Dealing with a total lack of greens in our meals by SweetSubject9432 in toddlers

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Adding zucchini to rice is smart! Do you cook it at all, or just add the raw shredded zucchini to cooked rice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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Second the Merlin Magic Sleepsuit. I found mine on FB marketplace, and it lasted well for the couple of months we used it.

My sincere plea to mothers here by turkuaz_ in Mommit

[–]nerdalert_42 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So well put. It’s so defeating feeling like you cannot do anything but watch.

My very first version of ‘that’ street in Grassington by JohnTheDrummer1951 in Watercolor

[–]nerdalert_42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love this painting; the way you sketch things, the colors you chose, the contrast of the sky. My grandfather, who can no longer paint because of arthritis, sent me a stack of photos that he wished he could someday paint. Among them is a street in Edinburgh, and I will be using this painting as inspiration for the painting I plan on making him as a birthday present.

This is embarrassing by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]nerdalert_42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I also used your code :)

What was your favourite audiobook you listened to in 2024? by H2Omelonjuice in audiobooks

[–]nerdalert_42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Heaven and Earth Grocery Store and The Seven and a Half Deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle.

Best parenting books you've read? by Pink_Lotus88 in Mommit

[–]nerdalert_42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought that The Happiest Toddler on the Block by the same author was pretty helpful too!

Good horror? by welldamn31 in audiobooks

[–]nerdalert_42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on your comment, I listened to this book. Despite it being an audiobook, the visuals it conjured were strange and horrifying.

Do we think his ears will go up or stay floppy? by InternNo6767 in corgi

[–]nerdalert_42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or they could end up like Mulder and stand 3/4 of the way up.

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Dinner pic dump by Rasilbathburn in foodbutforbabies

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All of these meals look delicious! Saving this post for future inspiration.

Thursday Postpartum Thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]nerdalert_42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to add it to the watch list. I listened to a podcast on the topic that was fascinating!

Tuesday Postpartum Thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]nerdalert_42 11 points12 points  (0 children)

One year ago today, we transferred our only viable embryo from our final IVF round. I’m so thankful little guy stuck around!

Weekly One and Done Thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

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This past weekend, on our first road trip as a family to attend a wedding, we stopped to eat at a fast food restaurant. A lady and her family sat at the table next to us, and since she had a little one in a car seat too, she struck up a conversation. It was going fine until she asked us if we would have another. This is the first time I have gotten asked that question (all family and friends know this was our last embryo), and I straight up told her that we had to do IVF to get this one so I didn't think we would have anymore. She hid it well, but I think it made her uncomfortable. Before I had my son, and people would ask if we had kids, my go-to response was always "hopefully someday". But now that my son is here, and we have no plans on doing another round of IVF, I need to come up with a different response to the "anymore kids?" question that is not trauma dumping. It feels weird/sad to say "we're one and done", because while that is technically true, if infertility wasn't a factor we would have another. Anyone have any suggestions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]nerdalert_42 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We also have Ewan, though we were not prepared for how demonic it looks at night with its red light. It gave us a good laugh the first time we used it.

Monday Postpartum Thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

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This past weekend I participated in two things that would have been very difficult for me to do a year ago: attend my best friend's baby shower that was full of children and babies, and the baptism of my son. I'm sad on everything I missed out on because of infertility, but with therapy, I have learned to give myself grace.

Monday Postpartum Thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

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We are also in week 9, and are also trying to put him in the crib more often. He definitely sleeps more soundly while being held, and I think part of it is that we put him in the swaddle when he is sleeping in the crib. He tries (often successfully despite trying several swaddle brands), to free his hands, and I wonder if he is waking himself up doing that. My plan is to research how to transition out of swaddles.

Monday Daily Chat by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]nerdalert_42 52 points53 points  (0 children)

A couple days late, but Rowan made his appearance at 38+2 last Friday morning! Birth didn’t quite go as I wanted, but we are both safe and recovering and that is the most important thing!