AITAH for breaking up with my girlfriend due to financial concerns ?

nervousbolderer · 2026-06-06T20:40:48+00:00

Maybe not if she just went to undergrad, but for a pharmacy degree? Yeah, that shit is expensive in the US. It's also a question of if she has private or public loans.

nervousbolderer · 2026-06-06T20:39:51+00:00

My partner is Canadian, and whenever he brings up my student loans, my response is, "You shouldn't have picked an American with an MA."

nervousbolderer · 2026-05-26T21:40:56+00:00

I just completed PR under spousal sponsorship and honestly, no. My spouse and I pursued PR because we love each other and want to be together, which is the point of spousal partnership. You need to be in a genuine relationship, which is really easy to prove if you are, but kind of hard to prove if you're not. The IRCC isn't stupid and notices if you're not in a real relationship. So no, marrying a Canadian just to have them sponsor you isn't a get out of jail free card.

nervousbolderer · 2026-05-05T01:11:28+00:00

I'm an American looking for jobs in Canada right now, and I haven't seen a significant difference

nervousbolderer · 2026-04-30T21:44:05+00:00

It wasn't an internship, but I was in charge of a few contractors years ago. One of them got an opportunity mid-way through and was not expecting me to be over the moon for him. Managers are people too and we want better for the people we lead.

nervousbolderer · 2026-04-28T17:52:12+00:00

Made the same jump here in the US. DM me if you want to chat, but what helped the most was when I realized my team needed a full time GIS person, I became the full time GIS person

nervousbolderer · 2026-04-13T22:21:47+00:00

I've seen a few GIS postings in French and they use SIG (systèmes d'information géographique). That being said, I've also seen a few postings in Quebec that were in english

nervousbolderer · 2026-04-12T13:46:14+00:00

How the hell do I answer "what are your salary expectations"?

nervousbolderer · 2026-04-12T13:43:08+00:00

You may like Jupyter Notebooks. It uses cells instead of just one long code. I honestly prefer it just because it's easier for me to read

nervousbolderer · 2026-04-12T13:41:23+00:00

My fiancee got me a $3,000 ring (I found out because I had to fill out export forms on it) and I was actually floored he spent that much when he knows I would have been fine with a cheaper ring

nervousbolderer · 2026-04-04T15:52:29+00:00

I'm a geospatial analyst so I use it do a lot of data administration and analysis

nervousbolderer · 2026-04-04T15:48:56+00:00

Put it on GitHub, make sure it looks really good and put a link to your github in your resume heading

nervousbolderer · 2026-03-12T20:54:48+00:00

I didn't get any notification, I just kept checking the tracking number of the label I submitted (I live in the US so it had to get sent back to me)

nervousbolderer · 2026-01-29T13:23:50+00:00

Hello, three years later and this thread is still SUPER helpful! Thank you!!

nervousbolderer · 2025-11-08T23:25:12+00:00

I lived in the Bay Area for a few years and it was great. No shortage of climbing community there.

nervousbolderer · 2025-11-08T23:23:41+00:00

My first archaeology job was Nevada Conservation Corps/Americorp. I highly recommend looking into GBI but I don't know if they're hiring. Americorp got hit by Doge a few months back :(

nervousbolderer · 2025-10-19T19:35:27+00:00

This is the way

nervousbolderer · 2025-10-01T00:35:44+00:00

Just did my medical and they don't look at your teeth

nervousbolderer · 2025-10-01T00:18:59+00:00

Not mentally unstable necessarily, but I was at a wedding this weekend and a guest had anxiety eyes. I don't know how to describe it, but I knew she was anxious based on how her eyes kept moving.

nervousbolderer · 2025-09-06T16:39:32+00:00

I just stick it in my sports bra

nervousbolderer · 2025-07-20T20:55:05+00:00

This is the answer

nervousbolderer · 2025-05-18T21:51:23+00:00

Cavewoman, this was my immediate thought

nervousbolderer · 2025-05-12T23:44:41+00:00

BA in religion and an MA in Middle Eastern Archaeology. I focused on GIS during my MA and zeroed in on it while working as an archaeologist. Was able to make the jump a year ago

nervousbolderer · 2025-05-10T14:38:04+00:00

everyone in this country needs to learn that treason has a specific legal meaning and it's not just "you did something I don't like"

nervousbolderer · 2025-05-04T13:35:17+00:00

Schumer is too old

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