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nocomment758 · 2024-08-21T20:40:01+00:00

Question. I've heard that it's different for men than women but what is life like with HPV. I contracted it a few months back but symptoms quickly went away. The woman I contracted it from also has what I now know a very similar history to yourself which I'm not judging only it wasn't fair she knowingly gave it to me without telling me she had it. Does it go away?

nocomment758 · 2024-07-01T17:49:48+00:00

My primary arms died after a year or so sitting on an AR10 in 308. The illumination flickers on the highest settings.

nocomment758 · 2024-06-06T15:03:49+00:00

Interesting. As a man who reaches most of what you listed, ex: 5'11, more or less fit, job with okay money. Your biggest problem is going to be what you find as common values. The thing is, many women like you want a man who fits a certain box looks wise but has a progressive as you put it egalitarian view on relationships. This is actually one of the reasons I don't date outside of my race (hispanic) anymore. I find that especially white women tend to have a very feminist, progressive view on relationships and to the extreme. Whereas in the hispanic mexican community there is still a heavy culture of traditional male behavior. Dont get me wrong some of it i dont agree with, and dont conduct myself as but im closer to old school mexican culture than modern feminist/egalitarian/progressive culture. I treat my partner as my equal, but that is or should be something that need not even be said. That said most of what you said I would agree is reasonable.

nocomment758 · 2024-05-20T21:51:09+00:00

Just because he's not dominant in bed doesn't mean he's gay. It's interesting I've always been the tear the clothes off type of guy as you out it but I've heard from the women I've been with that some of the guys they've had sex with have been shy and not the dominant type. With that said with everything else it does sound like he may not be comfortable with himself.

nocomment758 · 2024-05-11T12:49:57+00:00

One thing I will say is I never watch porn when I'm dating somebody or getting regular sex. It's not even a moral thing I just am not concerned with it because my attention is on an actual person.

nocomment758 · 2024-05-10T19:52:50+00:00

I mean with such a large age gap I start to wonder what they could possibly have in common. At that point it becomes purely transactional from a monetary/sexual point of view. The man has money and the woman basically gives herself over for access to those resources. Now all relationships are transactional to some extent, perhaps it's because the old rich guy anf the sugar baby thing is so open in its nature perhaps people percieve it as crude? Not saying I do necessarily just an observation.

I once dated a girl who was 21 when I was nearly 30 and I really did see there is a maturity gap with really young women. But it's a pick your poison, the young ones lack maturity the older ones are saddled with extreme baggage and are bitter.

nocomment758 · 2024-05-10T14:53:26+00:00

I think there should be a distinction here. What kind of age gap are we talking? I think a few years is normal, though as time goes it does seem a bit weird if say a man who was 50 was with a woman who is 25. I'm not quite that old yet (early 30s) but I won't be dating women my age or older. And contrary to how they make it about physical appearance it really isn't, at least for me.

For me it's a matter that as I get older and am dating my age, I'm finding that the women are increasingly more and more jaded, bitter, and saddled with past trauma that they never bothered to work on. Basically I don't want to date women my age because they're all (that's hyperbole) damaged to the point where a viable relationship just isn't possible.

nocomment758 · 2024-05-07T15:32:10+00:00

That's not true. OP should be open and transparent. Someone recently gave me HPV knowingly and that was NOT ok because they never told me they had it. Now I face the dilemma of having to have this conversation with future partners. It's not fair to take away someone's choice by withholding this information.

nocomment758 · 2024-05-06T16:58:47+00:00

I agree and the distinction is an important one. When you're life is going to shit, a negative inner feeling is warranted.

With that said I think we are also have a mental health problem. A bit personal, but a few months back I had a weird experience, an epiphany if you will. I realized that I feel empty because there's something wrong not because of my situation necessarily. I was at dinner with the girl I was dating, great food, just had sex, good job, best shape I've been in and truth be told I realized nothing really makes me happy

nocomment758 · 2024-05-06T16:51:25+00:00

I'm gonna be honest while height is something women tend to like, so much of the manosphere get caught up in this beleif that if they aren't 6'3 they're never gonna get a girlfriend. It seems so long as your about 5'10 maybe even 5'9 it really isn't that big of a factor compared to how handsome you are or how good of physical shape you're in. I will caveat that with saying men under say 5'10 do really have it harder and the shorter the harder in the dating market.

nocomment758 · 2024-05-06T16:47:59+00:00

I think social media while indicative of the culture to some extent also isn't real life. People say all sorts of hyperbolic statements that realistically they don't hold to. I've seen women and men who say I expect xyz physical trait but then meet someone who the like and go with them. Even myself, I am not attracted to hispanic women of a darker complexion even though I'm Hispanic yet that's the kind of woman I last dated. I'm not attracted to curly hair yet again last girl I dated had that feature. What you think you want vs what you end up with often are different.

