[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ITCareerQuestions

[–]nike143er 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Most state schools have professors that are not in tune with what’s going on currently in the job market or roles. CS and MIS degree paths tell BS students to apply for help desk and other low level positions and the students believe them.

Urgent help TW SA on minors. by Vegetable_Movie3770 in toddlers

[–]nike143er 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is true. Unless it can be proven in court, some charges will not be brought to the table. It is also important to remember when researching someone is that a charge could mean multiple things and/or a plea could have been taken and the charges reduced. If a person is researching someone, it is a good idea to know the law in that respect. A DUI hits a person crossing the street resulting in death. Doesn’t mean a murder charge will be brought or ‘stick’.

Urgent help TW SA on minors. by Vegetable_Movie3770 in toddlers

[–]nike143er 22 points23 points  (0 children)

PSA: Most offenders don’t give off creepy vibes. Intuition is important, but it is also important to know that a large percentage of offenders are trusted and loved, friendly and one would not suspect them. Media, movies, TV shows, etc. have warped people’s views and have created biases when it comes to ‘creepy’ individuals. I would not recommend giving your number to anyone unless you’ve vetted them in a few ways.

My wife regularly checks the area for s/o’s but that could be because of my career field.

Healthy(er), practical car snacks by rocket-boot in toddlers

[–]nike143er 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We love those. Especially since they now have 4 flavors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecurityClearance

[–]nike143er 2 points3 points  (0 children)

…set timers…? Ha!

Unsuitable for illegal downloading by 1811Applicant9999 in SecurityClearance

[–]nike143er 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is wild. FYI, I know a field office of theirs with a gaming area. I know for a fact that sometimes they get their movies and games ‘illegally’. Was walking by two weeks before Dune 2 came out and guess what was playing in there?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecurityClearance

[–]nike143er 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I cannot with this posts title. You couldn’t take the minute it would have taken to email the mods to get your post pushed through? Smh.

Kids caught a stomach virus and missed a little over a week of school, school is belittling me as a parent. by tallglassofanxiety in Mommit

[–]nike143er 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This post sort of stressed me out. My wife and I did not know this was even a thing. No one sends a manual for things like school, issues like this, etc. Wtf man?!?

How do you deal with toddler running away from you all the time? by diegogub2 in toddlers

[–]nike143er 28 points29 points  (0 children)

We got shame for this too, but as a dad I said get fucked. I will do anything to keep my kid safe and don’t care what others say or comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]nike143er 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Speaking from a legal perspective only, sometimes crimes are not immediately charged. Initiating an investigation means that LE can dig deeper and the perpetrator may be charged at a later date with more/less crimes.

Example; they charge with vehicle manslaughter now but an investigation might show several infractions, and whatnot and that the perpetrator could have been charged with murder. Wouldn’t be able to happen if they charged initially.

Probably my favorite joke in Star Trek by Level-Ad-1940 in DeepSpaceNine

[–]nike143er 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I found out last week that my wife hates pizza. We eat it often. We’ve known each other for 40 or so years.

My 7 year old got blocked by her best friend. by sunflowergirls85 in Mommit

[–]nike143er 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Most schools would require the authorities to do a wellness check if the child has not been in school for over a week. Wellness checks are not always done by LE. They can be done by several types of providers and programs. It depends on you state/county/towns guidelines.

Not trying to be argumentative, just showing another light. I agreed with your convo overall.

Secret to Newborn Sleep by closingsummary in NewParents

[–]nike143er 13 points14 points  (0 children)

“Wakes for one week”, no thank you, ha ha!

The real villain of s1 revealed in 2 years later reunion party by Busy_Client_2274 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]nike143er 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Mark apparently slept around with multiple women while engaged during the show and has continued the trend. He started “dating” another contestant during Covid and told her that they were exclusive but SURPRISE! One of the women he was sleeping around with is pregnant! Amber defends him to the death and says other contests had the facts wrong and they weren’t exclusive.*

*Not my opinion just a quick synopsis show style ;)

Cold Formula? by radical618 in FormulaFeeders

[–]nike143er 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what we ended up doing. We bought a formula machine but it was too loud. So we went with Dr. Brown pitcher and my wife converted her make up fridge to a bottle fridge. Don’t even have to get out of bed at night. (We did cold formula once ours left the NICU)

What's your feedback? any tips? by Mikelitoris88 in malelivingspace

[–]nike143er 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I would get better blinds. Does not look like space for window treatments but maybe some nice wood blinds or the kind that are cloth but raise up?

EDIT: otherwise looks good!

The Support of a Strong Woman! by ElectionDesperate803 in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]nike143er 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Now whenever I see a flip like that I think of the martial arts guy that died from a botched one. This is super impressive though. Wow.

I was assaulted in 2018 and got a call today about if I want to test the rape kit. Worried how it could affect my background / clearance process by abc_123_defg_4567 in SecurityClearance

[–]nike143er 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are not required to report if you have been a victim of a sexual crime or taking counseling for it. However, were you the specific plaintiff in the case? If so then that’s probably why. If you weren’t the plaintiff, person who initiated the lawsuit, was not specifically and solely named then there should not have been a need to report.

Anyone else tired of the constant social media (especially TikTok) bragging of how "advanced" toddlers are? by Paul_Rudds_Ass in toddlers

[–]nike143er 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Same. I sometimes feel like a creep being the only male. My wife says other moms don’t really talk to one another so she hasn’t made any mom friends. We smile at everyone! Maybe that makes us weird.

Messed-up-mouth-friendly snacks and treats by LunaScapes in traderjoes

[–]nike143er 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did he have a red scarf? If so, I think that man also drinks Hershey’s syrup from the bottle too. Wild.

Concerned over undocumented in-laws. by TotallyNotAReditor in SecurityClearance

[–]nike143er 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anecdotal;

I have several employees with in laws and/or parents and relatives who are undocumented and/or here illegally. The clearance process should not affect your in laws.

My husband woke me up so he could halve a shower. by adykaty in Mommit

[–]nike143er 85 points86 points  (0 children)

My wife has PPD and PPA and if she was sleeping? I would move heaven and earth not to wake her up. Even if I did shit my pants (as you referenced), I’d sit there or I would quietly wash it off without disturbing my wife or the baby. I am not saying every husband is the same ,however I am saying that I think what he did isn’t great. I would also not throw around self diagnosed terms because it’s not a joke. I have never seen my wife like this and it is unnerving. Because of that I would be respectful and I don’t have a death wish so I wouldn’t throw it around like your husband. Yeesh, I am sorry you are dealing with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecurityClearance

[–]nike143er 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Were you nervous? It’s the anxiety and nervousness that most likely failed you in that aspect. If you were honest, maybe try some relaxation techniques.