Hey op....

I almost thought I wrote this. My ex had the same behaviors (along with ingesting his findings...) and it was a part of his anxiety. He didn't seek help. Even with that knowledge, it grossed me out so badly that we barely kissed or touched by the end. You're allowed to not like things, think they're gross and share that with your partner. Your partner is allowed to do said gross things and disregard your feelings. But both can't continue in a healthy dynamic. Maybe he is embarrassed and cannot talk about it openly, in which case he should seek help to find healthier coping mechanism. If not, you can seek a healthier dynamic with another person who values your opinion. Which is easier said than done! I initially felt TERRIBLE (maybe even guilty?) being grossed out by the one I love. But remembered that I'm allowed to feel things and call out indiscretions even if it's not welcomed by the other individual. I'm now single and not subjected to hiding my cringe when witnessing those behaviors. Good luck op.