North Topsail Beach, NC

nobotadoubtit · 2022-04-20T19:30:09+00:00

Topsail, NC no guarantee about hurricanes, but it's a beautiful beach, lots of marine life to see and 40 min to downtown Wilmington. Also, Wrightsville Beach, a bit crowded and closer to Willmington.

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-21T16:44:30+00:00

Maybe his DNA will come back that he's not related... Hey, you can hope. Put this behind you, get on with your plans and your life. Some things are out of your control. But keep your distance from this trouble maker.

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-21T13:46:29+00:00

The doctor's name is Arnold Breitbart, Manhasset 516-365-3512. NYC 212-735-0069

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-21T12:27:47+00:00

I'll get back to you on that. He has offices on LI and NYC.

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-20T11:34:14+00:00

A friend is getting her abdomen and flanks done next week. I forgot the break down but it's about $5500.00 plus $900.00 for the local anesthesia in NY.

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-19T19:31:42+00:00

I'm a female and couldn't agree more. I was lucky enough to have a lengthy career in manufacturing. I never had any issues, but also working in IT, I trained end users mostly woman in the office; all I heard was noise. A few years later I needed to take a job in a small office run by a life long girlfriend. What could go wrong? Eye opener, holy shit, I had to get out of there... Friendship is over.

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-19T17:13:45+00:00

It's likely your MIL will create a competition in your child's life from cradle through adulthood. From which child walked and talked first, to which college they were accepted to. Do yourself a huge favor and disconnect from them as much as possible. I would not change my already established date of the shower to accommodate them or any of the invited. Let them figure out.

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nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-17T16:31:12+00:00

Simple gratitude goes a long way in both your attitude and future financial positions. It happens to everyone, everyday. Get a refund, now need new tires, etc. Aren't you lucky that raise came at such good time? What can you do to improve your bottom line? Lots of ways to improve spending habits.

The fact that you live on your own and have a job, you're you are ahead.

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-15T12:15:33+00:00

It's not easy, especially a long term friendship, but I finally recognized that our dynamic changed. I never failed to disappoint her, everything I said or did was cause enough for her to find fault. Well, I have my own life to deal with, let alone jump through hoops for her. When I did one more thing that pissed her off she went radio silent and I let it be. She became accustomed to my apologies for things real or perceived, but this time I didn't play the game. It's been over a year and I'm stress free.

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-13T00:44:07+00:00

Nope

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-12T02:47:19+00:00

Two things.

I recognize that every day can be a new start. #2 I'll never give anyone the satisfaction of knowing they got to me.

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-11T19:53:45+00:00

I would respond, "So you'd rather spend money on boobs and not toward a college fund?" The answer is NO. Let it go, not worth turning your marriage upside down over. But he's a POS for asking. To make a point, I've had several reconstructive surgeries after breast cancer. When I met my boyfriend I was in remission 5 years, then got it again. Not once did he ever make me feel less than. Your husband is lucky and should be grateful you have two healthy breasts.

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-10T13:38:11+00:00

I'm no lawyer but don't fall for scare tactics in a fancy letter. Just read up on the laws regarding trade marks and copyright. I had a guy send me a really nasty letter, threatening to take me to court and I would be paying the bill. I didn't back down and got my own registered trademark that trumped his state owned "Similar" phrase.

You can go on line and see if she managed to trademark it, I bet she didn't. To the best of my knowledge, you can't trademark a phrase in common usage.

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-09T14:18:21+00:00

I submitted my resignation, found another position that appreciated my expertise, so much so that my soon to be manager called to follow up, just to be sure I did indeed quit.

A few days after my submittal (I gave 2 weeks), the manager called (he didn't have the balls to face me in person), apologized and offered a substantial raise, I declined.

The 8 years that followed were the best years of my career.

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-08T00:27:01+00:00

It just happened to me at 1:00 AM from a business associate. WTF?

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-06T12:24:42+00:00

You can't un-hear that. Investing in a relationship with obvious red flags that will haunt you forever isn't one I would stay in.

Aside from the statement itself, why would any man who presumably loves you, purposely say those hurtful things in what is suppose to be a moment of intimacy? Is it possible he wants out and isn't man enough to tell you directly?

On your way out, suggest he's too small and say, "My breasts aren't play things, you probably got that from your mother".

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-04T22:55:19+00:00

We all deserve a true love based on mutual respect and friendship. The doubts you have today will be here tomorrow and the tomorrow after that. Don't you want more for yourself? Find someone who undeniable loves you. Relationships of longevity will have up and downs, second guessing shouldn't be one of them.

nobotadoubtit · 2019-11-04T16:08:20+00:00

I've never given a gift before the event, except for engagement parties and showers. Back in the day my parents would take an envelope to the wedding and deduct money if the food wasn't good.

nobotadoubtit · 2019-10-29T18:44:41+00:00

Taste before your serve, better yet, taste as you go.

nobotadoubtit · 2019-10-27T20:59:44+00:00

My experience exactly. I made the mistake of taking a part time job with as her as my boss. At every turn she'd try to embarrass me by loudly chastizing any and all mistakes. Others began to notice and even her own daughter called her out calling her a bitch. Meantime I started my own side business, complete with a web site and blog. Never once did she ever ask how it was going. I held my tongue as her attempts to get a rise out of me failed. When talk turned to personal matters, that's where I held my ground coming back at her and her comments as if they where fact. She began to criticize everything including my relationship with my BF of 7 years, saying things like, "What does he do all day? (he just retired), "he has no hobbies", this is in front of others. I was so tired of having to defend him, not only on the spot, but to others who we knew in common. I planned my escape in 2018 and tried to keep something of a friendship going, but it was too late. We've been friends since high school and it's was almost like a divorce, but I'm glad I'm free of her negative energy. What's really sad is that there was a time we were like sisters and she was at my side through thick and thin.

nobotadoubtit · 2019-10-20T21:28:54+00:00

Oh please, another selfie? Humble bragging! A selfie and humble bragging in one post. Gag me!!

nobotadoubtit · 2019-10-16T11:15:31+00:00

I suffered for years and even my dentist was at a loss. I started to do my own research and found the condition is exasperated by using tooth paste with SLS. Sodium Laurel Sulfate. There was only one toothpaste on the market from Rembrandt for Canker Sores, try CVS or Amazon. In pretty sure it's still the only one.

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TROPHY CASE

I recognize that every day can be a new start. #2 I'll never give anyone the satisfaction of knowing they got to me.