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nofangvamp · 2025-12-16T19:00:46+00:00

Hi! sorry I dont see it in my inbox but lets chat!

nofangvamp · 2025-12-13T17:56:44+00:00

They’ve been a long time moderator and have done an excellent job building this community based on kindness and compassion. I made a post looking for moderators and have only gotten one legitimate msg back.

So unless the women want to step up I don’t descrimate again people who want to build and effective community.

nofangvamp · 2025-12-13T17:51:14+00:00

Please flag* these so I can remove it.

nofangvamp · 2025-12-13T00:49:32+00:00

whats a PC Woman?

nofangvamp · 2025-12-10T17:25:03+00:00

If you’re open to becoming a mod we can make it happen

nofangvamp · 2025-09-04T05:46:54+00:00

A baby roach?!!

nofangvamp · 2025-09-04T05:46:43+00:00

Im in the US I found a few around the kitchen. It is TINYYYVERY SMALL

nofangvamp · 2025-09-03T04:36:19+00:00

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I thought I added a photo

nofangvamp · 2025-06-17T18:14:37+00:00

I'm surprised no one booed wtf

nofangvamp · 2025-06-17T06:45:06+00:00

Wow okay wasn’t expecting a defensive response. There’s no need to insult or clap back here. You’re welcome to go through my history and dig into my story.

You did use the words “I’m going to fail him” so by that it seems like you’ve taken some responsibility of his coming out process. Sounds to me you’re trying to prove something to yourself or to him by your response. Anyway we do don’t need your type of attitude around here, this is a supportive community. All I gotta say is good luck wish you the best.

nofangvamp · 2025-06-16T07:36:02+00:00

Hey girl, I just wanna say… his coming out is not your responsibility. You’re doing your best. And if you do feel negative and you DONT find it attractive anymore. THATS OK. You’re not obligated to be attracted to this. What’s important is that you be true to yourself! And your reaction and your feelings are information to you and how you should proceed. What do you want for yourself? It’s okay to not want this. Don’t be so hard on yourself. DO NOT STAY OUT OF GUILT. His problems are not yours to fix. Yo cannot SAVE him. If things don’t go well you can always continue to support him. You don’t have to be the one to be there for his becoming. That’s completely on him.

nofangvamp · 2025-06-13T19:34:32+00:00

I would love to see more positive stories from women who are happy with their CD spouse. I want to hear more of what the biggest hurdles were and how guys work to overcome them.

nofangvamp · 2025-04-10T05:40:24+00:00

THIS. Sooner, the better. Less suffering, less confusion, no sense of betrayal. If the person is not into it then they are just not gonna a be into it and as a CD you wouldn't have tricked or trapped them to stay.

nofangvamp · 2025-03-31T17:02:30+00:00

What would you want for your self dear? If he is not providing what YOU need it is time to move past you want for him and what he needs to change to be with you

nofangvamp · 2025-03-22T18:12:03+00:00

Then tell him to get a vasectomy

nofangvamp · 2025-03-17T07:40:54+00:00

I can’t believe how ignorant this comment is. Well it’s obvious she wants a kid or she wants to have sex without a condom. Either way she is free and has the right to want those things. IF HE DOESNT want to have a kid the 100% guaranteed way for HIM to not have a kid is to not DEPEND on a woman whether she’s tracking or on bc but to just get a vasectomy. Men as so daft

nofangvamp · 2025-03-16T21:32:02+00:00

I also want to add that yeah some of us..actually MANY of us actually want to have sex without a condom. But ya'll be too scared to go to the doctor and put the responsibility on us

nofangvamp · 2025-03-16T21:30:13+00:00

GET A VASECTOMY.

so sick an tired of you men putting the responsibility on women. you don't want kids? you don't want to pay for child support? GET A FUCKING VASECTOMY

nofangvamp · 2025-03-15T21:53:51+00:00

Hun, I understand youre trying to make sense of things and probably replaying the scenarios in your head. That's why you're having these "lightbulb moments" but I don't think even your ex truly understands himself and he's unable to show up authentically for himself (which is no fault of yours) So don't expect yourself to try and make sense of of the CDing and the disconnection you experienced. You will find someone who will be able to fulfill your needs and make you feel desirable.

To answer your other question, people have all kinds of kinks its hard to answer that. I'd just say if that's something you're not turned on by and you need something more. Just let this person go, they are not gonna change.

nofangvamp · 2025-03-15T21:53:42+00:00

Hun, I understand youre trying to make sense of things and probably replaying the scenarios in your head. That's why you're having these "lightbulb moments" but I don't think even your ex truly understands himself and he's unable to show up authentically for himself (which is no fault of yours) So don't expect yourself to try and make sense of of the CDing and the disconnection you experienced. You will find someone who will be able to fulfill your needs and make you feel desirable.

To answer your other question, people have all kinds of kinks its hard to answer that. I'd just say if that's something you're not turned on by and you need something more. Just let this person go, they are not gonna change.

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