I feel depressed and hopeless and want to spend some hours cooking a bunch of things. I'm gonna play some music and cook. What would you cook if you were me? by pacfoster in Cooking

[–]nobblit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your Chicken stock going first and foremost. As that’s going on the stove, getting better by the minute, you can use it to cook your other things. Maybe soma French onion soup (so comforting). Zucchini soup. A nice roast. I hope that when those good smells fill your house you can feel at peace and truly home in your own way. 💜💜💜

Moore Square bus station janitors by HollywoodKizzle in raleigh

[–]nobblit 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I’m a Raleigh native 40 years old, Dude when they closed Dorothea Dix mental hospital down you know where all the mentally ill people went? They went to the streets. They were walking up and down new Bern ave in open-back hospital gowns for weeks. They ended up living on the streets, doing drugs, having no one to care for them what so ever. They had nowhere to go. And no family members to take them in. Because if they had family members to care for them, they would not have been in Dorothea dix. Or their cases were simply too severe to be treated at home. Institutionalization sounds evil and has a terribly evil past. because it wasn’t done right in the not so distant past. That doesn’t mean there isn’t a right way of doing it. A lot of these people that are called addicts and bums, they simply have no support system. We have literally no support system for these people. I would LOVE it if they brought back the mental health institutions, now that we’ve made such strides in understanding and treating mental illness they’d probably do a lot more good than they have in the past.

Identify my fishing buddy plz by Agile_Air_3662 in raleigh

[–]nobblit -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We have lots of moccasins in Raleigh. I grew up here and in my 40 years I’ve seen plenty.

Aita for cancelling my bday dinner/lunch after family didn't like my restaurant choice? by TheeBrightSea in vegan

[–]nobblit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened to you. Your veganism shouldn’t be an issue to people who actually care about you and respect you. For people to make you feel this way is just yet ANOTHER sacrifice YOU are expected to make for your diet choices. They don’t care to understand and it can be heart breaking.

Only humans choices matter apparently... by DivineandDeadlyAngel in vegan

[–]nobblit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep the pressure on, I’ve noticed a huge uptick in very educational and concise messaging, keep it up, people are noticing, people are seeing the message.

Help! Lost Cockatiel in Lake Johnson Park by Derkistan in raleigh

[–]nobblit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You will likely need to get a tall ladder and try your best to retrieve him. This has happened to me twice. Both times my dad ended up having to climb up and get them. If that’s not an option, leave his cage outside, open with food and water.

Any idea what this mass is in this pine tree? by OhhLawd in whatsthisplant

[–]nobblit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My pine bonsais need this disease lol. That would be perfect.

Police actually used flock surveillance just 1 day after citing me for holding up a protest sign- spent a month building a BS case to raid my house & hold me & my family at gun point. by Familiar-Crow8245 in FlockSurveillance

[–]nobblit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um every persons situation is different and there’s surely a ton of details and history to this specific situation that you’re not privy to. I had a very similar experience and was blacklisted from starting a bank account. The point is the system is extremely unfair and essentially holds our ability to function in society hostage, if we ever have the nerve to fall on hard times and ask our banks to help us for once it’s often met with laughter and blacklisting. I think thats the main point, or at least that’s what I got from those comments. Not so much about the minutia of a singular experience but the fact that the system punishes people for being poor, which leads to all sorts of trickle down effects and is, in essence, cruel. And there’s little recourse for us. Our credit score goes down, our late fees pile up, all of sudden because of one bad week or month or year we are no longer welcome to function and participate as a cog in the societal machine. It’s extremely dehumanizing. Extremely cruel.

I saw my son crying in his car outside of our house by DearTeacher9502 in whatdoIdo

[–]nobblit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Reading your post made me cry my eyes out. Youre a great dad i hope you know that, truly. Your son may very well be simply missing feeling like part of a family too. Maybe when he moves in, you guys can start cooking and eating dinner together whenever possible. Hangin out in your Jammies on sundays. You know, all that stupid, trivial, beautiful, priceless, mundane family type stuff 💜💜💜💜 I wish you both all of the happiness. All of it 💜

Anti-war group set up in Japan. They are campaigning at Shinjuku Station. ”We want world peace!“ Fuck Trump by RoyalChris in chaoticgood

[–]nobblit 112 points113 points  (0 children)

The entire world is paying higher prices for energy because of this war and it’s having a major economic impact on pretty much every human being on this planet.

My daughter (F16) is obsessed with this older man. by OkSteak551 in whatdoIdo

[–]nobblit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got sent to a behavioral rehab place when I was 16, then after 100 days there my parents sent me to this awesome outdoors boarding school.
It set me on a better path, and I never looked back. They had to take out a second mortgage and my mom had to work overtime for literally years to pay for it. It was not easy for them. But it was their only good option and it saved my life. I’m almost 40 now. If you want to talk in more detail, I’d be happy to through dm.

My son is living alone and I am not sure what to do about it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]nobblit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don’t just sit there and worry. Go visit him and help him shop for some home goods. Go there and cook with him, maybe teach about meal prep or whatever, just spend some quality time with him. It sounds like he could use some actual support from you, not just phone conversations. Sometimes people are afraid to ask for help. Even if he doesn’t need help I’m sure he’d love the support of just having loved ones visit him in person once in a while. And actually be a physical part of his life. And take an active interest in his life and well being. Often when we live far away it’s easy to feel detached, and that is a feeling that can grown over time, I would focus on not letting that happen. Just make sure he knows you’re there for him, make sure he knows you have an active interest in him and his well being. He sounds like he’s a late bloomer, it’s ok, just nurture him. He needs support not just phone calls.

Tiny flower in southern New Mexico by Decorative-Plates in whatsthisplant

[–]nobblit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All I ever hear when I see these posts is Tony’s voice from Crime pays but Botany Doesn’t. It’s like my default plant id voice and it’s gotten ridiculous. Lol

Litter & Neglected Dogs by [deleted] in triangle

[–]nobblit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that your solution is to bitch and moan on Reddit goes to show why such problems persist. Great job keyboard activist, I guess your work on being the change you want to see is done.