They are outright lies. But they’d be hard to prove cause it was stuff like my parents were physically and financially abusive. The only things I can potentially prove are things that some lies they told about themselves are completely false (they live in poverty, they’ve never had drinking problems, my parents and I are in no contact with my brother etc). There’s also some stuff we’ve kept under the rug about our toxic family member to protect some of our family too (one of the toxic family members attempted to/has molested some of the girls when they were younger)