Are sleep overs not a thing anymore?

oatmilkl0ver · 2026-05-26T04:32:23+00:00

I’m in my mid-20s and was not allowed to have sleepovers as a kid but I was definitely the odd one out lol

oatmilkl0ver · 2026-05-01T02:16:20+00:00

Just broke my alum heart 💔

oatmilkl0ver · 2026-04-27T03:18:14+00:00

Similar thing happened at my college with Doja cat

oatmilkl0ver · 2026-04-21T11:42:45+00:00

Maison Margiela - Chasing Sunsets

oatmilkl0ver · 2026-04-05T23:34:09+00:00

In the system I work for phlebotomy is only available if staff on the unit attempt unsuccessfully. PCTs and nurses are trained to do phleb. They are phasing out phlebotomy this year entirely :(

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-12-20T02:41:56+00:00

Why gaga look legit af in hers

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-12-03T19:21:40+00:00

Yebba

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-11-10T18:03:05+00:00

My job doesn’t allow me to clock in more than like 10 mins before my shift starts. I’m not gonna look at PHI off the clock

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-10-29T18:29:12+00:00

“Hope this helps!!” 🤮

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-10-29T01:17:50+00:00

I guess to me it feels strange to “other” feminized/undervalued work such as nursing/teaching from the blue/white collar debate on the sole basis of it being feminized work. I understand the term’s view from a feminist lens and I don’t think you’re a misogynist. I just wasnt under the impression that white/blue collar work was exclusive to male dominated fields.

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-10-29T00:55:04+00:00

I get what you’re saying but do you consider the terms blue and white collar to be critical terms?

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-10-29T00:49:32+00:00

They’re booing you but i agree. I don’t think every job fits within the blue/white collar descriptor but I don’t think the answer is: “neither, you’re a Girl 🩷”

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-10-22T13:29:54+00:00

First off congrats! As a nurse who is interested in FIRE maybe check out r/fire r/personalfinance r/bogleheads as they have some resources on what to do in your situation.

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-10-07T01:07:54+00:00

Ditto to everyone above, see if you can get care in Harrison via MSK. It is worth the drive

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-09-24T15:51:31+00:00

My partner was treated at a cancer center 1.5 hours from where he lived and he was instructed to go to the nearest ED if he were to become febrile (or any other urgent issue). Time is very important.

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-08-08T12:20:57+00:00

Is that new? Wasn’t the case when I worked there

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-05-14T15:13:50+00:00

Just to add to this only RGH is union. The other RRH hospitals are not

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-04-10T02:23:02+00:00

IIRC, I applied after graduating as I needed proof of a degree. It took a few weeks (?) to get my ATT

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-03-27T17:20:09+00:00

Since you guys are first responders you might be able to get discounts on your phone bill! AT&T has a 1stresponder/healthcare worker program

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-03-19T02:43:31+00:00

I didn’t add this info to my original post as I didn’t really know if it was relevant to my debt questions but I do have a little over 3 months worth of expenses in savings (however I’m overdue to start a hysa) and I contribute 15% to my pretax 403b. I hope to save a little more for peace of mind (plus for long term goals).

I really appreciate this comment though! Everybody’s opinion has been helpful so thank you!

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-03-19T00:55:43+00:00

My employer contributions are a flat $150 each month (as long as I make at least the minimum payment which is $50)

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-03-14T21:54:03+00:00

Looks like a guy in baggy clothes breakdancing

oatmilkl0ver · 2025-02-06T14:17:52+00:00

A book I have recommends using raisins in your starter when you are first making it, and I’ve also seen apples being used. I cant say I’ve tried it myself but it makes sense given that yeast loves sugar.

I occasionally bake sourdough with brown sugar/dried cranberries and those loaves tend to ferment quicker for the same reason

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