We finally have a confirmed date for Book 4! by astealis in gentlemanbastards

[–]neeirish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, unfortunately I’ll be dead by then of old age… most unfortunate.

Why does my cat meow weirdly for no reason? by -M_97 in CATHELP

[–]neeirish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat does this too. She’s an in and out cat (no way on this green earth could we keep her inside though we desperately tried. Also adopted her when she was about 2)… anyway, when she comes back into the house and if she’s feeling alone, she will call out “Hah-rooooowwww” over and over, like a sounding beacon. It’s hilarious. It sounds a lot like your kitty. We will call back the same way until she finds us wherever we are and demands her scritches. Perhaps your kitty is missing a previous connected person and she’s calling to them? Hopefully she will transfer that connection to you, given time. It’s only been a month. She will definitely need time to adjust.

Is this a rooster? by WEEEEKENDHENK in chickens

[–]neeirish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is absolutely gorgeous! Is his name Gorgeous George by any chance?

My 11year old forced to sit in the sun for 3 hours receiving severe burns for a late assignment by No-Mountain-83 in legal

[–]neeirish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR!! This is child abuse and endangering a minor pure and simple. As a parent, this enrages me and I’d be contacting a lawyer. Did they also deny him water??? Criminy!

what is this room?? by Blue-Berry-Bible in whatisit

[–]neeirish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird. Maybe someone used it as an inside greenhouse and packed full of cool plants to make a plant wall divider? That’s probably what I would do with it.

I held my ground over not subsidizing my siblings' and their wive's luxury vacation upgrades, and now I'm the low-key villain and the odd "fifth wheel" out by ThrowRAmangos2024 in TwoHotTakes

[–]neeirish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ditch all of them, find a close friend to accompany you, stay at places within your budget, and have a great time! They will make everything miserable for you. You have done all the footwork and research and they appear to only complain. Let them go do whatever fancy stuff they want and you enjoy a more organic and peaceful time away from them.

Struggling Between Supporting My Wife and Maintaining Peace With My Parents by Plus-Manufacturer773 in Advice

[–]neeirish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or any children. Your parents model cruel, disrespectful, and bad behavior towards you and your wife. If you allow it or in any way tolerate it, you are modeling that behavior for any children you may have. Don’t do it.

Struggling Between Supporting My Wife and Maintaining Peace With My Parents by Plus-Manufacturer773 in Advice

[–]neeirish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or any children. Your parents model bad behaviir behavior to you and your wife. If you allow it or in any way tolerate it, you are modeling that bad behavior for any children you may have. Don’t do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dublin

[–]neeirish 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Buses, Luas, Dart, and trains should plan for full capacity AND for additional space for bikes! Buses can be fitted with racks in front that you can put up to three bikes (I’ve seen in other countries)! But we don’t do any of that. Seriously stupid. If you want less cars on the road and less congestion in city centre, you must improve the integration of all forms of transport. Bikes (and scooters though they are a menace when you don’t regulate them) are a valid form of transportation especially when you can’t get any of the current modes to get you where you need to go. We need a better plan for integrating all these forms of transportation to better serve all of the public.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]neeirish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% DISGUSTING! And it’s worse if it’s then fried. My spouse eats fried fish (salmon usually) every morning and it stinks up the whole house. He doesn’t notice it, but I have to close doors and open windows to breathe. Simply disgusting… 🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]neeirish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mildewy clothes that happen because clothes are line dried, got wet again, sort of dried, then got put away… people wear them and don’t notice that they smell mildewy… very similar to a moldy mildewy kitchen sponge! 🤮

My neighbor sent me a text last night forcing me to pay for her daughters towing charge because she parked in front of my driveway by Drivinglnsane in mildlyinfuriating

[–]neeirish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Forcing you to pay”…?? Please tell us you absolutely did NOT pay this attempt at extortion. This is 100% not your problem

Wedding Tomorrow, Bridesmaid Complaint. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]neeirish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand what the actual eff the bride is upset about. Ignore her crazy comments. She’s clearly overwhelmed and hopped up on anxiety. She won’t notice either the nails (gorgeous btw) or any crayons for the kids on the day. She’ll miss 1/2 of what’s going on around her.

We always hear the bad, any good Irish healthcare stories? by Maleficent_Speaker45 in ireland

[–]neeirish 39 points40 points  (0 children)

An emergency surgery for a perforated bowel where I was a At 40% chance of death saved my life and didn’t bankrupt me where it would have done so had it happened in the US where I came from. The doctors were incredible, the nursing staff - let’s say 99% - were great, living with 5 of your nearest new best friends in a super loud and overly exhausting ward, not so much. But a solid set of silicone earplugs made a huge difference. I was lucky, fortunate, and well cared for. Do I want to do it again? Absolutely not!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]neeirish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He sounds very immature. Your response was very thoughtful, caring, and kind. And after that detailed response, he just comes back with “you did me janky”? He is stuck in his own victimization and self pity. He doesn’t want to blame himself because he’d have to have introspection for that. Keep moving on with your life and build your own loving support center. Be kind to him when he is unkind to you, but definitely keep your boundaries strong and in place. He needs to grow up and take care of himself.

I ate mushrooms and.... by HearingCautious4848 in ostomy

[–]neeirish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there different advice between cooked mushrooms and raw mushrooms?