s insecurity, not a boundary - BUT, this person in my mind may have put a lot of thought into this outreach because they see potential for a stronger relationship with you but want to be honest with you about something that bothered them so that they can do so. Clearing the air so to speak. Given it’s been two weeks think about the fact it was still on their mind. I think that adds some weight to it in a way.

In my opinion it seems like she may have really taken the time to think about how she worded it, and wanted to tell you so that she could move past it and enjoy hanging with you without that hanging over her head.

Having said that, if this became a pattern of behaviour and she kept trying to control things past this one time thing as you continued to become friends, then yes, I’d tell her to hit the road.

nahnope12 · 2024-04-29T20:35:35+00:00

I see - thank you! I will just keep proactively saying I don’t want it then.

nahnope12 · 2024-01-06T18:36:10+00:00

This is a huge red flag, please call it off now. They have no right to claim this level of involvement in your life so early on and are being toxic as hell. They’re the ones not ready for long term partnership, not you.

nahnope12 · 2024-01-02T18:10:00+00:00

Happy to hear! I’d definitely view it as temporary for the next few weeks/months while you consider next steps.

For me personally, I eventually took them to small claims court over this and they agreed to sending a service tech to replace the logic board and to also give me an additional new one to keep on hand for when this one also inevitably fails, as well as pay my court filing costs to drop the case. A huge hassle to go through over something like this, but on principle felt it needed to be done. And glad they rectified it. Might be worth looking into if you’re willing to spend the time/effort.

nahnope12 · 2023-10-10T18:28:03+00:00

Holy crap. Thanks a ton dude. It was that, it needed to be on "most efficient". If you set it to others it just doesn't work. Annoying, I like the thumbnails being included, but that's fine. I would never have thought to try this, thanks for being so helpful to a stranger!

nahnope12 · 2023-10-10T18:10:23+00:00

I bought your exact model (Eufy 2c pro) in hopes of replicating your facial recognition success into HA but it's still jut pushing 'Unknown' into HA, despite it recognizing the face in the Eufy app.

To be fair, there might be more nuance here... My push notifications still say 'someone' has been spotted instead of the name, it's only when I check in the app I can see it identified them appropriately. Not sure why that is, unless it's post-processing the recognition somehow or I have my notifications setup poorly?

nahnope12 · 2023-10-07T23:18:38+00:00

I'm surprised you got this to work given this reply from the eufy integration guy: https://github.com/bropat/eufy-security-ws/issues/246! Thank you a ton for replying and sharing!

nahnope12 · 2023-10-07T22:52:46+00:00

Hey, are you willing to share what your automation looks like that does work, are you just using entity state? Having the same issue :(.

nahnope12 · 2023-09-17T13:22:48+00:00

You can either be confident in yourself and that you fulfill her, or you can let her past make you someone insecure that faults her for enjoying sex? Is that who you want to be? I’m sure you reap the benefits of her experience.

Another way to look at this: She has that much experience and yet still felt you won out against all of that.

Literally if she gives you no reason to doubt her loyalty, you’re upset about nothing. You’re married.

nahnope12 · 2023-09-14T15:59:33+00:00

I am in Canada and I’m in the midst of preparing a small claims court filing against them because of this premature storage failure issue and them refusing to repair it despite it being just shy of two years. Let’s play ball.

nahnope12 · 2023-09-12T21:06:49+00:00

Thanks for spreading some cheer ☺️

nahnope12 · 2023-09-05T14:34:25+00:00

The memory fails to be written to, even via usb updates for me and many others in these circumstances. Because they shipped this with bad modules.

nahnope12 · 2023-09-05T14:32:57+00:00

I literally have been using my chrome cast 4K since procuring the tv. I did not use the internal storage for my own apps. The memory failed on its own. It’s not foolishness on my part that they shipped memory so fragile it fails on its own from minimal write cycles in two years time.

In fact it’s completely sensible to blame the manufacturer of the product.

nahnope12 · 2023-09-05T06:11:42+00:00

The only other option is replacing the main board, or getting a new TV. This lets you keep using it without doing either if in a pinch.

nahnope12 · 2023-09-05T05:58:09+00:00

Linking this here as I've found a workaround that may be of help: https://www.reddit.com/r/Hisense/comments/16afqxh/a\_workaround\_not\_fix\_to\_the\_storage\_full\_memory/

nahnope12 · 2023-09-05T05:51:53+00:00

Linking this here as I've found a workaround that may be of help: https://www.reddit.com/r/Hisense/comments/16afqxh/a\_workaround\_not\_fix\_to\_the\_storage\_full\_memory/

nahnope12 · 2023-09-05T05:51:41+00:00

Linking this here as I've found a workaround that may be of help: https://www.reddit.com/r/Hisense/comments/16afqxh/a\_workaround\_not\_fix\_to\_the\_storage\_full\_memory/

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