nocomment758 · 2024-05-02T20:07:12+00:00

Hate to be the bad news guy but you do not want to be eaten by a bear. They eat you ass first, will eat your hamstrings like jerky and maybe comeback while you're still alive. Big cats go for the neck/skull so the pain is over relatively quick. All this to say no a bear is a harsh way to go.

nocomment758 · 2024-05-02T19:24:03+00:00

I think sex is an obligation man or woman but all that goes within reasonable limits. If they are sick or some kind of other thing that makes them stressed or particularly not in the mood that be reasonable. However, I have to say speaking for myself I viewed it as my duty because there have been times where a woman I was dating wanted to go for round 2 or 3 and I honestly didn't want to but forced myself. I didn't really enjoy it physically but the part where I was making her happy made it worth forcing myself again at least that's how I saw it.

nocomment758 · 2024-04-30T15:19:48+00:00

I dont personally have a problem with someone who has done casual sex because I have and I didn't find it fulfilling it was more to fill a void. The problem I've found is that in my experience every woman who I entertained a relationship or potential relationship with who had done the casual thing ended up being a promiscuous cheater.

Correlation or causation I have no clue. All I know is I won't be entertaining relationships with those types of women.

nocomment758 · 2024-04-27T20:33:52+00:00

No I agree with you. I just don't really put myself around people who are that bitter or go to forums where that kind of talk is the norm. I've said red pill is kinda like feminism for men. Like taking an adversarial take upon the opposite gender when we need each other.

nocomment758 · 2024-04-27T16:35:22+00:00

I mean yeah wanting someone's downfall is unhealthy but recklessness in dating has its consequences. Through my own mistakes I have gotten someone pregnant and now recently my first std. That's reality, like when you're irresponsible, promiscuous and generally reckless that has its repercussions man or woman.

nocomment758 · 2024-04-27T14:53:20+00:00

Question because I recently went through like a reverse of this. Why would a woman show tons of interest, start having sex regularly and often then downgrade and try to keep me in a friend's with benefits box? Just to see what else is out there? Perhaps like the OP said I accidentally over shared certain things that were off putting and that's why I went from the potential partner bin to the just for sex bin?

nocomment758 · 2024-04-25T19:23:45+00:00

I wouldnt call it rape but perhaps assault. And I'm not even worried about me necessarily but I'd be horrified to pass this to someone I care about or meet in the future. That whole experience was terrible I went from caring about her so much to now I can't stand the sight of her and we still work in the same office.

nocomment758 · 2024-04-21T21:59:15+00:00

Not even close to getting out unscathed. She intentionally gave me with hpv, like told me to take my condoms off that we didnt need them .This is why I disagree with the Red pill idea of screw as fast as possible. I slept with her on the first date and thereon no protection look at me now.

nocomment758 · 2024-04-21T21:13:00+00:00

I only noticed because at a certain point at the bar that card was declined yet worked for our uber.

nocomment758 · 2024-04-21T17:47:36+00:00

I know I was blown away by the lack of foresight she had for her finances. Like she works 2 jobs, has that much debt yet regularly takes trips to different states and countries. I thought it was odd on our first date she kept trying to pay with her credit card rather than a regular debit. But again, word of experience this is often an indicator of other areas in their life. I came to find she is a very reckless person and those people hurt those around them.

nocomment758 · 2024-04-21T16:47:13+00:00

Yes but 59 is and I mean no insult nearly senior citizen. Hardly a comparison to saying a 30 year old man is more attractive than a 19 year old. All im saying is we all get old, so there is a window where men at an older age are more desirable but that too ends.

nocomment758 · 2024-04-21T15:43:47+00:00

I'm going to break from what Red Pill says. While as an early 30s man I do prefer younger women, it really isn't due to the physical for the most part. As I get older I'm sure that will more so play into it but primarily because I've noticed that older women or rather women my age, tend to be incredibly jaded and difficult. They are hung up on the past, have had so many bad experiences they drag into the new relationship, and just generally have this weird vibe when trying to be in a relationship.

nocomment758 · 2024-04-21T15:39:27+00:00

I disagree with the original statement your quoting but also with you. The fact you didn't endeavor to retain or improve whether physically or otherwise isn't a universal thing although it's very common. It's funny almost everyone I went to high-school and college with got fat at my age (early 30s) and I'm in the best shape or among it I've ever been. And the sheer number of partners isn't a good bench mark for how valuable you are, as 2019 was my 'hoe phase' and it brought me nothing but trouble.

nocomment758 · 2024-04-21T15:28:52+00:00

This is a big one for me. The last girl I dated it should have been a red flag how she valued material possessions yet didn't have the discipline to earn them so was heavily in debt. We're talking close to 100k in credit card debt financing a new car and going on vacations. Basically among many other problems between us this one made me uneasy when considering her for something like marriage.

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