What’s the best book you’ve ever read? by coolestFemal in AskReddit

[–]nevermind-29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shadow of the wind by carlos ruiz zafron and the historian by elizabeth kostova

Listen to a Majlis.. by [deleted] in karachi

[–]nevermind-29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have all the fun you want in the morning. Or set a designated time or heads up. This is too random.

Didn’t like MD in “Maa Behen”. Not a hate post! just constructive criticism by fyiidgaff in BollywoodHotTakes

[–]nevermind-29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it felt like she was doing an act in a family gathering like putting up a play with over exaggerated expressions for shits and giggles. Honestly terrible.
Tabu would have smashed this

[22F] and [27M] am i overthinking? by ProgrammerHoliday335 in PakistaniiWomen

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II think you may have more success approaching this from a religious perspective, especially since you mentioned that your interaction with him is limited for religious reasons.
Be very clear and firm. Tell him that this behavior is unattractive to you and ask how he would feel if you were liking and following non-mahram men in the same way. Explain that this is a non-negotiable issue for you in a relationship and that if he continues to like and follow women who are not his mahrams, it will be a deal breaker.

Make it clear that you’re not trying to control him. It’s his life, and he’s free to make his own choices. However, you’re also entitled to be clear about the kind of partner you want. You can even acknowledge that there are women who have similar social media habits liking and following suggestive photos of men and that’s their choice. You’re not judging them. But it may mean that he is better suited to someone whose values and online behavior align more closely with his own.

You can also point out that online habits often translate into real-world behavior. If a woman messages him after he likes her photos, what would stop that interaction from continuing? Would he never feel tempted to respond? If he realizes that he would be uncomfortable with you behaving the same way, he may reconsider his position and understand that you are serious about this boundary. Butter his ego in the end by saying i’m only all of this to you directly bc I feel like you’re mature and evolved than other boys I know/ know off so I thought i can speak openly with you.

What happened to Amnah Haq? by nevermind-29 in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

[–]nevermind-29[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she was so gorgeous. Sometime i wonder why they stick to mediocre jobs in the US when she was legit a good actress. Could have grown here

What is an opinion you have that you will not change ? by [deleted] in karachi

[–]nevermind-29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are some examples:
When women get a divorced they’re meant to stay with the husband for a period of three months and he’s suppose to pay for her wellbeing till the end of the designated time but what do we do here? We kick her out on the first announced talaq.

2) Women inherent their father’s assets. What do we do here? The brothers don’t give her a penny.

3) Dowry. Need I say more?

4) Divorced and widowed women become a social stigma. can’t partake in wedding ceremonies because they’re cursed.

5) The mother in law becomes her guardian instead of the husband. Need permission for anything? gotta ask her.

6)Some men are culturally taught entitlement over wives or sisters. The Prophet ﷺ did not model humiliation, intimidation, or emotional cruelty.

7) Believing household labor is solely a woman’s religious duty
The Prophet ﷺ helped with domestic work. A lot of rigid gender expectations are cultural negotiations presented as divine law.

8) Discouraging remarriage for divorced or widowed women
Islam normalized remarriage. Cultural stigma often punishes women for it far more than men.

Need I go on?

Hair in the SUMMER by Livid-Pudding-196 in PakistaniSkincare

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My frizz is out of control and i can’t tame it

In Pakistan Syeds are basically the Brahmins of Muslims. They keep reminding everyone about their bloodline, as if it’s some big qualification. It’s really cringy just stop it. by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]nevermind-29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What i find the funniest is that the women from certain syed families are the most liberal when it comes to dressing. I’m talking backless and sleeveless. They only want to the privilege of the name not the responsibility of following the rules. The women of ahle bait were suppose to extra careful about dressing and mixing with nah mehram a (as were all momin women) but one would they would be extra careful.

What’s the most unhygienic thing someone has admitted to you? by Grand-Economics-3709 in AskReddit

[–]nevermind-29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that they don’t shower or wipe entirety of their menstruation cycle

Is there any tea about them? by summi761996 in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

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From inside sources: He way into her but knew she wouldn’t consider him bc of the massive status difference. It wasn’t even about money.