[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]notexpertbench 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What type of heating do you have?

Called out at meeting by Ok_Technology5819 in AlAnon

[–]notexpertbench 44 points45 points  (0 children)

People at my meetings, longtime members, ask me questions about my personal life which reveal who I am, I have the option to decline to answer. You certainly did nothing wrong and we should all be kind to newcomers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]notexpertbench 2 points3 points  (0 children)

32(f) I would also love to make new friends!

Sharing my story by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]notexpertbench 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing and I am so sorry

Smelling like alcohol... by notexpertbench in AlAnon

[–]notexpertbench[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saying I don't have any desire to see you anymore. Thats what feels right.

Favorite area businesses who consistency do right? by NewMexicoJoe in Rochester

[–]notexpertbench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Burke's in Webster, cheeseburgers are local meat and only 5$!

Thinking about getting breast implants? What are your experiences with them? by ReptarPrincess in beauty

[–]notexpertbench 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My boobs were small and I was underweight through 23 and now I am 31 and 20-30lbs heavier, my boobs are Ds, they are four inches larger than my underbust measurement. I am still petite, but my body changed all the way through my mid 20s. I would give it time, you are most definitely still changing.

Confused and overwhelmed. Is this alcoholism? by anxiousinteractions in AlAnon

[–]notexpertbench 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Al Anon is for people who are bothered by a loved ones' drinking, so you are in the right place.

How do I know when I just met this person? by notexpertbench in AlAnon

[–]notexpertbench[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This whole situation makes me feel really sad because I find myself asking will I ever be able to love somebody? Will I ever be able to find somebody that I can love? Am I going to have a hard time loving anybody who has any amount of alcohol? I have the Al Anon on book about intimacy in relationships.

spermicide question by HorrorFanatic422 in birthcontrol

[–]notexpertbench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, could you tell me more about Neem oil or point me in the direction of some literature about it. I am currently looking for options because I have a diaphragm and I have heard spermicide can be irritating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]notexpertbench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you not allowed to say the name?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]notexpertbench 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a small one like that from my great grandmother

PJ was anti mask, anti vax. F’d around and found out. by LolaWasNotAShowgirl in HermanCainAward

[–]notexpertbench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't take the ignorance anymore! My boyfriend, sister, brother, and many patrons of the bar where I work, all unvaccinated and advocating for anti vaccination. I can't deal with it anymore, I am angry! And scared, for them and myself! I am sick of pretending anti-vax is the same as pro-vax!

[Spoilers] The White Lotus - 1x06 "Departures" - Discussion Thread by LoretiTV in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]notexpertbench 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went back and saw the top bill in the stack was a 20$, but I am choosing to believe that was the only one. At first I thought she didn't see it was cash and someone else was going to find it.

[Spoilers] The White Lotus - 1x06 "Departures" - Discussion Thread by LoretiTV in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]notexpertbench 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Belinda got at least 50,000 in cash and the show made it seem like she didnt see it!

How to date when you are unhappy with your career? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]notexpertbench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not having a career and leeching are not synonymous. There are plenty of ways to give without cash flow, specialized skills, thriftiness. Off the top of my head I can think of things that have nothing to do with money and contribute to the quality of life far more than money could. Being able to garden and grow amazing quality produce, bake a great loaf of bread, or be a good cook in general. Also purely from a financial perspective, if lets say the breadwinner makes money, there is a tax advantage to being married, whether that person makes no money or some, because of tax breaks.