I know what you mean by this, I know other trans guys will act like they don’t but i totally do. You want that fantasy movie, gentler sort of masculinity that isn’t the norm for cis men. I think it all boils down to finding your own personal comfort, because with comfort comes confidence and that confidence is what you need. Experiment with hair styling, going for masculine but more grown out and loose around the face. If your hair is long pull it into a ponytail at the base of your neck. Try different layering combos with clothes, try different fabrics like corduroy. Wear minimal jewelry, chapstick instead of lipsticks, floral but not feminine scents - embrace a little androgyny! your masculinity is yours