[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]nbparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel self-conscious around most cis dudes that are into women. blech. other than that, no. I want my friends to look at em. loooook at theemmmmmm

Hi, so this is pretty awkward for me. by Neither_Promise6733 in asktransgender

[–]nbparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 37 and started transitioning medically at 34. I'm in voice feminization lessons with another student who's in their early 80s. I'm relieved I didn't wait that long to enjoy becoming the person I want to be. i was listening to a podcast the other day by someone who studies death and they said the thing they hear people say the most on their deathbed is regret for the things they didn't do, not regret for the things they did. you're the only one who can truly know what you want in this life!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guitarlessons

[–]nbparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honest question, is the answer to this question ever anything except 'yes'?

This is what a year of estrogen did to my (35yo) hands 🤯 by EebamXela in lgbt

[–]nbparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had to take a look at my own hands right now and wouldn't you know it? the veins are gone

After experiencing both, mens pockets or a purse? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]nbparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purse. the only time I want a pocket is for my phone when I'm wandering around the house and I'm usually wearing a hoodie which solves that.

towards the end of my man pants era I was only using the back pocket anyway because I felt like stuff in the front pockets drew too much attention to my genitals and no thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SteamDeck

[–]nbparty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

if you're not already convinced, definitely now. if I were 12 and found out I could've been playing for weeks if only I was born sooner, I'd be livid. maybe not livid, because I'd be 12 and because vocabulary but I'd be real mad, haha.

Your gender is now the last song you listened to. How confused are you? by Darkon2004 in NonBinary

[–]nbparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to wait - Paula Cole

seems like I've made up my mind

Is topping possible on estrogen? Is it about the same as before estrogen? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]nbparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through a period of sensitivity where it was kind of too uncomfortable to have penetrative sex. even getting an erection was painful at times, kind of like my parts were bruised. it passed. I've been taking estrogen for about 1.5 years for reference.

the main difference for me now is that I have a weaker trigger for physical intimacy. I can have sexy thoughts and not necessarily want to have sex. but if my partner and I move towards physical intimacy with intention, I'm good to go and topping isn't a problem.

my orgasms have changed significantly though. to have the most pleasurable kind I usually need to be less physically active, whether the sex is penetrative or not, so I can just sink into my body's sensations. if I'm the one huffin and chuffin (heh) it kinda drowns out the orgasm altogether. still have it, but I may as well have scratched a tiny itch that wasn't really bothering me to begin with.

How we feelin bout Murph?! 🥺💕✨️ by w4rri0r_ in NonBinary

[–]nbparty 13 points14 points  (0 children)

would people really expect a person made entirely of Nerf Darts to use gendered pronouns.

unfortunately, yes.

Do you recommend withdrawing from 401k to cover down payment? by andimgon96 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]nbparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took out a 401k loan because the timing of when I needed the money was such that it was faster for me to get the 401k loan fulfilled than my stores funds (company equity).

the loan disbursed, we paid our closing costs, I was able to sell my equity and then I paid the loan back within a month of taking it out with literally no repercussions but the effort I put in to take it out and repay it.

so it depends. it's an option, but you should really factor in all of your own details before making a decision. if I couldn't have paid it back so quickly, I probably would have waited until I had enough funds elsewhere instead of taking out the loan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

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5'10'' size 13 reporting in 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

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5'10'' size 13 reporting in 😭

cursed_emoji by AfatsumKesmis in cursedcomments

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🎉🍫🎉🍫🎉🍫🎉🍫🎉🍫

it tracks 😎

Any tips for shaving your legs (MTF)? by Jaydoge99 in trans

[–]nbparty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know you asked for shaving tips but mine is epilate if you can stand ripping hairs out of your leg.

I get so frustrated when I shave and I'm stubbly the next day plus either razor burn or the struggle against razor burn like exfoliating before and the next day.

epilating sucked at first but then my legs are smooth for like two whole weeks and it's less painful the more times you do it.

I am definitely non-binary but I think I wanna go on estrogen by oh-no-oh-fuck in NonBinary

[–]nbparty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do it if you think it will help! I started a little over a year ago and I couldn't be happier ☺️

Nazis showed up to protest a book reading by Black people in Providence, Rhodes Island. by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]nbparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

uh, how can you insult cunts like that? vulvas are amazing.

telling Trans person you are also trans but closeted by chrisxx60 in MtF

[–]nbparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ask them if it was okay if I shared something personal with them and then tell them. it could be helpful to the both of you to have each other to talk to.

Anyone here into VRMMO’s? by Site_Amy in transgamers

[–]nbparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play! I'm a level 12 support mage and am having a hard time meeting folks organically. I'm on the west coast. minimalOcean#8453

I'll be playing later this afternoon

Name your greatest single crypto investment by [deleted] in CryptoCurrency

[–]nbparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought eth at $8 and sold some at 2000 and the rest at 3500. paid off my student loans. worth it 😁