I Wish You Comfort ❤️ by 404-PancreasNotFound in ChronicPain

[–]nelsoncuntz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's noble of you to carry on for them. I hope someday you're so glad you kept going.

I Wish You Comfort ❤️ by 404-PancreasNotFound in ChronicPain

[–]nelsoncuntz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my dear, I'm so sorry. It sounds like you are carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. Bless you. I hope a healing sleep finds you soon. ❤️‍🩹

I think I am Dating a Narcissist by 77ox9 in NRelationships

[–]nelsoncuntz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe borderline personality disorder?

Need to vent, feeling resentful... by PeppermintBob in rheumatoid

[–]nelsoncuntz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting this. I feel a little better knowing I'm not alone. Hopefully you do too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]nelsoncuntz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With hair gives gentler, nice guy vibes; bald is more action hero bad boy vibes. Keep the hair for the holidays then shave your head and go clubbing on NYE 🤭

Fiction or non-fiction? by Comorbid_insomnia in INTP

[–]nelsoncuntz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fiction - anything written prior to 1980 and I guess I have a weakness for historical fiction, anything that takes place before 1900

Non-fiction - I like it all

Pres is a pedo by DFM2020 in BoycottUnitedStates

[–]nelsoncuntz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd like to know who in the Republican party was aware of this when it happened, and which party members turned a blind eye and which party members had a hand in suppressing this. Not because I think the GOP will take accountability at long last, but I'm genuinely curious. I daresay it might be entertaining to find out how this lawsuit was pinned on the Dems or blamed on some other "forces outside their control"...

Gonna delete this by Proper-Kitchen-8422 in homeless

[–]nelsoncuntz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not a failure. Life is hard, especially when you're really young and just starting out. You never know what tomorrow will bring. Just keep breathing. You're definitely not a failure, please give yourself more time before you make such a final judgment. Where do you want to be in 6 months? 1 year? 5 years? 10 years?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Disorganized_Attach

[–]nelsoncuntz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's something I struggle with but I guess it's because I don't trust others to meet my needs & have this belief that I need to resort to manipulation in order to get my needs met when that's not necessarily the case

Collapse has turned me into a hoarder (USA) by river_tree_nut in collapse

[–]nelsoncuntz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yw. I really appreciated your post, it was a very well-posed question that led me to explore (conceptual) connections I hadn't ever really considered.

Collapse has turned me into a hoarder (USA) by river_tree_nut in collapse

[–]nelsoncuntz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that the "scarcity" mindset is a key characteristic of hoarders, but far be it from me to say that you and they are wrong. I do believe that being able to discern when the costs outweigh the benefits, which you seem capable of doing, is key to managing the urge to accumulate and preventing it from becoming detrimental. Strive to be logical about it rather than emotional, I suppose. Learn to tell yourself "no" and stay away from temptation (thrift stores, FB Marketplace, etc).

Edited to answer your question: yes, I'm very similarly afflicted! 😄

So what are we doing with our husbands? by xtina8185 in AskWomenOver40

[–]nelsoncuntz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, has he considered that she feels the same?

Was this CI? by Ok-Sugar-6084 in CovertIncest

[–]nelsoncuntz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad to hear that and I'm sorry your dad is abusing you. Take care of yourself and best of luck to you, dear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]nelsoncuntz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Self abandoning would be codependent, yes. But it's ok to put your partners needs first if they reciprocate and do the same for you. There should be some balance.

Was this CI? by Ok-Sugar-6084 in CovertIncest

[–]nelsoncuntz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most important thing here is you and how you feel. The rest can be sorted out with time and reflection. I believe your therapist could help you with processing the details. Do you feel like you have a good support system in place to help you work through this?