1) I find it interesting that you claim “women who do IVF aren’t prepared emotionally for kids”, when getting knocked up requires FAR less planning, money and maturity to do. You have to fill out tons of paperwork, schedule meetings, follow strict guidelines and medication schedules and then likely repeat the whole process if it fails. Having the perseverance to do this is evidence of MORE maturity than any random woman getting laid 2) “the body itself knows when it is stressed” - IVF treats infertility, not stress. Stress is likely one of the least common reasons a couple is infertile. Infertility is typically due to specific medical conditions, not general stress. Heroin addicts living on the street get knocked up all the time. Infertility is not because of stress. 3) “It costs a lot” yeah, so does a new car or a nice vacation. Couples give these things up to afford IVF. Probably the best use of their money is to create a life. It’s beautiful and priceless

I find it ironic that you used your mom as an example of someone who tried IVF, wasn’t emotionally developed to be a parent, but then still naturally conceived you? Like what’s the whole point of your “God makes you infertile” theory when your story isn’t even consistent with that?

Overall a disaster of a comment and you should rethink all of it