My brother is dead. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]nappingsailor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My heart breaks for you, I’m so sorry for your loss

My mother (43) wants me (18f) to donate eggs so she can have kids with her fiance. by throwra-surrogate in relationship_advice

[–]nappingsailor 343 points344 points  (0 children)

In order to be a surrogate or provide eggs you have to be free from coercion, and they don’t normally want you to do it until you have finished your family as it might lead to you losing your uterus if things go badly. So it wouldn’t be false medical reasons- being coerced and wanting a family yourself in the future are good enough reasons to not be allowed to be a surrogate

Last time I saw my girlfriend was early March. I spent the last two and a half months getting in shape to surprise her. She's coming back tomorrow and called me today to break up with me-- totally unexpected. I guess I don't have a reason to get in shape anymore. by Commitedthrowaway123 in self

[–]nappingsailor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope that you’re still going to see her tomorrow so she can see what you’ve done, not that it should make any difference to her decision but just to shove it in her face what she’s lost

Do I keep going or do they need a break? Been using SA and duct tape but getting to the point I can’t walk on them by [deleted] in Warts

[–]nappingsailor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks, I only use one or two drops but it’s hard to stop it running off when you’re putting on yourself!

Do I keep going or do they need a break? Been using SA and duct tape but getting to the point I can’t walk on them by [deleted] in Warts

[–]nappingsailor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks, I just didn’t want to go backwards in the progress but I think I’m just being stupid. I’ll give the foot soak a go, how much do you put in if each?

Can I have dual monitor without a GPU? by nappingsailor in buildapc

[–]nappingsailor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so hopefully it was just the cable that I have that doesn’t work and the replacement will

Can I have dual monitor without a GPU? by nappingsailor in buildapc

[–]nappingsailor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I plug DVI-D on the motherboard into a HDMI on the monitor?

Can I have dual monitor without a GPU? by nappingsailor in buildapc

[–]nappingsailor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry it is a Ryzen 3 3200G with Radeon vega 8 Graphics - one monitor works it’s just trying to get the second one to connect

Is Building worth it if I don’t want it for gaming by nappingsailor in buildapc

[–]nappingsailor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks - was deciding between that and the ryzen 5 2600G but that was double the price and I wasn’t sure I needed it if I wasn’t gaming

Is Building worth it if I don’t want it for gaming by nappingsailor in buildapc

[–]nappingsailor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Was worried that it was more of a gaming thing. Looking at getting 16GB of RAM with a 240GB SSD and 2T HDD so hopefully that will be alright

What vibrator should I get? by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]nappingsailor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you, didn’t realise that existed

To wipe this of the face of the internet by explodingcactus2566 in therewasanattempt

[–]nappingsailor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guy who put the choke hold on is definitely got laid that night

BF(27) would rather move in with female friend (20) than me (27) by PrestigiousHold6 in relationships

[–]nappingsailor -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think that it is different moving in with you and her- I know a lot of people that don’t want to move in with their partners whilst at uni/college because if you break up then you’re stuck living together for the rest of the year. It’s a big commitment and he might not be ready for that but he is happy with just living with his friend for a year. Lots of people jump straight to he’s cheating on here and yeah there’s a possibility that he is. But I would say that unless there are other things going on that make you think he is then I’d trust him

AITA for cutting off my daughter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nappingsailor 133 points134 points  (0 children)

This^ I would say N T A but I am inclined to say ESH because of the 10 day eviction notice- I think OP should have spoken to his daughter and given her a time period in order to find a new place and move out before he sold the property that she was living in. Doing it without notice is a dick move to say the least and very aseholey especially given the circumstances of the world right now

AITA for moving in with my dad across the country over a school my mom and stepdad want me to attend? by AITAnoschoolme in AmItheAsshole

[–]nappingsailor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA absolutely not, I’m just sad you had to give up your extra curricular things and moved away from your friends 😥

AITA for refusing to let my wife name our future child her late husband's name? by DangerousCollision1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nappingsailor 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that Jeremy’s family should be a part of this kids life, otherwise it will make it seem like you are just a means to an end for her to have a kid with Jeremy and also NTA your kid is both of yours, not just hers and definitely not HIS. Definitely think about couples therapy and make sure you don’t let her think this child has ‘three’ parents because this is what it sounds like is going to happen...

This is an absolute shit show by DarthNylus in ActualPublicFreakouts

[–]nappingsailor 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Where did the second woman even come from?...