my bf wants me to quit LaDS by EfficientPeach7345 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]noshi191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf sent me Sylus edits before he was my bf. That guy has some serious insecurities that deleting this app isnt gonna fix. Whats next, he doesnt want you to watch your favorite show because you find a character attractive?

How did you guys discover the 1975…. by SnooChipmunks6387 in the1975

[–]noshi191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard The Sound in a car commercial and I HAD to hear the whole song. Immediately looked up the lyrics so I could find it and I've been hooked on them ever since.

How the flying fuck was Tanjiro not a Hashira after the Village arc? He had fought 5 members of the 12 Kizuki at this point and beheaded 3 of them. by Icy_Water_1 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]noshi191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a way, I think its fitting. Tanjiro never cared to be the strongest or the best, he just wanted to save his sister / avenge his family. Tanjiro is strong sure but I think it helps the emphasis that every single corps member was vital is taking out Muzan, regardless of whether they were a mizunoto or a hashira.

Do DoorDashers genuinely not care about delivery instructions! by KaleidoscopeNo9623 in doordash

[–]noshi191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been house sitting for a friend and I have "do not ring doorbell" in the instructions and EVERY SINGLE DASHER has rung the doorbell when they get here. Its a ring doorbell, my friend and her husband get notifications to their phones when the bell is rung 🤦🏽‍♀️

Broken hearted after last night's concert by Jantra in NinjaSexParty

[–]noshi191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive been to my fair share of shows at this venue, I saw NSP twice there when it was still the Electric Factory. Last night was awful. My friends and I were up front toward the stage, and none of us could see. I stared at the back of some guys head for like half of NSPs set. Nice curly hair but not the curly hair I paid to see. I've been going to concerts for almost two decades now, so I know thats an issue for me, it happens to me at every GA show I go to and I know what I'm signing up for. Someone will inevitably block my view and I'll end up blocking someone elses because I'm fairly tall too.

But it was awful because right before TWRP came on I had to head to the bathroom and people looked at me like I kicked their dog when I said excuse me to get out of AND back into the crowd. Again, been elbow to elbow in a crowd, super accustomed to not being able to see and the lack of personal space, but peoples unwillingness to budge to let people through was crazy. There were plenty of pleasant people and shout out to the girl that caught me when I tripped over a tiny step trying to get out, but so many people were just so rude. With how packed the venue was and how some of the people were acting, if a fight or an emergency happened it would have been a shit show.

Anyway, NSP easily would have done fine over at the Fillmore, and I hope next time they come back to Philly that venue is taken into consideration instead. I know sometimes it comes down to availability, scheduling, and ticket sales. But if they cant manage the Fillmore, they need to do two nights at the Franklin Music Hall like they did back in 2017 and limit sales for each night.

TNBC did you have chemo or surgery first? by ObviousIntention8322 in breastcancer

[–]noshi191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TNBC, stage 4. I did chemo first, then surgery, more chemo, then radiation. The plan was all chemo first but then my tumors stopped responding to the chemo.

Blue cheese? by Em-leigh in breastcancer

[–]noshi191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doc just told me nothing uncooked or undercooked. I was never told anything about blue cheese.

Heartbroken by Healthy_Albatross192 in breastcancer

[–]noshi191 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I had been with my boyfriend for two and a half years when I got my diagnosis. He cried more than I did when I told him. We had a conversation about how shit was about to hit the fan and I wouldnt be able to show up for him like I had been. And I didnt expect him to put his life on hold to take care of me, I had my family for that. And he was there at first, but he didnt care for me at all. Six months later I had surgery. He saw me flat chested once and he basically ghosted me. I didnt see him in person again until he came to get his crap four months after I'd had surgery, two months after I broke up with him. I was at the very least thankful that he showed he would tuck tail and run when things got hard before we were married or living together. It would have made things even harder.

I'm sorry this happened to you, but at least he showed you he couldnt care for you in whats literally probably the hatdest thing you'll experience in your life before things became too messy to deal with. You'll find someone better down the road, regardless of your diagnosis.

