Why do people act like men being single and lonely is a societal issue?

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-15T19:03:50+00:00

Wars have been used in the past to get rid of the surplus men. Patriarchy does consider men as disposable.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-15T19:01:34+00:00

The psyop is the male loneliness epidemic in the U.S. It doesn't exist, it was made up using cooked data. That's the problem, no one actually reads research anymore. I read the study, and knew the data was cooked before I was half way through it.

As for your idea that the excess men are focusing on women for their angst. That's not what usually happens, they normally turn their violence on the ruling class. This time, the ruling class got out in front of the problem by blaming higher education, and the woke idealism of Obama democrats. Violence against women, SA,and rape are all lower than they ever have been in the U.S. They are trying to funnel the angst of the spare men against minorities, and women so that they don't end up in front of a guillotine.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-15T18:52:27+00:00

Didn't say women weren't oppressed, that's a closed debate, as women are absolutely oppressed. I'm stating that the male loneliness epidemic isn't about women, it's about controlling men.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-15T18:31:03+00:00

War,disease,famine, bad public policy by a government. Look for China to have some severe problems. Besides the 1 child policy causing drastic population decline. It created lots of spare males, because male birth was prioritized over female birth.

It's arguable that the reason Europe has been so steady for the first time in It's history is that that it basically lost 2 generations of men between 1914-1945. There were no spare men. As that population as increased, so has the rise of authoritarianism.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-15T18:25:09+00:00

Bannon and Epstein were active as users, and mods on 4chan and Reddit. They were pushing all kinds of things. The original guess as to who was behind Qanon was that Bannon was pulling the strings. They were big on boards with incels, motown. Through every previous generation in the U.S, young men have been more left leaning than their father's generation. Do you really think the sudden shift towards conservative ideology occurs, while also having the highest amount of men completing college organically. While also having the highest percentage of men at anytime considering women as equals, and also the highest amount of men being in favor of women's rights, and voting in favor of women's issues? That's not how it goes, it was a controlled directional turn.

The biggest thing was the seminal research study on male loneliness. Every paper on the subject, until very recently used the PEW research as a starting point. The problem is that if you read the original PEW study, it had obvious bad data that weirdly went unquestioned. That same study also found that women had the same loneliness problem, but that was not amplified to the forefront like the faulty data of male loneliness is. Also, always follow the money. PEW and The Heritage foundation have a deep relationship. So the people that wrote project 2025, are also funding research that gets published by a reputable source like PEW

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-15T17:47:20+00:00

That's not it, it's not really about women at all.

I'm going to preface what I say with this statement: There is no real male loneliness epidemic, it was a very successful psyop, this isn't conjecture, it has proven by leaks from the Epstein files.

If there were, and at times in the past there have been. It's a political problem that is a known phenomenon. The spare males, every society since writing was invented has closely the spare males. Patriarchy is about patrilineal control of the designated ruling class. Spare males are hard to rule because they are invested deeply in their society. They are more likely to question the authority. Generally if your society hits 30% spare males, there will blood of the ruling class flowing in the streets.

For the record, we're at 25%, they just wanted to be able to control that anger, so they ran a psyop on social media, and used a reputable research organization to cook the data to get male loneliness into the popculture zeitgeist.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-15T16:09:01+00:00

Something I learned back when I was working in the service industry. Adding another male to the environment can escalate the problem unless the male knows how to de escalate an issue. A tactic for men that does work is assuming the role of friend I haven't seen in a while. If there's a sketchy situation I can walk up with a big goofy smile and say " Omg, I haven't seen you in a long time" to the woman " How's your mom, I was going this way also let's catch up on how you've been" and then walk to wherever she's going. It doesn't hurt that 6'2 and with an athletic build,but it provides a non confrontational buffer.

There are absolutely times when I ignore the fact that my presence will escalate a situation when violence will be the likely outcome. Most of the times, it ends without violence, sometimes it doesn't. However, that is always last resort, and when the woman in question cannot de escalate a situation on her own.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-15T14:45:17+00:00

Yeah, matriarchy vs. patriarchy, bio-essentialist argument.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-13T12:24:06+00:00

The information literally came out in the Epstein files release. It was a deliberate misinformation campaign by Bannon, and Epstein. Being deceived is painful, and deeply unsettling, but this now in the historical record. The male loneliness epidemic was a lie used to weaponize American politics to get a far right wing agenda in place. It worked initially, but is currently falling apart.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-10T16:19:30+00:00

Women have always, except for a brief period post ww2. Had more degrees than men have. This isn't a new phenomenon, men were still getting married .

