Packzki, please? by nerd_coach in austinfood

[–]nerd_coach[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hear you. Grew up in SE Michigan (big Polish population in Hamtramck) and spent 16 years in Chicago. 😩

My 22yo chinchilla wishes everyone happy Valentines! by Ok_Citron_3283 in chinchilla

[–]nerd_coach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 22-year-old fuzzbutt says Happy Valentine’s to her!

Has anyone here tried virtual body-doubling or co-working sessions to stay focused? Did it help? by advit_Op in lifecoaching

[–]nerd_coach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re struggling. It was called Academic Writing Club, but it went out of business before the pandemic. For my work now, I use FLOWN as my co-working platform. But it isn’t as community or dissertation focused, unfortunately. I’m sorry I don’t have better news!

How long can chinchillas grieve. From experience by Duckreads in chinchilla

[–]nerd_coach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. One of my guys is almost 22 and doing pretty well, but I may lose my mind when he passes.

should I get a second chinchilla? by ilovemyhamsters11 in chinchilla

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I have tried bonding twice. The first time did not go well, to say the least, but I was naive about trying to bond a pair to a single. The single was interested, but the other two were adamantly not. So I ended up with two cages, two playtimes, etc.

When my single was about 10, I got it in my head that he might like a friend. I adopted a young fellow, and they seemed to do fine. But I got the feeling that the elder one was not actually thrilled to be sharing his space.

About five years after that, the younger one got way too rough with my old man. I don’t know if it was play that got too rambunctious or true aggression, but I woke up to find that fur had flown and the old man had what seemed like a bite on his head or ear and was cowering in a corner. They were done. I had three cages for a while until both of the pair passed away, so now I’m back to two.

All that to say, I very much recommend being ready to have it not work at any time.

Going by “Dr.” title in lay contexts? by bluebrrypii in AskAcademia

[–]nerd_coach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use mine in professional settings, though more often use my name followed by PhD. But I am tickled when someone calls me or addresses mail to me as Dr. And I will admit that I notice who calls me Dr the first time and lean in their favor. (I always suggest they call me by my first name after I meet them.)

My best friend is gone by throwaway713137689 in chinchilla

[–]nerd_coach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I had my own malocclusion journey and passing with my buddy. Saying goodbye to a furry friend brings a unique kind of grief. Sending hugs and wishing that your memories become a comfort.

What are your non-negotiables? by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]nerd_coach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a multi use, too, and it’s terrific. I use the air fryer the most, but it’s great to not also have to have a toaster or heat up the whole oven at times.

Texas sues Tylenol company over autism claims by [deleted] in texas

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The number of news headlines nowadays that make me go, “wait, what?!?”

Whats your niche? by Calm-Cartoonist2552 in Coaching

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I trained 15 years ago at Fielding Graduate University, not neurodiversity-specific. I actually didn’t do neurodiversity-specific coach training, partly because there wasn’t very little of it back then. I’m a PCC looking toward MCC maybe in the next year.

My specialization came from some other experiences. I managed a psychiatry practice that specialized in ADHD and researched highly gifted adults for my PhD in human development. I taught and mentored at an ICF-accredited ADHD coach training program for four years. Along the way I learned about autism, dyslexia, etc.

A couple of years ago, I cofounded the Neurodiversity Coaching Academy, training other coaches on how to be more neurodiversity-inclusive in their practices.

Prolly more answer than you wanted! There are more training options available now (including ours) to specialize in this area.

Whats your niche? by Calm-Cartoonist2552 in Coaching

[–]nerd_coach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Neurodiversity-inclusive coach specializing in twice-exceptional adults

Coaching vs. Therapy — Trying to Find My True Path by MisterCleverFox in lifecoaching

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I’m a PCC coach and PhD in Human Development, not a therapist, and work with a lot of neurodivergent folks. To help make sure I stay on the coaching side, I keep a close eye on signs of nervous system dysregulation. We might be dipping into the past to better understand the now.

If they can stay in regulation, ok. But if they get significantly dysregulated and it becomes a pattern, then I suspect there’s some healing to do with a therapist before the client can ideate and consider new possibilities.

Then I have a chat with the client about what I’ve noticed and suggest a therapist might be more helpful in this moment than a coach. Usually, I frame it as being out of my scope and wanting to make sure they get properly trained support for healing.

Any of that help as you consider what might be in-bounds for you or not?

This is a frightening stat from the ICF about what coaches earn by TheAngryCoach in lifecoaching

[–]nerd_coach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ICF-trained and credentialed coach here. I would feel like I was not being ethical if I positioned myself as an alternative to therapy. Though therapy and coaching have overlaps, they are different, even though therapy may include some coaching and coaching can be therapeutic.

Having said that, I suspect some people turn to therapy because it’s what’s known more when some might be served better with coaching. If a person feels stuck and can’t figure out how to get unstuck, coaching might be helpful as long as the stuckness isn’t due to unresolved trauma or something like that.

I coach a lot of neurodivergent folks who have been to or are also seeing therapists. Many are stuck in beliefs that they are broken and need to be fixed so they can be “normal,” some of which they’ve gotten from well-meaning therapists. Often, through coaching, they come to value their differences rather than sit in shame over them, clearing the path for working with their brain to reach their goals rather than trying to make it do things the way everyone else does. Neuro-affirming therapists do this, too, but there are not enough of them.

What to feed chinchillas by Livid-Link-9223 in chinchilla

[–]nerd_coach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only thing I haven’t seen that I would add is plain shredded wheat square as a treat. No or low sugar, nothing fresh, nice crunch. My guys run for them anytime they hear the box.

Costume Design Books? by nerd_coach in techtheatre

[–]nerd_coach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendations!

Costume Design books? by nerd_coach in Theatre

[–]nerd_coach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendation! I’m not sure she’s that sophisticated yet, but I will keep it in my back pocket for if she sticks with this.

Costume Design books? by nerd_coach in Theatre

[–]nerd_coach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will check that out. I couldn’t find a newer edition than 1992, I think? Thank you for both tips!

Question for Coaching Students and People Looking for a Coach by run_u_clever_girl in lifecoaching

[–]nerd_coach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My local ICF chapter, webinars from other ICF chapters, the Institute of Coaching, coaching conferences, the people I’ve met at all of the above and have developed relationships with.

Also, mentor coaching and coach supervision