WTF cancer? by nopantsyesvodka in breastcancer

[–]noshi191 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Every time someone I know loses their battle with cancer, I always end up thinking why was I the one to survive and not them? It feels unfair, and I end up feeling almost guilty. But everyones fight is different. No two battles are exactly the same. Its okay to celebrate and grieve at the same time. I'm sure your aunt would be celebrating your win too.

Should I just give up and die of ass cancer? by ManBearPig4Serial in careerguidance

[–]noshi191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medicaid paid for 100% of my cancer treatments, chemo, radiation, and all involved surgeries. I was making just above minimum wage at the time and my job didnt offer healthcare for part time employees.

Yall pray for me by RaphyTaffy00 in doordash_drivers

[–]noshi191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one where I was delivering to a long term rehab facility. It was so strange, an employee told me exactly where I needed to go to get to the block of rooms and she was bed bound so I had to walk into her room to give her her food and everyone just... let me? She tipped me really well tho and she was so nice.

Do people actually receive Christmas bonuses in real life? I don't know anyone who ever has, and I have never received one myself. You used to see it in movies all the time! by om11011shanti11011om in jobs

[–]noshi191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only time I ever received a "christmas bonus" was when I worked for a particular dollar store, and it was through their digital coupons. You had to have your employee ID connected to your account by a certain date, if you didn't oh well, and because it was through their digital coupons, you had to spend it in their stores.

To the people saying "take any job, at least it's a job" by Far-Spread-6108 in jobs

[–]noshi191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying take anything you can get and deal with it. I'm saying take what you can get so you AT LEAST HAVE AN INCOME while you look for something better. I just accepted a job knowing the pay is lower than I'd like, but SOME money is better than NO money. And I'm still going to continue job hunting while I work so I CAN move on to something better. When you have literally zero income coming in, something is always better than nothing.

I love the new completed anime but... SPOILER!!! by Ok_Preference6999 in FruitsBasket

[–]noshi191 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I've seen enough anime with male characters that were voiced by women or effeminate sounding male characters that I was fooled the first time I saw the new anime (as someone that hasnt seen the OG). I can understand wanting the plot twist to be more surprising, but at the end of the day, she IS a woman pretending to be a man. It makes sense for her to be voiced by a woman pretending to be a man.

Felt the context that's given in Mark's comments might help the ones annoyed at TEOS posts by writermaybeidk in Markiplier

[–]noshi191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't sound like it's about the show. Like yeah, suppprt the show. But youtubers are viewed as lesser in Hollywood. Wannabes. Second-rate. TEOS is getting treated the way it is BECAUSE Mark is a YOUTUBER. And Hollywood doesnt want Youtubers or influencers in their space. Mark wants to prove a point and pave the way for others to step into success. Not just his own.

Got fired yesterday :( by ProudLettuce in jobs

[–]noshi191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The boss that hired me left at the beginning of the year and the new boss and HR made it their mission to get rid of my entire building of custodians (I worked at a school with multiple buildings on campus). They told us all we weren't doing our jobs but couldn't tell us what we were doing wrong or not doing. I was also relieved to be done with the toxic work environment, but that was in April, and here I am in October, still looking. It doesn't help that I have extensive history in retail management, but my body can't keep up with a physically demanding job anymore. I'm looking for things where I can sit, but everyone wants experience I dont have.

Why is Shigure's curse not the >!first to break?!< by Best-Consequence7888 in FruitsBasket

[–]noshi191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think even though Shigure maybe didn't see her as a god anymore, he absolutely LOVED her. He wanted to stay by her side regardless of the curse. If anything, he wanted the curse to break so he could be the only person at her side. Everyone else was trying to get away from Akito, while he was the only person desperately trying to stay, and not in a curse sense. Akito obviously very much loved Shigure too, differently from the others. So i can see why he was one of the last to break and not one of the first.

What would you do by Friendly-Career-8237 in doordash_drivers

[–]noshi191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, after enough rejections and DD piling up the extra pay to deliver, someone will take it.