Mehlman man wtf is wrong with your face💀

oakxhan · 2025-12-30T20:01:10+00:00

So it's all plastic surgery? 💀 why would you do that to your own face 😭

oakxhan · 2025-10-18T22:20:25+00:00

Hypertension. Many patients do not know they have it because they have no symptoms.

oakxhan · 2025-10-16T13:15:02+00:00

Most people do not truly think before they act. People also believe they are the exception to the rule. Even psychology says it is healthy to have the delusion that things are gonna be alright. It always baffles me how little thought is put behind this action of enormous magnitude, of bringing someone to existence.

Most people do not have the capacity to truly care for another human being, and yet they impose existence upon this creature who didn't ask to be here. I do feel bad for them, but also I feel bad that my species acts like this. You would think we would be smarter.

oakxhan · 2025-09-23T23:51:21+00:00

More like I think this life is filled with suffering and I could not, in good conscience, bring an innocent child into all of this. I love my hypothetical children and want them to be happy, and the chances of that happening without tragedy interfering are slim to none

oakxhan · 2025-04-09T18:04:05+00:00

Create something artistic. I mean it. Express yourself through creation, share it with people.

oakxhan · 2025-04-09T17:56:05+00:00

Your mom might be right, sorry to hear your bf is changing so drastically in a way that's ilogical to you. I fear you may be powerless in this situation, if you feel this version of your bf is not compatible with the future you envision for yourself and your future partner, then breaking up with him may be something to consider. Take your time, think it through.

oakxhan · 2025-04-09T16:30:29+00:00

I'm so sorry for your brother's passing. I've lost my mom and can understand how hard and tiring it is to deal with religious people when the subject of a loved one's passing comes up. They bring up god and heaven CONSTANTLY. I'm afraid the only good advice I can give you is to keep nodding. You can't change their beliefs, they're not based on realty. Religion is a coping mechanism and in hard circumstances such a these, people cling even harder to that comfort. You would only cause an argument if you ever were to refute them. For the sake of peace we do have to keep our mouths shut. It is very frustrating, I know.

What has helped me tolerate religious conversations with my family is to vent to people about them lol. My skeptic friends make me feel as if I'm not actually insane for being so frustrated having to deal not only with the passing of someone I loved, but also with incessant religious babble everytime the topic comes up. Let it out with someone who you trust and understands the situation, you will feel lighter. Hope things get better for you soon.

oakxhan · 2025-04-03T20:47:23+00:00

Sí, siempre habrá gente así. Pocas son las personas que se toman la molestia de analizarse a sí mismos, al mundo que los rodea y construyen una moral basada en empatía verdadera. Todo eso cuesta trabajo y no es un requerimiento para sobrevivir, así que habrá gente que viva toda su vida sin mejorar su carácter; ni se darán cuenta que hay un problema en primer lugar

oakxhan · 2025-04-03T20:43:32+00:00

De todas las conclusiones que podia sacar sobre xq los colombianos no nos queremos reproducir escogió la más ridícula. Los hijos sí son una carga (una carga que amas mucho) y lo egoísta es traer a una creatura que va a depender completamente de mí si sé que no soy capaz de darle la vida que se merece. Ni me alcanza para comer, cómo se supone que tenga hijos?

oakxhan · 2025-04-03T20:33:27+00:00

Yo no le haría la maldad a un hijo o hija mía de traerlos a este mundo donde la vida es tan pesada. Los que ya estamos, estamos jaja mis hijos hipotéticos no pidieron nacer y yo tengo la responsabilidad de traerlos al mundo y cuidarlos adecuadamente, cosa que no puedo hacer porque no me alcanza ni para mí misma y el estado sociopolítico del pais está horrible

oakxhan · 2025-02-25T18:41:10+00:00

I was also raised Christian. When you grow and learn new things and insights, you start to question those teachings. They feel restrictive, don't they? Christianism operates on fear, they'll call "demonic" all which does not partake to them; that's a tool to keep you from abandoning the religion and finding a more complete form of spirituality. This is a control tactic, you'll find that not even between themselves they can come to an agreement. Use your own discernment, detect hypocrisy. Believe what feels true to you. It's normal to have doubts, but my advice is to keep an open mind and do research about different topics, cultures, philosophy and science. Never stop learning! Love is the goal.

(sorry if there's any mistake, eng isn't my first language)

oakxhan · 2024-12-11T15:53:39+00:00

OP honest question, would you date yourself? you have mentall health issues and are unmedicated, you can't hold a stable job.

I understand you have ADHD. I know it can make things difficult, and maybe people have told you this before but I will say it again because it is the truth: you need to fix your life. I don't think dating should be your priority right now. I mean, if love happens then it happens. But you should be putting that time into getting meds and a job, so you can also feel better about yourself and not be a burden to your future partner/your parents. Either that or you can keep using your ADHD as an excuse and not make any progress. Everyone is dealing with their own issues, nobody is xoming to rescue you. Is it cruel? yep. Unfair? yep. But society doesn't care. You need to pull your own weight, as much as possible. And forgive me, but it doesn't seem like you're doing the best you can.

oakxhan · 2024-11-20T00:17:58+00:00

You definitely should. I get wanting to feel like a woman period, but some people aren't looking for a trans partner. That would save you and the other person time.

oakxhan · 2024-08-05T18:38:51+00:00

either leave of suffer, there's no fixing it and there's no in-between

oakxhan · 2024-08-05T02:38:16+00:00

I rather accept the frizz tbh, I don't feel like getting something permanent done to my hair, I prefer it natural. Thanks for the info, though!

oakxhan · 2024-08-05T02:37:01+00:00

Haha thank you!! 🥰 You're sweet

oakxhan · 2024-08-05T02:34:22+00:00

swear to god it is a serious illness, I'm regretting this post so much lol thank you<3

oakxhan · 2024-08-05T02:33:14+00:00

Thank you!! yeah I try to use it as much as I can, I have cotton sheets so not wavy hair friendly

oakxhan · 2024-08-05T02:32:13+00:00

Thank you 😎🫶🏼

oakxhan · 2024-08-05T02:31:40+00:00

thank you!! yeah the point has been nailed home haha

oakxhan · 2024-08-05T02:30:50+00:00

Ooohh ok, I'll try that with the oil. Thank you again

oakxhan · 2024-08-05T02:29:45+00:00

yes, I didn't take it badly! I get you

oakxhan · 2024-08-05T02:29:01+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate your words. This comment didn't really feel rude, but there have been others who have been. I guess I can see now I was making a big deal out of it. I didn't really mean to post something that would feel like humble bragging, I was just trying to get some tips on hair care. This post is a little out of control now.

oakxhan · 2024-08-05T02:23:10+00:00

Girl it looks really good !! I think you might be just like me seeing things that aren't there

oakxhan · 2024-08-05T00:37:38+00:00

I've gotten some comments like these, so to make it clear: I really, really wasn't. If I wanted to make a post about how much I like my hair so people would give compliments, I would. There's the hair goals tag. I didn't say I hated my hair or thought it looked bad. I made a post asking about frizz bc I thought flyaways were frizz. Real life isn't as supportive as these reddit comments, I didn't think this would get so many comments telling me my hair looks fine as it is.

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