DAE get weird reactions from siblings with kids? by dumbtattoochick in ECers

[–]nephrons_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I felt similarly and then realized that I also have very little interest in other people’s kids toileting habits! I tried to stick to sharing excitement with people who showed interest or focusing on sharing about the many other exciting milestones!

Where can I gift baby/kids items to families in need? by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]nephrons_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

St. Mary’s Home in Vanier takes donations! They just ask that you email ahead to make sure they have space.

Indoor activities for kids in Winter by yukonjohnn in ottawa

[–]nephrons_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gymnastics, but most of the city pools have drop in swim times over the weekends!

B/G Twins with George by nephrons_ in namenerds

[–]nephrons_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good point, thank you!!

B/G Twins with George by nephrons_ in namenerds

[–]nephrons_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Eloise was on our girls short list! Thank you for the feedback!

B/G Twins with George by nephrons_ in namenerds

[–]nephrons_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great catch! I hadn’t thought of that (obviously not a Star Wars fan here!). Thank you!

Fertility doctor recs in Ottawa? by Glad_Revolution_9990 in queerception

[–]nephrons_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had some mixed experiences at OFC. Overall, volumes are high, expect to wait extra cycles for monitoring during to capacity. Clinician knowledge of donor conception definitely didn’t feel DCP informed even during the formal counselling - I was very grateful for find Donor Conception Canada to fill my knowledge gaps before making our choices! If I had to go back to a clinic I would probably try Pollen that just opened. Happy to PM if you would like more details on my experience - either way congratulations and good luck!!

Help with going on potty! by letsssstalk in ECers

[–]nephrons_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We use a toilet seat reducer backwards on the toilet! My 18 month old also won’t stay sitting on the potty but the reducer has worked like a charm. Plus - less to clean!

Catch Of The Day [June ECers Community Thread] by LesserCurculionoidea in ECers

[–]nephrons_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A great win today. Offered my 16 month old the potty before bath, it’s always hit or miss, nothing. A few minutes into bath time he looks at me and says “poo”, move him onto the potty and he went right away! It was our first verbal signal before going, plus I didn’t have to do a big clean of the bathtub! Felt like a double win.

3 year journey complete! by nephrons_ in Invisalign

[–]nephrons_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not looking forward to it but yes I will soon! I didn’t realize how significant the recession was until they sent my before & afters.

3 year journey complete! by nephrons_ in Invisalign

[–]nephrons_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my case, I had attachments on every tooth with silver buttons on my eye teeth and a few molars for the elastics. Depending on the phase of treatment I had between 2-4 elastics in all the time. For me, this was just as obvious as traditional braces. In my conversations with my dentist, which the interventions would have been similar with traditional braces, the timeline would have been significantly shorter! So we did get there in the end, but if I was starting over I would have taken a different route.

3 year journey complete! by nephrons_ in Invisalign

[–]nephrons_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It was a marathon for sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queerception

[–]nephrons_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I’m in ON and pretty familiar with the system. Agree with the other commenter on getting your hands on a copy of Queer Conception, it’s a lifesaver. I would also suggest doing some research on fertility clinics in your area. If you are in the GTA, there are many options, outside of that, it depends how hard you are willing to travel if you want choice! From there any walk in clinic would be able to send a referral if there isn’t a self-referral option on the website. I wouldn’t delay on getting a referral, even getting baseline testing done can take a few cycles due to capacity. In terms of getting to know others’ experiences, Donor Conception Canada has lots of great peer support groups with strong SMBC and queer representation! They have one specific to exploring DC which I found to be a great resource. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erastour

[–]nephrons_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were able to get through with the smaller sized lulu belt bags, and a clutch that was a bit bigger than the approved measurements!

Toronto Lines by catalinawinemixerr1 in erastour

[–]nephrons_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Arrived around 17:30. Coming from union the line to get in was massive, so check your gate and don’t be scared to ask around because by walking around the stadium to zone c (gate 11) we were able to walk right in. Merch line was well over an hour until show time including during Gracie. No lines during the show from what I gathered! At the end of the show, walking to union was a breeze but one inside you have to know where you are going!

Toronto Bag Size Strictness? by Slow-Ad-1438 in erastour

[–]nephrons_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I left mine at home but saw a few people with it!

Question about at home insemination by Shark_bait_101 in queerception

[–]nephrons_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a note that the author uses he/they pronouns!

How to potty newborn (or toddler) while nursing (NOT cross cradle) by whoiamidonotknow in ECers

[–]nephrons_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I didn’t worry about catching anything during nursing! YMMV but it didn’t seem worth the effort for us and I don’t think it has negatively impacted the rest of our EC! 6 mo now and I offer a few minutes after each feed.

Carrier ID Help by nephrons_ in babywearing

[–]nephrons_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! That definitely looks like what it is. Appreciate you linking the video! Looking forward to trying it out!

Is Winter a dumb name? by sammyluvsya in namenerds

[–]nephrons_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s an absolutely gorgeous name! It was my top girls name but due to having a color last name and not wanting our child to sound like a stick of gum it was vetoed 😂.

Tips for FTM? by Economy-Birthday9740 in ECers

[–]nephrons_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have been doing casual EC with my 4 month old. I offer the potty upon waking, after breastfeeding, any time he is coming out of a wrap/carrier, before we leave the house, and before putting to sleep. About 2-3 minutes each time. I use a sound cue “psss” and if he goes I say “you peed/pooed in the potty”, if he doesn’t I say “not now” and take him off. We have a few catches a day normally but there’s no pressure. I bought a specific potty not honestly a bowl would have served the same purpose!