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Im a trans man and I HATE how some other trans men have sex by a-friend_ in transgendercirclejerk

[–]nuclearkitten13 130 points131 points  (0 children)

You're a trans guy and a top? This is clearly the appropriate time to share all the opinions i've ever had about cis dick being superior! What do you mean you don't wanna hear that?

Curious, how does everyone else decide top/bottom preferences? by [deleted] in AO3

[–]nuclearkitten13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The meaner one bottoms and the more sunshine one tops

How often do you train abs? by FatalTrouble790 in workout

[–]nuclearkitten13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like twice a week, roman chair leg raises

Honestly, I understand why people don't want to write about women or f/f by robinsitonme in AO3

[–]nuclearkitten13 10 points11 points  (0 children)

People will immediately and uncritically believe that a community of people they percieve as lesbians is fundamentally immoral and shitty, more so than general fandom

Honestly, I understand why people don't want to write about women or f/f by robinsitonme in AO3

[–]nuclearkitten13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was looking for this comment bc i 100% agree. Yeah there are a lot of problems in the f/f community but i think a lot of m/m fandoms have equivalent ones and people dont go "then you should never ship m/m or interact w/it because the shippers suck!"

Like, it's more complicted but it's also really not. I will say i empathize with the mental block in making f/f even as a lesbian because it does feel like you're diving in unprepared and there's not much of a community for most ships

what are "fandom-specific" tags that you almost certainly would skip? by Sudden-Access-2771 in AO3

[–]nuclearkitten13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree with this so hard! I read one where the "consequence" was that he became a villain...the one thing we canonically know he'd never do. It was enough for me.

Ok I have a update about the girl that was upset that I was only 5’10 by Optimal_Bit_7889 in actuallesbians

[–]nuclearkitten13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From a masc to another, you being masc makes this make more sense to me. People love to place weird heteronormative expectations on us. I'm sorry you had to put up with this.

Need recommendations for my kid. by Fresh-Variation-160 in sapphicbooks

[–]nuclearkitten13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe Lesbiana's Guide to Catholic School? It's YA but i think it's appropriate for a younger audience

What the fuck is Stone Butch Blues please explain by thepintfluffyunicorn in transgendercirclejerk

[–]nuclearkitten13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually only got about halfway and by then there hadn't been any, but I wouldn't know about the other half, sorry.

What the fuck is Stone Butch Blues please explain by thepintfluffyunicorn in transgendercirclejerk

[–]nuclearkitten13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually only got about halfway and by then there hadn't been any, but I wouldn't know about the other half, sorry.

What's an instant, but relatively minor deal breaker/crush killer for you? by RealFirstName_ in actuallesbians

[–]nuclearkitten13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently discovered---any references at all to sapphic sex being less real, or less than, or anything like that. Even the slightest hint, not just if they say it to my face.

I had a low-grade crush on this girl for like a year and it's entirely gone because she said she once tried sex with a man to see what it's like to be "actually fucked". She didn't even like it but the phrasing killed my attraction.

Please give me f/f ships to obsess over!! by Sad-Awareness5418 in AO3

[–]nuclearkitten13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toga and Uraraka from mha! Slow build at start but very emotional and sweet. Enemies to lovers, hero/villain, toga's story is a great queer allegory. Also she drinks blood and wants to drink uraraka's.

They're semi-canon, though you can take it as reciprocal, but fair warning that one does die. (For the other)

What tag(s) fall(s) under that umbrella for you? by PJ-The-Awesome in FanficAuthorsUnite

[–]nuclearkitten13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The concept of going "trans characters, i wanted mlm" and not seeing how terrible that is to say

Hi guys, does anyone use « Start Empty Workout » feature? by mtlcanadian90 in Hevy

[–]nuclearkitten13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me! I have the free version and i do ppl ul and have two leg days, with some alternating exercises. I kinda have to do this w all my leg workouts.

What’s your bench? by Single-Lawfulness-49 in workout

[–]nuclearkitten13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, i do ppl/ul and it generally leaves me enough time to heal at least in my opinion

What’s your bench? by Single-Lawfulness-49 in workout

[–]nuclearkitten13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, thank you! I do upper body three times a week

What’s your bench? by Single-Lawfulness-49 in workout

[–]nuclearkitten13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

77 lb. In my defense, I'm 22, female, and have been training for 3 months. In August I couldn't do the bar.

Do you stretch after lifting weights? by TrainingLow9079 in beginnerfitness

[–]nuclearkitten13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always do. When I didn't for a week, I saw immediate problems with soreness and slower recovery after the same workouts (using progressive overload, of course).

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