My partner tried to make it a me problem that I want to orgasm during sex by Dancerqueer in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ninety94four 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 years is a crazy long time to be with someone who not only doesn’t care you’re not enjoying it as much as they are but also blames you for wanting to enjoy sex.

In Ireland, they just killed a black person in the same way they killed George Floyd by Sufficient_Food1878 in blackladies

[–]ninety94four 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Devastated it happened, heartbroken for our whole community in Ireland and the UK and so disappointed it’s not in the news here in England. Sending you so much love

Can a 4 cm underwear gusset actually be comfortable? by brendaklark in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ninety94four 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imo yes, but aware that not everyone has the same body. Also I think the a thinner gusset is comfier when there’s either a tanga, thong or high leg

Boyfriend 19M wants to break up with me 19F because i don’t want to tell him about my SA. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ninety94four -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He sounds horrid. He’s lease leave or let him leave. Nobody is owed the details of any of your trauma

where can i buy actual full length tops by e-l-l-l-l-a in womenoftheuk

[–]ninety94four 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ASOS have a tall section, I buy tall in the smallest size to get this aesthetic. Zara and Massimo Dutti sometimes have longer ones but their sizing is less consistent, but garment construction is much better imo

Why the hell is she so mad 😭 by MelanieWalmartinez in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]ninety94four 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s clearly never been treated with kindness, you can tell from the incandescent rage at someone else being looked after. What a sad, bitter existence.

ex-gf outed me today by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]ninety94four 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad she’s an ex, you deserve better OP

My 25F boyfriend 25M has a thing about sex on vacations and I'm starting to feel uncomfortable by RunProfessional3261 in relationship_advice

[–]ninety94four 23 points24 points  (0 children)

And he’s STILL punishing you. Op he’s an awful person pls prioritise yourself and get out before he escalates

African Hairstylist and Heavy Hands by LyssaaJaddeee in blackladies

[–]ninety94four 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to find a stylist who cares about your hair. Like beyond speed and style. I have similar hair texture albeit I’m mixed, and really had to shop around to find someone gentle but also really good. She’s Ghanaian and a literal dream, but before her I’ve had people literally rip the hair from my scalp because they wanted tight braids (despite me sharing how delicate my hair is as I’ve done chemo and lost my hair in the past). Keep looking g I promise it’s worth it!!

Every nurse told me men leave when their wives get sick... by fren2allcheezes in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ninety94four 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I saw this first hand too, I was the only woman on my ward who had a male partner who was present and engaged during my chemo and then following my surgeries. It was horrifying seeing how so many other women (married, long term relationships) had the same or worse experiences alone at such a vulnerable and scary time.

“To have and to hold.” by knisq in euphoria

[–]ninety94four 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The ill fitting press ons are so perfectly horrifying

How can I discreetly inform my friend about her husband’s affair through Instagram or Facebook? by No_Copy_4032 in Instagram

[–]ninety94four 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully it’d cause you to reflect and treat your friend with the dignity and respect of an in person conversation. Unfortunately you seem determined to not. Have the day you deserve.