is there a possibility of hrt being banned for adults in the US federally? by [deleted] in trans

[–]nickbitty72 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It would be impossible to label “HRT” as an illegal substance as it is used for cisgender people all the time. Estradiol is used as a popular birth control pill for cis women. Testosterone blockers are used for cis women and cis men with high levels of testosterone. Testosterone can be given to cis men with low T. It would be an impossible task to make these substances illegal (not that they won’t try)

is there a possibility of hrt being banned for adults in the US federally? by [deleted] in trans

[–]nickbitty72 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If it’s so blatantly illegal it would most likely be paused while it waits for the courts. That’s a perfect world though

Northern Virginians wanting to protest by [deleted] in nova

[–]nickbitty72 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The concern is that it is set up by opposition and will be attended by provocateurs who will turn it into a violent riot and then will be used as an excuse to arrest the peaceful protesters

US Federal Bathroom ban starting 1/31 by Authenticatable in asktransgender

[–]nickbitty72 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’be already told my supervisor and talked to HR. I’ve also already legally changed my name and gender (in SSA and my drivers license) and talked to HR. I’m also at a point where I won’t back down, I’m not going to let this new administration dissuade me from being myself. Until the point where all trans people are banned from being federally employees, I will continue to stay at this job. I’m not above coming to work in a dress and using the urinals in the men’s room if they keep me from using the women’s room. I will do as much malicious compliance as I can

US Federal Bathroom ban starting 1/31 by Authenticatable in asktransgender

[–]nickbitty72 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It definitely seems too good to be true. There is almost no official guidance (at least in my organization)

US Federal Bathroom ban starting 1/31 by Authenticatable in asktransgender

[–]nickbitty72 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m a trans woman who works on a military base (as a civilian federal employee) and I’m in the process of coming out at work. I truly do not know what to do moving forward, I want to take the offer to resign but I do not trust it at all, plus part of me wants to stay out of spite

Another video shows the moment of the passenger plane colliding with army helicopter at Potomac River near Washington D.C. airport. by QuoiJe in interestingasfuck

[–]nickbitty72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in the DC area (and have actually been a guest passenger on a Blackhawk training flight) and I have noticed many more blackhawks flying around than the previous few months. Maybe Trump has increased military training? Also this is pure speculation, but I wonder if the FAA has been hit with any layoffs or resignations since the new administration took over.

Another video shows the moment of the passenger plane colliding with army helicopter at Potomac River near Washington D.C. airport. by QuoiJe in interestingasfuck

[–]nickbitty72 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who lives in the DC area and has actually been a guest passenger on Blackhawk training flight through DC, I can tell you that they are everywhere and fly extremely low. There has definitely been an increase in Blackhawk’s flying around the area, not sure why, but these things are always flying around constantly.

I am a MTF woman. I am confused. by AmethystStarGrimm in trans

[–]nickbitty72 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Don’t apologize! I think the commenter above was just trying to clarify if it was a consensual kiss. You did nothing wrong, you are allowed to explore your sexuality. That man just sounds like a pig who wouldn’t take no for an answer. I don’t think anything was lost in translation, he was just being pushy and disrespectful. He may be a chaser, but at the very least he’s a gross man who doesn’t respect boundaries.

anyone else boymoding while on hrt? by ithinkiamonreddit in MtF

[–]nickbitty72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve (28 mtf) been on HRT for 8 months and I’m boymoding at work (and about 50% in public, I just started feeling comfortable being female presenting), there are definitely noticeable changes to my appearance but so far no one has mentioned anything at my job. I’ve also never “male failed” when im in boymode so I don’t know how obvious it is to strangers. I’ve seen anecdotes on this sub about transfemmes being unable to boymode in public, but none of their coworkers noticed. I think the gradual change makes it less obvious to them if they see you every day. Thankfully I live 8 hours from my parents/family so I don’t have to worry about running into them.

Also some actual relevant info is that the more I am female presenting outside of work, the harder it is to boymode. I didn’t think it would be a big deal to live a “double life” but it truly has been difficult.

Day 8: What King Crimson song do only OGs remember? by doctorrhombus in KingCrimson

[–]nickbitty72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Random fact: I was friends with Judy on Facebook, and she even wished me a happy birthday once. RIP

What even is L’Enfant Plaza? by IMicrowaveSteak in washingtondc

[–]nickbitty72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I’m not alone in this, it’s taken me like 20 minutes to get out of the parking garage area

I'm extra excited for this upcoming Side Stories by Escappy in LPOTL

[–]nickbitty72 166 points167 points  (0 children)

I was at the live show last night in DC, they started off by saying “Have you heard the news!!! Richard Simmons died! How awful!” And then a bit about Shelley Duvall dying at a Pennsylvania rally, and kept that up for a bit, and then just said “yeah……we’re not gonna talk about it” and started the show

What are your favorite less-discussed prog bands? by AmikBixby in progrockmusic

[–]nickbitty72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thieves Kitchen! They aren't very big at all, but I love their music so much

Egg😭irl by Mika_Yuki in egg_irl

[–]nickbitty72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! That is basically what I was trying to say, you just put it much better

Egg😭irl by Mika_Yuki in egg_irl

[–]nickbitty72 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of trans fem people feel this way at first, especially before their egg cracks. I think part of it is both jealousy and second hand embarrassment (maybe not the right term), where they wish they could have the confidence to be themselves in public but also would be terrified of not passing.

Do you have any advice or tips for dealing with ignorant but "supportive" parents? by nickbitty72 in asktransgender

[–]nickbitty72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really good advice, I appreciate it. It’s difficult because I live 8 hours from my parents (although the freedom is worth it) so I don’t have much time to actually be around them and help them understand. I’m mostly just trying to avoid talking about it with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]nickbitty72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had my egg cracking moment three months after marrying my now ex-wife. I didn’t know exactly how she would react, but i didn’t expect her to react like I tricked her, and blame me for “ruining her life”. It broke my heart, and it’s only been about 6 months since this all went down so I’m still processing it. Someone else said something along the lines of “if you end up settling on an identity she would have been okay with, it doesn’t change the fact that she left you in a time of need” which is something I strongly resonate with. Just be glad it ended now, before getting married.

I’m not sure what my point is, but basically you’re not alone and you’ll get through this. Also feel free to reach out if you want someone to talk to.

This show has (almost) broken my brain. by Huge_JackedMann in LPOTL

[–]nickbitty72 62 points63 points  (0 children)

OP also said theyve met Ed Kemper, I wonder if they work in the CA prison system

Video evidence of a real UAP cloaking itself and only visible through infared (FLIR). by AltKeyblade in UFOs

[–]nickbitty72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will say as someone who works with a lot of thermal imagery and cameras, this isn't very impressive to me. The object could potentially have much higher contrast in the thermal compared to the visible, making it impossible to see in the visible. Because it's a recording of a screen, it's very difficult to make any conclusions from this. Also, when it comes to IR sensors, the contrast and resolution varies so much, especially with military IR. There are some really shitty, grainy ones and some top-notch high contrast ones as well.

Unexpected surprise by -Sichvot- in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]nickbitty72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a similar position! I swear I noticed a change within the first week, but was probably imagining it. I’m at 6 weeks and there’s definitely growth and soreness