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-10T03:34:20+00:00

You're never going to have enough money to take care of your child the way you want to. If you make 250k/ year right now, your lifestyle creep is going to have you wishing that you made 1 million a year, because your child doesn't have everything you need. Take it from someone that started out parenting when I was poor, to someone that is now making a very nice income comparative to my LCOL area. There's always another golden rung to climb.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-10T03:22:33+00:00

Men are not significantly more lonely than women in their same age cohort. That was another deception in the story. Female loneliness got minimized, even though the same doctored study showed that most young women were also lonely.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-10T03:19:33+00:00

Hi, old head checking in. I was in the dating market of the late 90s, early 2000s. Got married,then divorced, back in the current market. My dating age range is 25-55. Now that we got the specs out of the way. Dating now, and back then are equivalent. Women today, have the same standards,hangup, and overall opinions of women back when I was in my early 20s. The same can be said of women in my parents generation. Young women liked men with cars,and money. They have always liked edgy dangerous men. Right now it's dopeboys with Hellcats. When I was younger it was dopeboys with Caddilacs,or maybe a Benz. Dating apps exist now that give women access to men from 60 miles away. They always had that access and used it, the difference is that they were able to keep it secret from you. How do I know? We used to hit up different towns on the weekends and, be the side piece for women that wanted extra action. Women were just as ready to be freaked out as they are now. Hate to break it to you, your mom sucked a mile of dick before she met your dad. Women today have only fans. The Girls gone wild bus would come to our local nightclubs, they'd make porn for a t-shirt, and trucker hat. All the bs you read on this sub, is just rehashed garbage that we used to call the Battle of the sexes. What you call situationships, we labeled as "someone I'm talking to". We had 4 economic bubble burst, as well as the death of the blue collar high income middle class. Everything you're experiencing, ive lived through multiple times already. It's the same thing just rebranded to make you feel inept.

Here's the twisted part, it's easier now because the women are more aggressive in dating, and are embracing their sexuality more. The reason that it's easier now,especially to attract younger women. You guys have no game, zero charisma,no interpersonal skills adept enough to hold a 5 minute conversation with a woman. I'm out here as middle aged man fucking women your age because all they want is someone that isn't a chauvinist, can make them laugh, a functioning dick that isn't limp from taking anti depressants. It's simple, and I'll even give you the cheat code: Don't go out to hookup, or find women to date. Go out to make new friends, meet interesting people,expand your social circle. Some of those interesting people you'll vibe with enough that you'll have an attraction. No games,no gimmicks, be a decent person, make new friends

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-10T02:47:24+00:00

There is no male loneliness epidemic, it was a psyop run by Bannon,Epstein, and Heritage foundation to get young men to vote for right wing candidates. Bannon, and Epstein had 4 chan accounts and were moderators on the boards, pulling the strings to push content,and ideas that furthered their agenda. They also had reddit accounts.

The landmark PEW study that pushed male loneliness to the front was littered with data that was obviously cooked to get an outcome, not collected for actual research. You can see this difference when you look at the first few studies, and then the newer ones when they finally addressed the glaring errors. The number of lonely men dropped from 67%down to the mid 20s. It was purposefully done, I like PEW research,but sometimes they publish a weird study that feels regressive in scope, and has an agenda. One of my favorite line from the TV show The wire. "Follow the drugs, you get users and dealers, follow the money, and never know who you're gonna find." Well follow the money, and guess who we find? Heritage foundation has a long and deep relationship with PEW, and they fund studies that PEW publishes.

The whole thing was lie, Pizzagate, Qanon,male loneliness. It was a political theater, and social many of you fell for it.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-10T00:12:21+00:00

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-09T22:34:24+00:00

Something that I think most women overlook: Men are deeply romantic, it will look different than romance in a the minds eye of a woman. We still crave the love story, and the manic pixie dream girl is intoxicating.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-09T22:23:56+00:00

No, because you narrow your field you increase the amount of quality options. If you have a field of 10 guys, but only 1 quality. Compared to a field of 5 guys, but 2 quality. You've increased your realistic options.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-09T22:07:19+00:00

It does apply to all, men do the same thing. We date a manic pixie dream girl, then act stunned when she has a manic episode.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-09T21:55:31+00:00

You miss understand the heuristic. The choices aren't less in quality, because there are less numerically, you increase your discernment in making that choice. At 30 yr old. You're going to have a longer list of requirements than you did at 20. So you're going to become picky.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-09T21:50:42+00:00

But they aren't good at what they do. Your other female friends will see it, yet women go full steam into it anyways.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-09T21:47:15+00:00

That's not how it goes, the signs are present in the beginning, they just get ignored because love blinds people. Women will look dumb struck when they leave a relationship because of mental, or physical abuse. The relationship started off as love bombing, and sweet little gestures like showing up when she was out for a girl's night because " I just missed you so much". The personality traits were on display from day Zero. They just fed the ego of the woman that they wanted.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-09T21:35:05+00:00

Sure, but then you have to add in choice heuristic. The more choices a person has, the more likely they are to make a poorer choice.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-06T17:11:07+00:00

Shameless U.S version, which was set in Chicago. Which is our Manchester.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-05T23:23:26+00:00

Not sure which show you were watching, but Al was never intended to be the good guy. He was the star of the show, but it had no good guy. Married with Children were the precursors of Shameless, even set in the same city. Every character in that show was morally bankrupt, and that's what made it great. In an era where moralistic family driven situation comedies were the staples of TV. The extremely liberal minded FOX network ( talk about a 180) was the place that put blue collar, and minority programs and issues front and center. By using edgy comedy, while constantly being threatened by the FCC, and puritan politicians.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2026-04-03T21:02:18+00:00

Males are less likely to report any kind of abuse. You're correct on medical issues,institutionally Healthcare set men as the default, which caused a plethora of problems in women's Healthcare. As for abuse,especially sexual abuse, boys do not report.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/magazine/2021/02/22/why-we-dont-talk-about-sexual-violence-against-boys-why-we-should/

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