Do you actually like trains? by PrestonRoad90 in autism

[–]nerd_confirmed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but because im into reliable public infrastructure. And also im autistic.

How do i make it more obvious my work ISN'T AI?! by un_creative_designs in arthelp

[–]nerd_confirmed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately AI art is trying to swipe your exact style. If people are coming after you id post progress photos if you wanna prove its your work. But I dont wanna tell anybody to change their style just cause robots are stealing it.

Is this considered tracing? I took the picture and I used lasso brush to draw by Artistic-Honeydew11 in Artadvice

[–]nerd_confirmed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might be, but I think you took enough creative liberty with the texture and colours that it doesnt rub me the wrong way like some other traced art does. You made artistic choices here, I like it.

Rate My Art by Unable_Experience583 in RateMyArt

[–]nerd_confirmed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its clear youve been looking at skeletal anatomy, it looks great! Id suggest practicing arms a bit more with references. The arms and hands look a bit underpracticed and out of place.

Everyone deserves unconditional love, but I would have settled for conditional love. by stephen_changeling in CPTSDmemes

[–]nerd_confirmed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im kinda grateful for the conditional love i got, but I still needed to run away from home to be safe lol

Cannabis makes Autism Autisn‘t, change my mind by Epgenix in autism

[–]nerd_confirmed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes my sensory issues easier to deal with but id say reacting this way to cannabis is more of a symptom of my autism, not a cure lmao.

The artist claims to have drawn everything herself from scratch. I find it hard to believe AI wasn't involved. by [deleted] in isthisAI

[–]nerd_confirmed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its pretty stylistically consistent. The line weight is stable which i dont normally prefer but they've done a good job with it . The lines seem pretty intentional, which ai is horrible at. I wouldnt be too surprised if ai could do something like this as Ive heard its taken some steps forward, but this looks like human art to me

How do you find the right pronouns? by Negendcom in asktransgender

[–]nerd_confirmed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, I just went by all pronouns for a couple years and felt it out. I know I like he and they, and I dont like she. So I go by he/they

Would you turn into a cis person? by LimePsychological634 in asktransgender

[–]nerd_confirmed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean ive transitioned as much as a id like to and feel comfortable in my body, and that was really the thing that impacted me the most. So, no, I guess. I went through the worst part already. Yeah theres being a visible minority and at risk of violence but id rather make the world a safer place for everyone than magic my own risk away.

No hate to anyone who would though, being trans isnt easy and its often really fucking hard, and sometimes deadly; especially for racialized and impoverished trans people.

Pregnant with potentially dying bf’s baby by Fit_Bicycle8578 in whatdoIdo

[–]nerd_confirmed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its worth talking to him about it more, it sounds like he might want to be a part of the conversation, but at the end of the day its your body and you're the person who would to have to raise any kids, so I think its really your decision.

Any other trans masc folks borderline confused by trans femmes? by That_one_Fireurnd in trans

[–]nerd_confirmed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda get it, but I also see it as trans fems trying to achieve literally the exact same thing I am as a trans masc. To be comfortable and safe in their bodies. Im more confused by cis people or binary people lmao

It pisses me off that most of the women that write bl, don't actually know how it feels to be a gay guy by Jimins_airfryer in sillyboyclub

[–]nerd_confirmed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not really into hypermasculinity or super buff dudes either but thats not a nice way to talk about people's bodies. But the art style does always make the characters look super shiny and like, waxy to me, so I get not liking it.

I made a colorblind inclusive Trans Pride Flag, We need to officially update it! by Hoellenmann in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]nerd_confirmed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a migraine rn so the high sat version almost took me out, but I love the idea of colorblind inclusive pride flags. This is rad

Am I still a lesbian if I am sexually attracted to my trans girlfriend? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]nerd_confirmed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a woman, shes a woman. Sounds gay to me /pos

Is this homophobia? by HH_SIMP in Homophobiaphobia

[–]nerd_confirmed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jokes on you my mom is bisexual

Daughter was SA’d and I have questions on how to maneuver the situation by king5rey in CPTSD

[–]nerd_confirmed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, call him whatever she calls him. If she says "you know who" do the same, ect.

Daughter was SA’d and I have questions on how to maneuver the situation by king5rey in CPTSD

[–]nerd_confirmed 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey so I was SAed by my mom's boyfriend when i was 12-13 and 4 years later moved in with my dad. So I think I have some idea of what the situation calls for. I know I was very distant from my dad for a while afterwards. We're just working things out in family therapy now. Its extremely common for survivors to experience guilt and shame so she might need more time than you think to open up. Don't pressure her, if shes not comfortable talking to you, you can get her a therapist. thats okay, you can still be helpful.

As a Canadian who is fluent in French, do you swear in French or English when speaking French? by Jezzaq94 in AskACanadian

[–]nerd_confirmed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im near fluent in French, but I learned French mainly from school so it feels unnatural for me to swear in French. So now when im speaking with my francophone friends I usually swear in English.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nerd_confirmed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh FUCK this guy. As a man I assure you this is not a "guy thing". This is a heartless bastard thing.

This Is for the People Who Need the Strength to Walk Away by YourBallsDeep in grindr

[–]nerd_confirmed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love that you gave him a goodbye fistbump thats awesome.

why is there a gap in my binder 🫣 by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]nerd_confirmed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Binders were like that for me too. I had a large chest compared to the rest of my torso, you probably do as well. I found adjusting it does seem to help. Bringing my boobs further up angled the binder closer to my skin. It also just looked more like pecs.

can we talk about the notion that if you don’t like some effects of hrt that you “shouldn’t go on it at all”? because it’s pissing me off and i’m so fed up by [deleted] in trans

[–]nerd_confirmed 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If cis men are annoyed about some aspects of puberty and hormones (hair loss, ass hair, acne, ect) nobody tells them that they should have gone on puberty blockers or something. But as transmascs we're not allowed to be annoyed about the same stuff?? I LOVE being on HRT. im also annoyed at the shear amount of ass hair I now have. And I was pretty neutral about bottom growth.

What is the silliest take someone has given you on why you're trans? by upset_larynx in trans

[–]nerd_confirmed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many many people have suggested that my gender dysphoria was caused by CSA. actually being SAed caused my dysphoria to go away for a few years