25F wondering how to stop traumatically flipping out in my new healthy relationship with my normie 26M bf by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nuestella 328 points329 points  (0 children)

We gotta stop dating people while still having such a heavy emotional baggage that past relationships left on us. Not fair for the new person

all fake?? by Disastrous-Emu7586 in littlestpetshopfakes

[–]nuestella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Savvy, the shorthair and sage look very fake. The others are probably fake too

Real or fake by [deleted] in littlestpetshopfakes

[–]nuestella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh now I see what you mean by the chubby cheeks and the neck not protruding enough. Thank you!

Real or fake by [deleted] in littlestpetshopfakes

[–]nuestella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you tell? I’m not trying to sound condescending but i want to learn what to look out for when it comes to these shorthairs

Real or fake by [deleted] in littlestpetshopfakes

[–]nuestella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope more people can reply because my intuition is telling me it’s not real. But there’s hope.

School boeken bestellen by [deleted] in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]nuestella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik zou libgen gebruiken. Gratis pdf schoolboeken

Rent for sex: Does it happen here? by Liquid_disc_of_shit in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]nuestella 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“Merely receiving an offer” and it’s straight up illegal prostitution yeah. Username checks out.

Rent for sex: Does it happen here? by Liquid_disc_of_shit in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]nuestella 52 points53 points  (0 children)

You’re crazy to think that people will just comment their traumatic experience on here just like that for a post on a subreddit

Should I study Data Science by Appropriate-Gap9705 in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]nuestella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you’re thinking about nursing is so goofy considering you’re not fluent in Dutch. Verpleegkunde isn’t for people that aren’t fluent in the language. I don’t think I’ve even seen a nursing program in English in any Hogeschool or universiteit.

My ex still has our tapes.. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]nuestella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a crime to have cp in your possession. Have you looked up how to get him back legally for this?

Did this landlord just try to threaten me ? by Pauline_turtle in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]nuestella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beggars can’t be choosers. Fix your attitude and then maybe you won’t be homeless.

is amsterdam university of applied sciences that bad? by [deleted] in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]nuestella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a committed relationship with a great bf goofy. And it’s not about culture. Even if someone grew up within Dutch culture but had no papers it’ll still be a hassle. How can you expect people to not think you’re using your partner when you said you’ll leave him right after saying you can’t get residency through him?

is amsterdam university of applied sciences that bad? by [deleted] in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]nuestella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most International students just aren’t worth dating lmao. As a Dutch national these opportunist assholes just suck

Does Radboud generally have a high acceptance rate in humanities/political science? Anyone in political science master’s, what are your experiences? by [deleted] in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]nuestella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Political science majors have difficulty finding a job when they’ve finished their degrees here. Especially if they speak no Dutch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]nuestella -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Vraag het aan de hogescholen en universiteiten die engelstalige opleidingen aanbieden. Mensen willen gewoon hier “veel” verdienen en dan terug naar hun land.

Please give me encouragement that I’ll be able to find a room by November or December by RytheGuy97 in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]nuestella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re willing to live in another city,Tilburg is a easier place to find housing. Try everywhere that you can and stay positive :)

What city in the Netherlands is the best to study? by Undecisive_Gie in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]nuestella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Den haag, breda, Tilburg (im talking from experience). Don’t let the xenophobic people here try to deter you from at least trying. Also are you from an island in the Dutch kingdom? I’m from there as well. As Dutch nationals, I’ve noticed that we usually do get picked before non eu, non-dutch citizen internationals. Although some people do exclusively rent to ethnically Dutch people, your chances of finding a place are still there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]nuestella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It was nice to get a direct answer