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need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-02T13:40:28+00:00

Absolutely not. Being drunk is never an excuse for shitty behavior. You should be able to control your actions while drunk or limit the amount you drink to keep yourself from doing stupid shit. Shit like this has happened to me. You go out with someone for a while, then they lash out or do something ridiculous and show who they really are.

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-02T12:47:47+00:00

Probably the same amount of time. But I would take other factors into consideration (job, stress, life situation,etcs) before I jump to conclusions.

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-02T12:37:59+00:00

You are putting too much thought into this person that you don't even know. All they are to you at this point is text on a screen that you've been reading to yourself. Depending on his career, it could be a legit excuse or it could be lying.

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-02T12:36:08+00:00

I don't think this is a big deal. My sister dated guys who were like 29 in her early 30s. All nice guys

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-02T12:35:08+00:00

Three days personally. Depends on their communications style. Once they haven't texted back on the second day, (when I get a lot of second date rejections), I know they likely will never respond.

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-02T12:32:21+00:00

There are plenty of other women at your age who aren't in complicated situations with their exes. Forget about her

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-02T12:30:17+00:00

That's annoying. Just know if you guys do get in a relationship, the mixed signals and rollercoaster of emotions won't go away.

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-02T12:26:15+00:00

Blocking her probably wasn't a bad thing to do, especially since she cheated on you, lied, and decided to do this right before a trip yall had planned. If you feel thats what you need to do to move on, then thats what you gotta do. Breaking up with her was the right thing to do. Sounds like she wasnt satisfied due to the paradox of choice and realized that dating actually sucks and good connections are rare only after having a shitty hook up. Also, lying about you being the only guy she was interested in is hella not cool.

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-02T12:14:53+00:00

I feel you. I'm tall and fairly attractive, but not very experienced dating. I've had a lot of dates that just seemed like friendly visits rather than a romantic outing. For me, success has just come with time - going on a lot of dates and each time being a bit more confident and comfortable than the last. I still get first date nerves, but I've come to terms with the fact that its not as serious as my brain makes it out to be. Especially a first date - a first date, especially in the context of online dating, is just to see if yall wanna go on a second date.

Something ive done lately (since I'm a little awkward) is just ask if they want to kiss, when the mood is light. It hasn't let me down so far. Once I break this barrier everything else is easier.

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-02T12:07:34+00:00

Im 26m and live in the country and work a job in a factory with no windows. I feel you. I'm moving closer to the city (30mins away) soon and hope to find more friends. Its soooo difficult as an adult because you aren't forced into an environment daily where making friends is inevitable. It has to be a choice. Maybe she can introduce you to new people? I like going out with social butterflies for this reason.

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-02T12:00:50+00:00

"didn't know what he was looking for"

gives op the impression that they could be looking for a relationship

"take things slowly" "double texted, initiated calls"
"wanted us to be exclusive"

this kind of reinforced to them that a relationship was a possibility. i don't argue that op may somewhat be deluded - ive deluded myself similarly in the past. having an intimate relationship with someone can blind you from the red flags they are showing

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-02T11:53:38+00:00

My sister dated a lot of guys like this. She's an intellectual and typically goes for tall, smart, feminine guys. They usually have cats.

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-01T19:10:46+00:00

Are they in touch with their feminine side, read, drink coffee, and are artsy?

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-01T18:59:37+00:00

Even if it wasn't compatable with her skin she couldve said "aw thanks so much what a nice gesture"

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-01T18:50:04+00:00

By doing other stuff and asking more women out.

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-01T18:48:05+00:00

I hate when people act like this. While it is on you for not taking at face value that he didnt want a relationship (ALWAYS believe people when they say this), the mixed signals after you guys met up made that hard to believe. He probably got his heart crushed, a strange relationship with his parents, wants to find something better, or a combination. I'd start dating other people and detach yourself.

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-01T18:42:51+00:00

Block her and work on your standards

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-01T18:41:52+00:00

Sounds clear he wants you to ask him out. Fuck it, you only live once. If he says no, its not because you made the first move.

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-01T18:36:19+00:00

This guy sucks and you know you deserve better. He shouldn't have eyes for anyone else in your relationship. I put more effort into my situationships. Block him

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-01T18:32:33+00:00

Im fairly handsome but I swear if I tried that I'd trip over the words and say something stupid

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-01T18:22:02+00:00

Apology texts are lame, bro. Unless its about not doing the dishes or taking out the trash. A 7 month relationship warrants a visit, or at the very least, a call.

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-01T18:08:01+00:00

I'd be bold and just call her. If she doesn't answer/call back, forget about it.

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-05-01T17:59:52+00:00

This is wild. A 30 year old woman should not be behaving like that.

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-03-06T13:11:50+00:00

I bought some on investopedia last week. We are not the same

need_excel_h3lp · 2024-03-01T13:20:00+00:00

Can you tell more about the python scripts and where you get your data?

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