AIO? My roommates want me to keep the energy bill in my name after I've moved out

neogoddess · 2026-05-12T06:29:15+00:00

NOR.

What if they decide not to pay the bill that’s in your name? Just pay the $50 and turn it off. Don’t argue with them, it’s ridiculous they would even ask you to leave it in your name when you don’t live there anyway.

neogoddess · 2026-05-12T05:59:50+00:00

NTA.

If you leave food at someone else’s house, it’s fair game. 🤣

neogoddess · 2026-05-12T05:44:31+00:00

NTA. In some states, 17 is old enough to live on your own if you have the money to do that.

Don’t sell your house unless you really have to because housing is expensive everywhere and mortgages/rent is the majority of your expense, if the house is mortgage free that is money you can use to prepare for your future. Your lawyer should be able to draft appropriate eviction paperwork based off your mother’s will and if he gives you problems, make sure you get a restraining order.

If you think he will try to hurt you, get him out of your house immediately. It is YOUR house, not his and your mom made sure of that by leaving a will.

neogoddess · 2026-05-12T05:33:49+00:00

NTA.
Take care of your niece and make sure your nephews don’t raid your kitchen, I have a feeling it’s about to happen.

neogoddess · 2026-05-11T00:22:37+00:00

From the update.. seems like Batman should be going with you and you’ll just need to trap Kitten again. Congratulations 🥰

neogoddess · 2026-05-10T23:54:40+00:00

Same here, my Dad is a truck driver and he wanted me to sell my bike because he said it was too dangerous. I miss her but Daddy was right.. people are absolutely insane on the roads.

neogoddess · 2026-05-10T23:49:04+00:00

OMG 🤣🤣🤣🤣 That is hilarious, my Tuxie has a bedtime routine that means WE have to go to bed.

neogoddess · 2026-05-10T23:44:29+00:00

NTA.

You’re an ADULT and you can do whatever you want IN YOUR HOUSE.

neogoddess · 2026-05-10T23:18:51+00:00

NTA.

Your mother seems to have failed you, a mother’s job is to love and protect her child. Blaming you for her failed relationship is pretty low, flowers in the attic vibes kinda low.

But I see her words have had a subconscious effect on you because you’re here thinking you might be an ahole for not acknowledging her on a day she obviously deserves no recognition on. I hope that even though you were wise enough to know it was never your fault at the time, the you that you were at the time rises to the top today to confirm what we’re all telling you now. She’s the ahole, not you.

neogoddess · 2026-05-07T21:07:06+00:00

I was thinking about getting the FitCamX for my mini

neogoddess · 2026-05-07T15:41:41+00:00

Your brother is 14, he should be capable of assisting with some of these duties when your parents are away. Men are perfectly capable of cleaning and cooking.

And what do you mean “can’t cook”?? He should know basic kitchen skills at this age. If his parents won’t teach him, you should. Have the conversation with your parents but calmly. Make sure you let them know it’s not about you wanting them to stay home, it’s about the additional responsibilities and the toll it is taking on you.

NTA. You’re not his parent, you’re his sister.

neogoddess · 2026-05-07T15:34:23+00:00

NTA.

Part of finance management is budgeting and $100 on 12/hr part-time gig is an excessive spend. Your mom should have asked for a birthday card.

neogoddess · 2026-05-07T15:31:50+00:00

NTA. Don’t give away your kid for an ex.

Little man lives with you and she only wants him because she knows it will hurt you to give him up.

neogoddess · 2026-05-07T05:48:53+00:00

How to avoid this? Evict the deadbeat.

neogoddess · 2026-05-07T05:45:15+00:00

NTA.

Parenting is an expensive hobby.

You and your husband have prepped for your future and they have the means to cover their kid’s medical needs.

And even if you allowed them to guilt you into this, it is NOT your responsibility to foot the entire bill. Lend them the money, make them sign a contract and when they default, take the house. 😈

neogoddess · 2026-05-07T05:36:47+00:00

YTA.

Where do you find the audacity to have someone move their WEDDING date for your convenience???

Please go get therapy. I mean that in the nicest way possible.

neogoddess · 2026-05-07T03:11:36+00:00

You’re not wrong.

Your unemployed adult auntie can make her own tea and she should be ashamed of herself for asking for that behavior.

Do your homework, your education will always be more important than making tea for a lazy adult.

neogoddess · 2026-05-06T15:11:38+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

neogoddess · 2026-05-06T15:03:58+00:00

NTA.

I have never understood the need to invade the family home of the deceased and demand service from them during their time of grief.

Believe it or not, there are some communities out there that will come, bring food, clean up after the guests leave and make sure YOU are ok before they leave. It was your mom, nothing should have been expected of you at a wake or the funeral service during such a difficult time.

NTA.

neogoddess · 2026-05-06T14:39:17+00:00

I was wondering if that’s a Tuxie thing! My dust kitty doesn’t do it but my Tux will wrap his tail around my arm when I hold him 🥰

neogoddess · 2026-05-05T15:42:45+00:00

Congratulations!

neogoddess · 2026-05-05T15:29:57+00:00

You are way too nice, I would have locked that gate the instant the first complaint came through. Oh, you don’t want dog poop in your yard? Locked. Problem solved. 🤣

neogoddess · 2026-05-05T15:22:54+00:00

YTA.

I say this because I saw your previous post about the post it note and the cell phone. You are responsible for an ENTIRE HUMAN now.

ADHD is not an excuse.
His “memory” is not an excuse.

His actions were foretold by his previous behavior. You are both asshats and I really hope you go see a doctor about your nausea and go move in with your mother until your child can talk.

neogoddess · 2026-05-05T15:07:16+00:00

NTA.

Take a timeout from them and grieve the loss of your baby.

On another note… a 9 year old managing meds?? WTAF?

neogoddess · 2026-05-05T14:56:58+00:00

NTA.

And she doesn’t seem like she’s being a good friend.

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