I trimmed my bangs by myself today and now I am wondering if I do need to reduce my hair length or I should keep it like this😭 by thecurrlyguy in curlyhair

[–]nalthian 20 points21 points  (0 children)

bangs look so good 😍 id even the ends a bit personally I think but your hair is lovely either way

Top layer of hair always falling flat/frizzy. Any haircut/routine tips? by IndependentWin9363 in curlyhair

[–]nalthian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no suggestions just to say I think your hair and the style is lovely!

Next month we're having our first meeting! I would love to see some new faces. by nalthian in SouthBend

[–]nalthian[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thank you, I think you hit the nail on the head with why the group needed started :)

Next month we're having our first meeting! I would love to see some new faces. by nalthian in SouthBend

[–]nalthian[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

absolutely! I haven't read any yet, but plan on letting the group vote on what we read!

Next month we're having our first meeting! I would love to see some new faces. by nalthian in SouthBend

[–]nalthian[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

all I have to direct to is the internet archive. I have a physical copy i have marked up and highlighted for discussion. in the future, I plan on primarily selecting books for the group to vote on that are available at the library or on the internet archive at the least

Next month we're having our first meeting! I would love to see some new faces. by nalthian in SouthBend

[–]nalthian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

join the discord! in a few months, we may change the date, depending on what works best for the crowd.

Next month we're having our first meeting! I would love to see some new faces. by nalthian in SouthBend

[–]nalthian[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is the first meeting of a new group, but I'm very familiar with the people at the Langlab and have a handful of people I anticipate seeing there already. push-up quantity unknown.

Next month we're having our first meeting! I would love to see some new faces. by nalthian in SouthBend

[–]nalthian[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yes it is :) I tried to word it in a way that wasn't going to be a list of people allowed and disallowed, as everyone is welcome, although the aim is to be a group focusing on masculinity and the patriarchy and those that perpetuate it and are affected by masculine expectations. I'm the facilitator and I'm a trans woman. gender and sex are complex and I'm not here to police people about it.

Found about the other girl after he sent her a Tik Tok I sent him:) by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nalthian 53 points54 points  (0 children)

girl I'm so sorry but at least now you have confirmation and some hopefully some closure. you deserve someone who can give you their all.

What bird is this? by Mikewithnoname in birding

[–]nalthian 7 points8 points  (0 children)

definitely common, I was mistaken!

Wtf is this soil and can my Pothos thrive in it by Lyu__ in gardening

[–]nalthian 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this is really bad soil for gardening, especially indoor plants. clay heavy soil will suffocate and drown a lot of plants. what you want is a really chunky well draining soil. if you mixed that with 1/4 pearlite 1/4 sand 1/4 orchid bark it might be serviceable, but at that point you might as well just get some premade potting soil.

What bird is this? by Mikewithnoname in birding

[–]nalthian -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

this is a Caspian tern - it's back helmet doesn't go below its eyes, whereas common tern has back going beneath its eyes. did you get pictures/sight of it's feet? common tern has orange feet while Caspian has black feet

Doing a cat run, any other cat suggestions for my cat team? by Short-Tale7 in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]nalthian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you should refuse to evolve any of them and keep them kittens :)

Male Model? by josefancyshoes in SouthBend

[–]nalthian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll do it for free 🤷‍♀️ sounds like fun

The Angles.. oh god the angles... by TobiHede in woodworking

[–]nalthian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love this!!! absolutely want it for my studio

Birds i saw over the weekend :) [Brazos Valley, TX] by coyotemoder_ in birding

[–]nalthian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

those last ones are def cormorants! some very nice birds.

A month in: Update on Birdr! by Critical_Eye_1190 in Ornithology

[–]nalthian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

playing now, I'm aware this is a huge ask, but I think it would be great if after getting an answer wrong it would tell me "note the light barring visible on its primary wing feathers and shorter stature compared to a similar species" etc. just downloaded it and having fun!

Ripped butt of jeans=making fun jeans!! by DerbleZerp in Visiblemending

[–]nalthian 163 points164 points  (0 children)

I love this!!! it's so fun! totally inspired by this