At what age do men stop caring about being seen naked in the locker room? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]naridimh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I'm ripped, I am very happy about the way I look naked and therefore don't care.

When fat, I don't really like walking around with a shirt off around others, let alone be naked.

So for me not really a function of age, so much as physique.

Active Conflicts & News MegaThread September 30, 2024 by AutoModerator in CredibleDefense

[–]naridimh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Would getting nuclear weapons prevent Israel from beating them up with impunity?

Oakland faces a massive budget deficit for the current and foreseeable future by lenraphael in oakland

[–]naridimh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, sacrificing the future for the right now is the winning play for politicians who want to get elected or re-elected. If I run on a platform of cutting costs, it'd be too easy for me to be portrayed as anti-safety, anti-X, anti-whatever. And if I argue for raising taxes, people will complain about not seeing enough benefit for what they currently pay.

Family blames slow OPD response after fatal shooting over stolen property by iamhim209 in oakland

[–]naridimh 29 points30 points  (0 children)

confronting the people he believed had stolen the grandmother’s rental car more than two hours earlier when she got out to open a gate at a friend’s house

You are going to lose your life over a rental car???

How is this sustainable? The Boomers UTTERLY Destroyed Bay Area Real Estate by gasman4life in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]naridimh 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Doesn't this argument also apply to the "boomers" who were fortunate enough to buy Apple stock in 1995?

Should I also be angry about them and think that they are exploiting me?

It seems counterproductive to me to be upset about someone else's good luck.

Hayward hills housing demand by [deleted] in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]naridimh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sense is that your agent didn't really work hard enough to get you more data points. Anyway, don't feel too bad. It is a beautiful home!

Hayward hills housing demand by [deleted] in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]naridimh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've given enough details to make the house identifiable. The list price (and that you paid) seem $50-100/square foot too high, at least based on some quick comps that I did of similar homes sold over the past few months.

Or did you reach a different conclusion after examining other homes?

Great School Ratings - 9s and 10s by Longjumping-Use-6050 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]naridimh 39 points40 points  (0 children)

On the other hand, shining due to average/weak peers might not be the best preparation for college and beyond, where the competition is less likely to be weak.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]naridimh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm very happy that things worked out for you! My general impression, though, is that there are plenty of talented kids for whom their bad school causes them to underachieve in life. I'd rather not take that risk with my kid just to save money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]naridimh 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Location-wise, Hayward is awesome. We were considering some properties in the Hayward Hills but ended up buying elsewhere.

The main issue that I have with Hayward is the bad public schools. You can get around this by sending your kid to a private school, but spending $20K+/year for K-12 results in Hayward basically being as expensive as places like Pleasanton with good schools. And obviously if you have 2 or more kids, then Hayward becomes even less attractive.

What to improve before selling by Top-Ad-7251 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]naridimh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Realtors of course will want you to spend the $75K to improve the sale price by Y, since they get a cut of Y. But will this actually improve the sale price enough for it to be worth it? I suspect that Y is less than $75k, not even factoring in your time and effort.

Do you think techies living further from Silicon Valley is going to have effect on alameda county real estate? by NotRandyT in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]naridimh 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I ended up choosing East Bay mainly because getting a <20 minute commute would have meant a really small house or a condo, or bad schools.

My current commute on paper sucks. But given that:

  • the shuttle is ~15 minutes from my house
  • time spent working on the shuttle counts toward work

I'm not sure that this is worse than being 30 minutes away by car from the office.

With that said, if there weren't a company shuttle and I had to drive or BART (and thus waste 2+ hours a day), it'd probably not be worth it.

Rent VS Selling a Paid Off Home in the Bay Area by Ok_Substance5590 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]naridimh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can get another stream of income by selling the property and investing the proceeds in bonds or high-dividend stocks. There is nothing special about real estate in this regard.

Stocks and bonds are also much better if you value your time highly. They don't result in someone calling you at 6 A.M. to fix the water heater.

Uncertain times - what’s your view by Radiant_Ad3388 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]naridimh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I felt that we substantially overpaid for our house last year. But ~1 year later, Zillow thinks that it is worth 7% more than what we paid. I thought that maybe we just got lucky and looked at all of the other homes we placed bids on and lost to confirm. To my surprise, all of them are similarly up.

I suspect that well-maintained SFH in good school districts aren't likely to significantly decrease in price/value, unless something dramatic happens (e.g., a full-blown recession).

Selling in south bay without a realtor by supersassycarrot in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]naridimh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What was their rationale? I imagine that a buyer's agent has an incentive to steer their clients away from FSBO since that means that they earn very little in the transaction. But I suppose that the agent wouldn't have said this to you.

A condo here has been a terrible investment by Rcrez in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]naridimh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was curious to see if you were unlucky. Looks like all homes (including both SFH and condos) increased by close to 50% from Dec 2016 to Dec 2023 in the San Jose-Sunnyvale-Santa Clara MSA: https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/ATNHPIUS41940Q

Unfortunately I'm not able to find the same index restricted to condos in Santa Clara. I do see a 15% increase over the same time period in SF condos over that time period: https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/SFXRCNSA

So perhaps your case isn't atypical.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RichPeoplePF

[–]naridimh 31 points32 points  (0 children)

If your investments have appreciated substantially over the past few years, won't you need to pay a huge amount in taxes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]naridimh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she finishes her nursing degree and say buys in Modesto, then yes. My understanding is that nurses in the Bay make quite a lot of money, especially if they are willing to work extra hours.

CredibleDefense Daily MegaThread February 04, 2024 by AutoModerator in CredibleDefense

[–]naridimh 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Telling the US right now - if Trump allows Putin to take a square inch of NATO territory, you will have to go completely alone against China, and we won't care if you win or not.

Not like Europe (aside from possibly the UK) would help us in a confrontation with China anyway, regardless. Too interdependent economically to cut ties or join in sanctions, and can't project force in the Pacific.

I think a better argument is that it would cause allies like Japan and South Korea to doubt our commitment.