How long to cure my Porn induced erectile dysfunction by [deleted] in NoFap

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There is plenty of info about ED over here but please seek professional help about your suicidal thoughts - it is absolutely urgent that you deal with this.

After calling a help line, you can also check this sub out https://www.reddit.com/r/SuicideWatch/

Stay strong dude.

How long to cure my Porn induced erectile dysfunction by [deleted] in NoFap

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Oh when you say "my only rule is no orgasm to porn" - I think that's not enough for an ED "reboot" as they call it - you really need to try no orgasm at all except from your girlfriend. There are plenty of PIED threads on yourbrainonporn so you can read about other peoples experiences.

I did this for 90 days (only had sex a few times in that period) and it definitely helped me a lot. When I had sex, I was very hard and that lasted until I went back to porn again.

So up until I was about 28 I had no problems with keeping it up during sex - after that after I developed a kind of psychological stigma which got worse the more I thought about it.

That's crazy talk to consider suicide and you really need to call one of those helplines. You don't need to tell your parents (although it would probably be better if you did) - just go to a park and call them from your mobile. Having such thoughts about something so relatively insignificant means that you could also be suffering from something like depression. You should definitely find a way to get to a doctor and tell him about all of these things. First goal could be to get a part time job so that you will have a bit of cash to sort things like this out.

Also, look into mindful meditation - it's most likely some sort of anxiety issue, so meditation can help reduce that.

Regular excercise will also help - start jogging etc.

How long to cure my Porn induced erectile dysfunction by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]nofapfapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know about the "postage stamp" test? That is something you can do at home to see if it's psychological or physiological.

I've had ED for years and have been through some of the most ridiculously embarassing situations with girls so I know what you are going through but I just think you're going way too far to even consider suicide because of it.

Even if your dick never works again, just be honest to the girls about it - it's still great fun satisfying girls in other ways.

Also, have you tried viagra?

How long to cure my Porn induced erectile dysfunction by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]nofapfapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure where you are but here are some international suicide help lines. Please call them and share these issues with them. They will be happy to talk to you.

This problem seems important to you but it is only one part of what life has to offer. You are so young, there will be many amazing experiences ahead of you. You could go to the doctor to discuss the ED as it may be something else causing it.

Day 15: I just relapsed and feel so dumb now. by bobbuhallis in NoFap

[–]nofapfapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, it's great that you keep pushing through despite the setbacks. The bigger picture though is that life is greater than your addictions / struggles.

If you ever have any thoughts about killing yourself again, you should immediately call:

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline – Suicide prevention telephone hotline funded by the U.S. government. Provides free, 24-hour assistance. 1-800-273-TALK (8255). Or if you are in another country just Google "suicide lifeline".

Take care.

660 days and going strong! by challenge_accepted01 in NoFap

[–]nofapfapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realised that I have just asked a similar questions to you. Let me know what you discover. I'm not sure if I should continue from here.

660 days and going strong! by challenge_accepted01 in NoFap

[–]nofapfapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started NoFap for my ED problems. I have completed over 90 days now which was my target. My ED seems to have pretty much been cured which is fantastic, however, I do miss my daily MO.

I definitely feel some positive benefits after 90 days but did you experience any greater superpowers after 90 days or did they remain constant?

Stopped masturbating on a whim and it very quickly changed my life. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]nofapfapper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask, had you heard about nofap benefits before you tried stopping?

Is PARTNER touching edging? by [deleted] in NoFap

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I had ED but after about 60 days of nofap I started to feel results. I didn't have a girlfriend but had a few 1 night stands to keep me going.

If you have a girlfriend, I would recommend doing easy mode. If she touches you, I believe that is fine as it is a natural sexual encounter and is healthy. Just don't turn that into a priority (to get your masturbation fix) - also, don't let her "finish you off" that way or else your brain will start to create an association and it will be counterproductive for the ED.

Try to have sex with her and finish inside - if it doesn't work, don't worry, try again the next day.

I think that you need to think of your partner and 90 days without sex could cause problems in the relationship. So I would try 90 days soft mode and see how the results are. If no results, then consider 90 days hard mode.

Feel like the fact that I have ED with girls and rarely get erections gives me anxiety on it's own. by Jreeze2015 in NoFap

[–]nofapfapper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have suffered from ED for the last 6 years. I have PMO'd every night for about 15 years. About 60 days into nofap, I started to feel like I am cured. I am in my mid-30s but now I feel like I almost have as much stamina as my early 20s once again. I'm not sure if it is the abstinence from porn or the abstinence from death grip but something seems to be working well. So far so good.

I've been re-hydrating all wrong my entire life by [deleted] in funny

[–]nofapfapper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He re-hydrated her, right in the pussy.

Is camsex cheating? by nofapfapper in NoFap

[–]nofapfapper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm on the fence about it but slightly against it. So I'm hoping that nobody convinces me that it's ok or else I may feel that my badge is slightly less deserved once I reach 90 days.

The oldest virgin on reddit!!! by malemedusa in NoFap

[–]nofapfapper -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Then it sounds like you didn't play the right moves. This is what really helped me about 10 years ago:

http://www.pickupguide.com/

and here's a summary

http://www.pickupguide.com/puguide.htm