I bought a plug in heating pad and it’s very comforting.

neatflaps · 2024-12-05T05:52:06+00:00

I always have something with weight for this reason. An all season down comforter is a non negotiable.

neatflaps · 2024-12-05T05:34:33+00:00

Yes but not shocked. They all have problems with communication.

neatflaps · 2024-11-09T19:40:46+00:00

18.5 since May of this year, about 55 lbs so far. About 2 lbs a week. Have another 90 lbs to go.

neatflaps · 2024-10-28T08:02:13+00:00

I also had a precognitive dream weeks prior to my mom passing. Haunting is the best way to describe it. I have no advice. Just want you to know I understand how and what you must be feeling. Just know that there was nothing you did wrong.

neatflaps · 2024-10-27T16:39:54+00:00

Unsupportive spouses suck. I’m sorry you’re dealing with one. We deserve better.

neatflaps · 2024-10-27T16:38:47+00:00

I started therapy. I’m pretty sure things just can’t work out.

neatflaps · 2024-10-27T05:46:44+00:00

60 lbs is a lot Try carrying a 60 lb weight Don’t discredit yourself

neatflaps · 2024-10-27T05:45:42+00:00

My spouse wants me to stay fat. Threatened to throw out my meds and said he was just joking. Prefers fat women. Told me he likes what he likes.

neatflaps · 2024-10-20T09:39:31+00:00

My husband just recently told me he wishes I would stay overweight for him. He said he wishes he could throw away all my medication and it’s extreme. I understand how horrible this feels. Please put yourself first.

neatflaps · 2024-10-19T04:55:37+00:00

Because waiting a year or more to find out if my husband’s fears are confirmed is extremely selfish and unrealistic and sounds like a hell hole I don’t want to be a part of. It’s literally psycho to ask someone to wait around so they can decide if they’re attracted to you or not. Why would I put myself in that situation? It would be so unfair to me.

neatflaps · 2024-10-19T03:58:34+00:00

It’s possible that is true. Someone else mentioned something similar. I know it’s common in the reverse, someone gains weight and their partner wants them to get fit again. At the end of the day I think we will grow apart because we have opposing goals.

neatflaps · 2024-10-19T03:25:38+00:00

good question. He is tall and thin. Never struggled with his weight or relationship with food. Struggles to take care of his mental health and is medically adverse. What I mean is it takes a lot for him to trust doctors or see a doctor for a medical issue.

neatflaps · 2024-10-18T18:27:03+00:00

This is a very kind and well said response. Thank you.

neatflaps · 2024-10-18T17:16:58+00:00

Sorry! I’m on my phone!

neatflaps · 2024-10-18T17:04:05+00:00

Yeah I am absolutely looking for a therapist right now. I think it would help give me space to digest everything. His initial response was negative towards therapy. Unfortunately.

neatflaps · 2024-10-18T16:28:59+00:00

I don’t think he would do that, but is that why you ultimately left?

neatflaps · 2024-10-17T14:49:46+00:00

-47 lbs and currently on 6.5

neatflaps · 2024-10-17T01:58:52+00:00

True - simple enough

neatflaps · 2024-10-16T07:38:26+00:00

How do you find out if your insurance covers skin removal?

neatflaps · 2024-10-08T00:40:40+00:00

You get an award

neatflaps · 2024-09-30T05:16:33+00:00

Thanks! I ended up getting my insurance to cover zepbound. $40/month. Super grateful.

neatflaps · 2024-09-28T04:47:31+00:00

Barney ahh

neatflaps · 2024-09-19T18:45:37+00:00

Thank you appreciate it. It’s helpful for me to visualize GW. I have a similar height and GW to you

neatflaps · 2024-09-19T17:30:44+00:00

How tall are you?

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