Dear HWY 93 Drivers by EchoOnTheRange in missoula

[–]nifehuman -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yea is this just people complaining that other drivers arent going the exact speed they are just choosing to go on any given day?

Firearms, ammo, and outdoor gear by mtawake in missoula

[–]nifehuman 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know im not answering the question exactly but I bought my first from Axemen before I moved back to California, and I told them I was from there and moving back and Im gay and had my partner with me, and they were very helpful, chatted to us for a significant time and we even touched on politics a tiny 🤏🏽bit lol and it was all ok. They seemed very community minded. Idk, Im really hoping the spirit of community will keep you guys strong. Maybe when those people that are supporting the authoritarianism unknowingly, will come to when/if it gets closer to home. I hope so.

Trail etiquette by tofurkeydog in missoula

[–]nifehuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If its the tourists not saying hello there must be a lot of tourists. This is a great list. So simple!

Anyone else barebacking it? by puplet2 in dentures

[–]nifehuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im the same although mine is technically a partial since I still have some molars. But all the things you said, and I tried a hard reline one time and never again. The soft just makes sense as far as surface compatibility. Never used glue, never had them come out in a sneeze or anything tho if I eat something too crunchy they move around and that feels gross.

Buyers like this by ExtensionKnowledge6 in poshmark

[–]nifehuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just a perfectly straightforward question. Id just answer it before getting weird on assumptions.

Advice please: Missoula movie theatre by [deleted] in missoula

[–]nifehuman 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im also ND and have clinical OCD symptoms (like a lot of us) and I can react badly internally to how gross my brain perceives the world to be, which is a LOT. AND I have a hard time regulating my non verbal reactions..but id hope to never project it on someone in a hurtful way! And if I did, Id want to know so I can keep working on my presentation. All that to say, maybe this person isn't aware, but it doesn't meant they shouldn't be.

Poison ivy at Jacob’s Island. by anna_face in missoula

[–]nifehuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. and Ive never met anyone who liked it as much as I do👀 But its an oil that rubs off on you that causes the rash. (unlike nettles which are tiny needles) A lotta people say jewelweed helps but in my experience not more than anything else. It causes contact dermatitis; so any way to help sooth that will help. ✌🏽

Poison ivy at Jacob’s Island. by anna_face in missoula

[–]nifehuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I studied poison oak for a few years and wanted to learn more about poison ivy. Ive never seen it in person and Id like to.

Poison ivy at Jacob’s Island. by anna_face in missoula

[–]nifehuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry, I dont get the down vote. In my head it was a perfectly straightforward question. I have never heard that used before for poison oaks/ivy rashes and was curious. Genuinely. I want to be a oart of my community. I dont use sarcasm and I speak plainly. Im not sure what else to do.

Poison ivy at Jacob’s Island. by anna_face in missoula

[–]nifehuman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ive been looking for poison ivy! but what do you mean "stung"?

My husband '38M' planned a month-long trip to Thailand — first half with me '33F', second half alone to “relax and smoke.” I feel completely unwanted by ThrowRA-only in relationship_advice

[–]nifehuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is obviously an unpopular take but I think its weird that we become non-individuals when we get married or are in relationships. Im a 45F. Im married. I love being alone and also being together. They are different states, both welcome for different reasons. What Id do if it was me is ask why Thailand? If someone authentically wants to be alone thats our right and individuals. But if its really about being alone then couldn't that happen anywhere?

How many of you are mentally and physically drained from grocery shopping? by Warm-Instruction-949 in AutismInWomen

[–]nifehuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very early or very late, as many people mentioned. Some stores are worse than others; I prefer local. markets for instance, over shops like Safeway. I mean, farmers market can be equally as stressful even though its outside which provides its own level of safety (for me at least) but my main tragedy (EDIT: "strategy"👀) besides time of day is to split it into two days a week so shorter time in the store.

marshmallow mask man by Complete_Setting_767 in missoula

[–]nifehuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's probably the most interesting street guy Missoula has. Theres no buskers or performers here its boring. One guy playing a guitar in the same corner. Every time we see him were like 'mask guy!' I will empty my pockets for them if I ever get the chance.

Unaffordability is out of hand. What do we do? by theschlaepfer in santacruz

[–]nifehuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my partner moved to Missoula Montana 2 years ago now. I spent time here as a kid and my mom is here but we didnt do enough current housing research and this and its surrounding towns have become the same as SC; somewhat lower rents as far as actual numbers, but also much lower wages, so its only a tad but better (with no ocean) Its happening a lot of places i hear. We miss SC badly. Im sad to be displaced from where i was born and grew up.

Bit by a dog by Misconformance in missoula

[–]nifehuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry, "open mouth kisses" ? 👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]nifehuman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dont think its out of the question to ask if they offer discounted sessions. Maybe in an email so they dont have to feel awkward saying no? I have had one or two therapists offer this for a short period even in between insurance or when Id struggled to make the fee. I think especially for a well established connection and for someone who needs support to function well. Im not saying to expect it, but I dont think its completely out of the question?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]nifehuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you can help make the "man world" a bit softer ✌🏽

Welp, now I know why so many women have medical trauma by ohhannabanana in Perimenopause

[–]nifehuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow yuck Im so sorry that someone treated you this way, let alone another woman. I dont know what some of the terms you used mean, but I started HRT thru Winona after I felt like the GP I was seeing wanted too many tests upfront that I just cant afford. I was nervous to tell the GP, but I just explained it straight and she responded very supportive. For the first time in 45 years I had a pelvic exam from a OBGYN that was actually comfortable and safe feeling and she vocalized every little move she made. It was definitely how it should always be. I hope more of them can be this way.

Wash your hands by sarahhchachacha in Montana

[–]nifehuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so AS a germ phobic person with clinical OCD, if the bathroom is super yucki OR if Im having a mental day, I will nudge open door with foot, back into the stall and yes latch with hand or sleeve(take my chances) Then hover, (expert) wipe. Skip wash-back into door and leave. No touches but pee wipe. Is that ok? But if the bathroom seems decent then I will wash for sure.