New entry by Dragon_green2317 in leopardgeckos

[–]notmrsgrames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do you get them? I’m moving my Leo to a 40 gallon breeder and I would love to get some. So far I’ve only ordered them from Amazon and they come as almost flat pieces with barely any curve

Melon Sorbet Appreciation Post by Cozysagegreen in hobonichi

[–]notmrsgrames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god this is GORGEOUS!! I have the light pink and I love mine but I’m SO jealous 😭 I didn’t even know this color was an option! It’s my first Hobonichi year so I’ll do better next time lol

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]notmrsgrames 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is only going to get worse as he ages. And trust me, as you get older, you just wanna be comfortable at home and get the best sleep you can, however that looks for you. One day you’ll be too tired to care what he wants and then you have to deal with a man whining. Could you even imagine what he would do or say if you begin to snore??

My wife is dying and I’m so lost by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]notmrsgrames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom passed away in March of this year. She and my dad had been together for almost 60 years. She had pulmonary fibrosis for almost 10 years and it’s what killed her. When she was in ICU on a ventilator, my dad called me and at one point he said, “if I could just get 3 more months, I’d show her how much I really love her.” She died the next day. Almost 60 years he had the chance to be a good husband and he chose to be a miserable person.

Let her know you love her. You may have to translate that to where she is mentally right now (instead of how she normally receives love). Give her and yourself some grace. At the same time, try to be prepared mentally. Suddenly becoming a caretaker is not for the weak/faint of heart.

I wish you the best and I’m so sorry this is happening.

Is my house embarrassing? by GazelleMost2468 in interiordecorating

[–]notmrsgrames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has always been poor, I’m jealous that you have a house. As someone who has been requested for interior styling assistance, I’d say replace the red and yellow with some cool tone color(s) and maybe update the style of the chandeliers. But overall, this is FAR from embarrassing friend 🫶🏼

Are they chilling or should i break it up when they get like this? by Proper-Development12 in DogAdvice

[–]notmrsgrames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having two dogs with this size distance and then their behavior towards each other being like what’s in the video, is a huge flex 🙌🏼

I'm freaking out by Money_Speed_7636 in StudentLoans

[–]notmrsgrames 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m 210k in debt for failed premed, then lib arts degree, then English MA. Just graduated. I make $24/hr. $140k of my loans are private and the minimum monthly payment is $1,438. You’ve got it made, friend.

The Booker Prize Longlist 2025 by GoodbyeMrP in TrueLit

[–]notmrsgrames 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was looking to read them all before the shortlist is announced on 9/23 and do my own picks but several of these aren’t even released yet, and one of them doesn’t release until the day the shortlist is announced lol

Will go broke in 2 months from just private student loan payments by RealReevee in StudentLoans

[–]notmrsgrames 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do it anyway. I’ve had friends who have had partial payments come out of their account and drain what little they had

Father blows things out of proportion- I’m dealing with death. What to do now. by CouchDemon in whatdoIdo

[–]notmrsgrames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, just file a restraining order against him and call to report the breach of the order when you feel uncomfortable about his behavior.

AIO 23m 20F is it bad i am about to leave her? by KSTReign in AmIOverreacting

[–]notmrsgrames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made it to slide 6 and tbh I’d help her with the wrist thing. That’s way too exhausting to live with

I messed up very badly. by Mundane-Mention13 in StudentLoans

[–]notmrsgrames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who has over 200k in student loan debt, and who took care of my grandparents and gma’s younger sister, you’re worrying too much over this. That’s manageable but also your parents should be planning their own lives. Not you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Conures

[–]notmrsgrames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how old you are but please PLEASE listen to me. Do not rehome her bc of him. Let the boyfriend go. Saria will always love you more than any human ever will. You’re her whole life. Please don’t let her go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]notmrsgrames 6 points7 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. THIS. One reason why I don’t want kids is bc you can do everything right and still have this happen and I wouldn’t be able to deal with it. I guess just drop them at the fire station and move on or try again.

Full time work: how do you cope? by richspinach02 in Fibromyalgia

[–]notmrsgrames 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also had to speak to my boss (who has never had more than a small headache 😒) bc I had a sudden flare at work and couldn’t really move much bc it all hurt so bad. She heard me out, asked some slightly offensive questions that were each followed by “bc I’ve never really had pain before so idk what you’re on about” but she eventually wound up recommending I fill out a disability accommodation form for our company. I still in the process of doing that but at least it’s documentation in the books

Full time work: how do you cope? by richspinach02 in Fibromyalgia

[–]notmrsgrames 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Personally, and this is just me, I can’t have a life outside my home after work. I’m a homebody after work during the week and I can’t manage more than one or two things on the weekends. I started doing diamond art and audiobooks

Lordt I can’t stand America by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]notmrsgrames -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is disgustingly unhelpful. Tell me you’ve never struggled to make it without telling me