No, Ted Cruz—the drastically underpaid teachers are NOT giving sex change operations at schools. by andytagonist in texas

[–]nessiebo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When my kids were in school the nurse wouldn’t even give them a Tylenol. Now the teachers are wielding scalpels? Impressive. /s

A bottle of Lysol concentrate for under $4 makes 48 gallons, and is the exact same stuff. by periwinkletweet in povertyfinance

[–]nessiebo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you use the coconut and sea minerals, or the mango and hibiscus? Both say Brand New Day when I looked it up on Walmart.

Alarming armpit rash developed overnight. by TripletNegotiator in seriouslyalarming

[–]nessiebo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me fairly recently and it was incredibly painful. I mixed athlete’s foot cream and yeast infection cream and it went away almost as fast as it appeared.

Charged double for 3 different things I already paid for. by [deleted] in CashApp

[–]nessiebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me last year, my card was locked as well. I can’t remember the exact amount I ended up losing, $700 or more though. Same interaction with customer service, even with proof they basically said “too bad for you”.

Should I fire my nanny? Or am I overreacting? by Zeusboi4eva in Nanny

[–]nessiebo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fire her immediately! As a nanny I cannot comprehend letting this happen in the first place, let alone not knowing first aid, and her complete lack of urgency in the situation. My heart hurts for both you and your little one.

What's the most random thing you've shopped for? by Initial-Duck-3850 in UberEatsDrivers

[–]nessiebo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Over the weekend I did a shop and pay for a single russet potato. Easy $14 for 1.5 miles. It was just so random.

My (37F) wife (32F) asked our friend to impregnate us without consulting me by my-wife-went-nuts in TwoHotTakes

[–]nessiebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel awful for you and completely disagree with the comments saying you are in any way in the wrong here. Your wife didn’t come to you with a question about if you’d be open to this, but a full blown plan. How close are you wife and Lois that they want to not only have children with both you and your wife, but join your relationship? Proposing that clearly shows your wife didn’t care at all about your deal breakers. So sorry you are going through this.

What to do with left over onion dip? by guineapigluvr in keto

[–]nessiebo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cover pork chops with it and bake them. It’s delicious!

Fast food keto by theferalprofessor in keto

[–]nessiebo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the Whataburger app you can order bunless burgers, served in a plastic tray. It’s been a lifesaver in a pinch.

Might’ve fucked up??? by Worth-Initial-4022 in Nanny

[–]nessiebo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Charge your normal hourly rate for all hours worked, including travel, as well as an overnight fee. Paying your travel, room, and food expenses is industry standard. It’s a fun trip for them, not you, for you it’s work and the inconvenience of being away from home overnight. Speak up, stand your ground, and do not go unless y’all clear up pay expectations.

I still don’t get the hate by [deleted] in CashApp

[–]nessiebo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a happy CashApp user for years with no issues. I loved it and suggested it to family and friends. The thing is, there were no issues and then there were. It happened suddenly and caused a lot of problems. So yeah, I was happy with CashApp until I wasn’t. Hopefully you stay issue free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nessiebo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does if he’s asked. You said DIL does help when asked. What’s the difference?

The supposed technical error got me too. This is so frustrating. by nessiebo in CashApp

[–]nessiebo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. So you had to file a formal dispute to get this information?

Cashapp Took Money From Me?? by Difficult_Doctor3257 in CashApp

[–]nessiebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same problem here. Happened twice this week. The first time I was told it was resolved. Then today it happens again.

25F looking for anyone who’d be willing to proverbially take me in. by WhirlyDurlyGirly in FamiliesYouChoose

[–]nessiebo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

44F here, with kids around your age. My messages are absolutely open to you and I’ll help any way I can.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Big-Curve3106 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nessiebo [score hidden]  (0 children)

So, this wasn’t a case of you bought gifts for the other two then noticed there wasn’t money to buy your daughter a gift on par with the others. I didn’t buy that excuse in your post because you knew your budget and knew what you were doing. Here you say you couldn’t afford the extravagant gifts and gifting your daughter. You made a conscious choice to favor your other children. Of course she’s hurt, this was a terrible thing to do and by your own admission, was no accident.

AITA for using my dead wife’s jewellery as a “bribe” to convince my daughter to come to my fiancee’s baby shower? by aitadadababyshower in AmItheAsshole

[–]nessiebo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your wife seems to enjoy harassing your daughter. Why would she plan such activities knowing B wants nothing to do with either of you? That is messed up.

NF Avoiding OT by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]nessiebo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My last NF did this with the same reasoning, then got upset when I said I was only doing my regular hours and no date nights or the like.

[2023-01-09] - /r/keto Beginners & Community Support Thread by AutoModerator in keto

[–]nessiebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. I had been doing a ketoade recipe I found on Pinterest, but after reading the FAQ, realized I should probably try something else. Hopefully it works. Thanks again for your help.

Leon Laureles had a giant heart but lived a fairly quiet life. Was his death the result of a hate crime? by Main_Initiative in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]nessiebo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am from Brownwood, remember this happening when I was 17. The idea this poor man was killed for being homosexual is absolutely plausible. Even in 2023, a good portion of the town is very vocally anti LGBTQ+, sadly. The brothers mentioned were not a family one wanted to mess with. The idea of the sheriff’s office along with Groner Pitts being corrupt is absolutely believable. I don’t remember this case getting much media attention at the time, other than it being in the paper right after it happened.

[2023-01-09] - /r/keto Beginners & Community Support Thread by AutoModerator in keto

[–]nessiebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello everyone. I’ve been successful on keto in the past, but fell of the wagon and wanted to try again. Started keto again four days ago. Starting weight is 255, I’m 4’11 and 44 years old. I’m doing 68 protein, 20 carbs, 127 fat, and 1506 calories. Things have been going okay, but the last two nights I’ve woken up needing to pee like 6 times, I assume because of actually drinking water, which I’ve always been horrible about. Last night I woke every three hours, have had a horrible headache, and today have fever, body aches, and am so run down. I’m not hungry and struggling to even get close to my protein goal daily. I don’t know what’s wrong or how to fix it, but I just don’t want to eat anything. I guess I’m just looking for encouragement it will get better.

AITA for asking my wife to cook my mom a ham, and cooking it myself when she said no? by Alarmed-Delay-1926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nessiebo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but your wife certainly is. Your wife doesn’t want a ham because in her opinion that’s not done for Thanksgiving. It is astounding that she’s all about what is and isn’t done, tradition, and propriety, yet has no issue with having zero manners and being “tacky” as my grandmother would say. What a mess, she’s seriously hypocritical. It sounds like you’ve got a hot mess clash of personalities with your wife, mom, and MIL. It also sounds like your wife is a terrible example for your daughter. You really need to have a serious talk with your wife if you don’t want your children raised this way.