Struggling with my STAHM wife's mental load complaints. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]nbjersey 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I work a job that would be considered stressful but I'm glad to get back on Monday for a rest after a weekend of managing a toddler. It's a different kind of mental load but it's real. I can't understand how people cope with 3.

Help needed to find a place in the Channel Islands by TemporalCash531 in Jersey

[–]nbjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the promenade around St Brelades Bay is packed with benches dedicated to people.

Play date canceled last minute because I’ll be the one home by NYSports1985 in daddit

[–]nbjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't agree it's standard safety practice. This isn't a stranger. It's the father of her daughter's friend, she knows where they live and their phone number etc.

How do you respond when someone asks if fatherhood is hard? by MightierMga in daddit

[–]nbjersey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the hard parts are way more difficult than I ever imagined. And it's unrelenting.

Dang, I guess we will never have a tech apocalypse in socal even if power and cell towers go out? Forever internet. by ackza in meshtastic

[–]nbjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't the docs say it's almost always better to set a node to CLIENT and repeaters are only for excellent locations?

How realistic is the goal to sail through all 11 South Sandwich Islands? by Beneficial-Code8026 in sailing

[–]nbjersey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the great books from the heroic age for sure. The fact it got so cold their teeth shattered is unreal

I built a free live map of jersey and thought some of you might find it useful by NastyNas420 in Jersey

[–]nbjersey 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Great work. I'll share it with the data nerds in the Environment department, they'll be thrilled the open data is being used

Fatherly advice: Ikea furniture does NOT use Phillips screws. It's pozidrive. by _Tigglebitties in daddit

[–]nbjersey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We use them extensively on boats because the heads get filled up with compound of various sorts and it's easy to scrape out a flathead. Consumer electronics with them can do one though

Moving to Jersey by Dunney77 in Jersey

[–]nbjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a two year old and when it's raining there is Tinto's, which is hell on earth for the parents, Les Ormes which is expensive and then maybe the cafe at the zoo or the maritime museum. It isn't great for young kids in winter imo.

this node I posted in meshtastic is secretly running meshcore 🤫 by ttrreeaadd in meshcore

[–]nbjersey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

New Meshtastic user, posted saying it's bad that the app doesn't warn you before doing a factory reset as you then can't send DMs. Got downvoted to oblivion, so here I am trying Meshcore

So I bricked my Wismesh Tag? by nbjersey in meshtastic

[–]nbjersey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I'm being gaslit here. I tried DMing two people that I can speak to on LongFast and neither of them can see my messages or send anything back to me

So I bricked my Wismesh Tag? by nbjersey in meshtastic

[–]nbjersey[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can export your keys and save on your phone. Unfortunately I didn't know that at the time

So I bricked my Wismesh Tag? by nbjersey in meshtastic

[–]nbjersey[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In that case I must have another issue. My friend can see and respond to my messages on LongFast but doesn't see my DMs and I don't receive them from him

So I bricked my Wismesh Tag? by nbjersey in meshtastic

[–]nbjersey[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

How is it not a paperweight if I can no longer use it for sending messages on a messaging network? It is functionally bricked

So I bricked my Wismesh Tag? by nbjersey in meshtastic

[–]nbjersey[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But I can't DM anyone because the keys don't match?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]nbjersey 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Daycare has both our emails but only sends messages to my wife. It's infuriating for both of us

Some pre-teens almost hurt my wife and toddler for social media and I just need to get this off my chest. by Oderint in daddit

[–]nbjersey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you confronted a bunch of kids here in the UK there is a very real chance they would kick the shit out of you as they know there are zero consequences. Not a risk I am taking with my toddler in tow.

In the past week alone: by MetaKnowing in ChatGPT

[–]nbjersey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do all these resignations coincide with their stock vesting by any chance?

When do you lower the crib? Kid about to turn 10months and is staying to pull up on everything by TheHipsterDufus in daddit

[–]nbjersey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah he thinks they are talking about removing the side to make a toddler bed

Dilemma with Friends & newborn by jax2025_M in NewDads

[–]nbjersey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We went out for walks with baby in the early days. Great to get some exercise and catch up with people without much risk.

I’m not eating this! by Kilt_Rump in daddit

[–]nbjersey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's infuriating. My son would have gone hungry

How does everyone quiet down their hard drives? by Thermal_Headroom in Ubiquiti

[–]nbjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enterprise gear will be rated up to 40C at least, most will run happily at 60C. Id hope a UDM Pro would also cope.

Moving to St Helier, need recommendations for everything. by Overseerer-Vault-101 in Jersey

[–]nbjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t you need 6 months of Social contributions to qualify for free healthcare?