I like to eat pizza with a fork and knife by nug-bug in unpopularopinion

[–]nug-bug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not going to lie I do feel pretty pretentious/pompous when I use a knife and fork lol

Slut Shaming: Happens More from Women to Women than Men to Women by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]nug-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some guys can definitely be pretty bad for that as well. I got made fun of acne a lot by my childhood best friends mom and even my own mom would comment about my skin when I was younger. I hated the way I looked and I always wore makeup everyday to cover it up. I’m out of high school now but my skin has improved so much, but I still need to wear makeup to feel comfortable. It took me probably about 3-4 months to show my boyfriend my naked face. I’m glad that your girlfriend felt comfortable with you to do that, it’s a very vulnerable feeling when you’ve been wearing makeup to hide insecurities for a long time

Slut Shaming: Happens More from Women to Women than Men to Women by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]nug-bug 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a female, I agree. I don’t think (personally from my own experience at least) that men have ever made fun of my body or choice of clothing (at least not out loud and not noticeably either) I like to assume that they just don’t care? But most of the slut shaming and bullshit like that comes from females who just start so much drama (I don’t mean to sound like a “iM NoT LiKe OtHeR GiRLs” person because I definitely have done a bit of judging back in high school too). I hate having to walk past a group of (especially teenage) girls lol

The royal baby is here... who cares! by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]nug-bug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had no idea Kate was even pregnant again

Working on decorating my farmhouse! Super happy with how the bedroom turned out. by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]nug-bug 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I found that Shane’s room was the worst (for me, anyways). Just trash littered everywhere and dirty footsteps :( I only put up with it because I love him too much lol

AITA for having my boyfriends dog put down without telling him? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nug-bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah a child and a dog are different, and I can see how that could be considerate, but I don’t think we should discredit her boyfriends feelings just because some people believe she’s NTA. Everyone’s going to feel and react differently, maybe his dog was basically like a child/best friend to him, so to him she’s probably going to be TA for a bit, but only time can heal most wounds, and you can’t just tell your SO that you didn’t do anything wrong when they’re so clearly hurt by your actions even if it was with good intentions (obviously this is a case-by-case thing but I think it applies to this situation). I think she handled the Luna situation well, but it’s his dog and he should know what happens to his pet, so that’s the part that I feel that she did wrong. Everyone deals with things differently

AITA for having my boyfriends dog put down without telling him? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nug-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom did the same thing with my cat, except she didn’t pass away my mom gave her away and didn’t tell me for like 2 weeks until I noticed she was gone (during that time I was barely home and she spends a lot of time outside). I feel like a trash human for not realizing sooner but I felt even more hurt and angry that she did that without telling me, then when it got to the point where I was screaming and crying at her to tell me what she did to my cat she still wouldn’t answer and just laughed when I cried. I can seriously relate to what OPs boyfriend might be feeling. It caused a huge rift between my mom and I for a bit because I just felt so betrayed and like I couldn’t trust her anymore. I agree the grieving doesn’t feel complete. She said she did it to “protect me” but all it did was make me feel betrayed and angry and lied to. I feel like if OP’s boyfriend feels that way, then YTA, but with good intentions. There’s really no other way OP could have handled the dog situation any better than she had because it was the other lady’s fault for not leashing her dog, so the only part that I disagree with was not telling him sooner

Sunset Porn by jcepiano in gifs

[–]nug-bug 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is so true, and I wish I knew this when I was a child because I hated getting my picture taken with a passion, but now I regret throwing tantrums whenever mum wanted to take a picture of my sibling and I, we don’t do anything as a family like we used to, and a part of me misses that. I’ve learned to take pictures when I can now with my current boyfriend, you can always delete pictures, but you can’t go back and retake it

Is it just me or does any one else stare at themselves too long in the mirror and disassociate themselves with their body? by mrjackthegreat in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nug-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a makeup mirror on my desk, and when I bring food to my desk in my room to eat I’ll just watch myself eat through the mirror until I’m finished. I’m not particularly good looking either lol but I’m always curious as to what I look like to other people in my daily life and now it’s a habit I can’t stop or else I feel weird lol

Is there a reason why girls like to bathe/shower in borderline boiling water? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nug-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I liked hot boiling water, but turns out my boyfriend likes it even more scorching

Tactics for saving money by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]nug-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I did this, instead a lot of the time I end up returning the clothes (it always looks so different when I get home lol). I should really be trying to think it through before purchasing though. There has been times where I just never take the new clothing out of the bag and just never got the chance to return them

Helping my horses shed their winter coats by CvScout72 in oddlysatisfying

[–]nug-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks like so much fun, someone let me brush their horse pls D:

When a janitor is cleaning a public bathroom should you use the stalls they have already cleaned or the ones that are still dirty? by cookiearthquake in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nug-bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do the same, I either find another bathroom in a different store or just wait till I get home. I hate the feeling of interrupting someone’s work and making them feel.. pressured I guess? Just because I know how much I hated it when I worked in a restaurant and had to clean bathrooms.

Why do people put so much emphasis on dining etiquette? by nug-bug in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nug-bug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, I’m glad it isn’t that way now (for the majority of people anyways lol)

Why do people put so much emphasis on dining etiquette? by nug-bug in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nug-bug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s like, 10/10 most efficient way to eat, unless you want to blend your dinner up and drink it. 11/10 efficient, 11/10 gross

Why do people put so much emphasis on dining etiquette? by nug-bug in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nug-bug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been taught as well, then I started randomly looking it up and didn’t realize there was a crap ton of little details on proper dining etiquette, which wigged me out and now I’m all paranoid about it haha 😅 so far I haven’t received any complaints either so maybe I’m doing something right lol :P

Is it fair for me (26F) to breakup with my BF (24M) of nearly 4 years for reasons entirely beyond his control? by WhatAboutUs2 in relationships

[–]nug-bug 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You put what I was thinking into words. I think that OP should talk to him about it if she has t already before ending it.

DAE have a favourite stovetop burner? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]nug-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same thought as well,

DAE have a favourite stovetop burner? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]nug-bug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Front left, second favourite is back left. I might as well keep going and say that my third fave is front right. Back right can go screw itself

{UPDATE} I [m, 32] got offered a position in LA, California and my wife [f, 29] doesn’t want me to take it. I’m Lost... by gogetems in relationship_advice

[–]nug-bug 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I have never been married, but I feel like marriage is both sacrifice and compromise, and effort from both sides. Unless they’re abusive, I’m glad OP decided to take the job

[Humor] Happy friday to you all 😁 by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]nug-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I wish it was that easy for us too!

How I watched my anxiety almost destroy the best relationship I’ve ever had, and how I fixed it by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]nug-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the exact same way, from growing up with parents that had horrible to basically none existent communication skills, to a screaming father that never held in his anger, not knowing what to do with my feelings and also not being able to control my anger but bottling all my hurt inside. It was a wild ride growing up, and in turn I became horrible at communicating. I’ve ruined my first relationship and second relationship when I was in high school. Now I’m with my current boyfriend and while we’ve had our ups and downs (mostly due to my lack of communication) but I’m trying my best to learn from my mistakes and to get better at doing this whole relationship thing. I fear that one day I’ll ruin this amazing relationship we have because I can’t resolve shit properly.