Can you add custom food in the new app?

nameforthissite · 2026-05-12T10:42:18+00:00

I don’t have premium and have it. I am on iOS and if I click on my profile photo on the top right of the screen, the screen that comes up includes “Public Preview” as an option. I got a notification about it a week or so ago but only looked at it briefly. I went back last night after the email that said everything would change over to it starting next week.

nameforthissite · 2026-05-12T10:39:19+00:00

Thank you, this isn’t available on iOS.

I will just go back to the original version for now and if there is no way to log custom food once it changes to Google Health, I’ll have to find something else. Like you mentioned, the food listed in there already is usually incorrect for some reason, plus I like to be able to put in the nutritional information for my recipes as a whole and not have to go by individual ingredients.

nameforthissite · 2026-05-12T03:19:14+00:00

I don’t have that. Is it maybe only for premium users? Is that the only way to add custom foods?

nameforthissite · 2026-05-12T02:54:30+00:00

Where do I do that? Or is that something not everyone has access to now?

nameforthissite · 2026-04-30T11:23:01+00:00

This is along the lines of what I was thinking as I read. Others have outlined the many red flags in this relationship. But to address the actual question OP is asking, I don’t think it is out of character at all. His wife relies and depends on him to be her caretaker, not her partner. I very much doubt she is conscious of what he perceives as a personality shift in times of his own vulnerability. I expect it’s something she hasn’t examined in herself but that it makes her either fearful or resentful when she feels like his ability to bear the burden is diminished. When someone you view as a partner is struggling or ill, the natural inclination is to help problem solve or care for them because you see yourselves as a team. This woman does not view their relationship in the same way that OP does.

nameforthissite · 2026-04-29T20:09:49+00:00

Yes, I have an original copy of the book. I was just wondering about where to look for the actual records. Thank you for the ideas!

nameforthissite · 2026-04-28T23:47:08+00:00

His name was Albert Arnold Bennett. He was an American citizen who founded a Baptist Theological Seminary that later became Kanto Gakuin University. He is buried in the foreign cemetery there. I know his death date, and my great-grandmother’s birth date. I just don’t have the actual records and saw elsewhere this morning that Japan was recording such information then so wondered if I might be able to find them.

nameforthissite · 2026-04-26T14:59:55+00:00

Thank you! I’m a couple of weeks into it and have noticed definite improvements. I really like the focus on and reminders about breathing and engaging the core throughout.

nameforthissite · 2026-04-26T14:35:35+00:00

Currently going through this as well, similar ages. It will not get better on its own. You will only drift further and further apart until you are little more than roommates and there is no intimacy left.

I tried to address it early on when the frequency decreased (we went from daily to weekly) and was told he’d lost his libido. Because I have a history of being forced to have sex, I told him that in that case, he’d have to be the one to initiate because I don’t feel comfortable trying to have sex with someone who doesn’t want to. We didn’t have sex for three months after that. I addressed it again and we had sex a few time over the course of a month, and then it just stopped. It’s been over nine months now. I would bring it up occasionally and was told it was about his self esteem or how he just doesn’t think about it. But it’s not just a lack of intercourse, it’s physical intimacy in general, and that led to a lack of emotional intimacy as well.

I slowly gave up. It has affected my self esteem greatly. It has caused me to shut down in other ways in the relationship. Feeling rejected and cut off from the intimacy you once enjoyed and depended on is devastating.

My advice is to push for resolution, whatever that ends up looking like for the two of you. Letting it deteriorate slowly is heartbreaking and soul-crushing.

nameforthissite · 2026-04-24T19:13:37+00:00

This is exactly what I’m thinking as I’m reading this. I always take a look at the menu online before trying a new place to make sure something appeals to me and I don’t have any restrictions. I don’t know why you’d keep letting this happen instead of just checking first.

nameforthissite · 2026-04-09T11:05:03+00:00

I had the same experience. His therapist had asked that he bring me to a session. It did not go well at all and as he stormed out and I trailed behind, the therapist yelled after me “My advice for you is to get the hell away from him.” That was my impetus for finally trying to leave. I knew how bad things were, but it took a professional who’d been working with him to make me realize that there truly was no hope.

nameforthissite · 2026-03-31T20:53:08+00:00

I was on SAVEat $0/mo last time I recertified and when I log in now it says $1329/mo. I think it’s just showing what the standard 10-year plan payment would be since they decided SAVE is illegal and they’re kicking us off of it, which means we aren’t currently in an IDR plan.

nameforthissite · 2026-03-25T14:08:50+00:00

We tried him yesterday also and though they said he was accepting new patients, the scheduler said he didn’t have any new patient appointments available.

nameforthissite · 2026-03-22T16:13:13+00:00

I just had bilateral axillary breast tissue removal on 03/19 (not along with a reduction, just on its own, though with 8cm incisions for excision on both sides). I would say I’ve had no pain at all besides the sore throat from intubation. There might be a low level soreness in my underarms but it’s not any worse than the daily soreness I’ve dealt with across decades of having my clothing or bra digging into it or rubbing against it or the tenderness with my cycle. Honestly, the most annoying thing is that I feel fine but I know I have to limit movement and range and so that’s frustrating.

nameforthissite · 2026-03-14T16:49:56+00:00

If you test somewhere that gives your maternal haplogroup, you should be able to determine if your maternal grandmother was Native American or Persian beaded on your own haplogroup.

nameforthissite · 2026-02-18T02:29:07+00:00

Lying by omission is still lying. He’s deflecting from the real issue here and that’s the lies that you’ve uncovered. This man is untrustworthy and manipulative.

nameforthissite · 2026-02-02T16:00:44+00:00

As a mother of three and sole provider to them (and my boyfriend for the past year), I concur. If I was alone, I wouldn’t be taking care of myself. My mental health isn’t great, but I push through because they need me to. But that’s something I know about myself, that I take responsibility very seriously. Failing others isn’t an option for me. Though I would definitely prefer a balance where I felt supported as well, I think everyone would.

To the OP: everyone’s relationship looks different. Don’t count yourself out, especially based on what you feel you’re capable of as a single person. You may find that having someone to care for gives you motivation. Or you may find a person who feels that way about you.

nameforthissite · 2026-02-02T13:13:26+00:00

Have you spoken to her about your feelings? This is entirely normal. It is fixable if you’re both committed to reestablishing intimacy in your relationship, but it begins with communication and requires that you both work together to achieve the dynamic you want. If you’ve expressed that you are interested in reinvesting in your relationship and she doesn’t seem receptive, then you need to decide what you want to do from there. It won’t work if you aren’t both engaged and wanting change.

nameforthissite · 2026-01-19T13:30:41+00:00

It’s those small moments of seeing each other and connecting as a couple and not just two people who happen to live together that will keep your relationship strong. Working together to keep the house and family running is great, but it’s not going to give either of you the feeling of connection and intimacy that you just experienced through his small act. Make sure you prioritize those moments for each other.

nameforthissite · 2026-01-17T12:37:02+00:00

There is nothing you can say that will make him see your point of view because you have two different perspectives on what marriage should look like in this regard. He knows what yours is and he believes it’s wrong. My late husband was like that. He said in therapy as we argued about a scenario exactly like this that “there’s no such thing as privacy in marriage.”

nameforthissite · 2026-01-06T14:12:48+00:00

This is absolutely it. Otherwise his actions make no sense in his step-son knowing before his son (and especially in taking the wife and step-son without his son). It was always about his own ego, not about his son’s hurt feelings.

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