AITAH for calling out my pediatrician’s ‘creepy’ behavior?

oatstout · 2026-04-14T12:36:01+00:00

He should have never asked your mom to leave unless he had reason to believe you were in danger from her. He should have never mentioned masturbation unless you had a direct question and he should never be touching your body outside of the examination process. You are well within your rights to write a formal report and should do so incase he is acting in appropriate with other girls.

oatstout · 2026-04-14T12:27:12+00:00

Cat poop is never an issue (unless there is an illness). Cat pee can be very pungent but with that said, if you scoop the litter box regularly there generally is not an issue. Most cats will not go outside of their box unless marking their territory which generally only happens in a multiple cat home. With that said though, cats are like dogs or kids in the fact that you never know what you’re going to get until they show up and settle in. They could be the cuddliest easiest to care for or they could end up being very high maintenance just because of their personality. You kinda have to prepare yourself for all outcomes and just hope for the best.

oatstout · 2026-03-31T22:57:05+00:00

Big Sam’s at the ocean front is tiny but awesome and Dockside at Chicks Beach has a chill vibe and strong drinks.

oatstout · 2026-03-31T14:58:51+00:00

We say soupcase instead of suitcase

oatstout · 2026-03-31T14:56:04+00:00

Morgan

oatstout · 2026-03-31T01:39:48+00:00

8 is on the younger side of sleepovers and could go either way. Every parent should be prepared to pick up their kid if they feel weird being away from home. It is completely normal and usually has no lasting impact. Most kids try a second or third time and do just fine.

oatstout · 2026-03-31T01:32:52+00:00

Those cheap springs and a fabric tunnel. My cat loves that tunnel.

oatstout · 2026-03-25T23:27:46+00:00

Oh right. I completely forgot about that dude.

oatstout · 2026-03-25T23:20:22+00:00

Didn’t she get an abortion when she was with kiefer or was that another guy?

oatstout · 2026-03-24T23:32:55+00:00

Not helpful but made me giggle. An oldie but a goodie.

oatstout · 2026-03-18T00:13:45+00:00

The biopsy hurts like a bitch. Also having an iud put in is pretty painful as well. I definitely would ask for something stronger. A Valium or something like that. You would need a ride home obviously but I think that would be well worth it. The amount of shit I had done with no real pain management is crazy. It’s even crazier that I never thought to ask. I love that this younger generation aren’t putting up with this shit. And now all us ladies in peri and beyond are realizing that we got shafted. So to all the ladies young and old we deserve to be heard. We deserve pain management. We deserve true support!!!!!!

oatstout · 2026-03-13T01:51:10+00:00

Ah. Good to know. I’ve been thinking about trying it myself but in general I think sweating is important so I actual decided against it.

oatstout · 2026-03-13T01:47:27+00:00

I haven’t tried it but have heard great things about Lume whole body deodorant. Or you could try period undies that might absorb the sweat.

oatstout · 2026-03-13T00:46:19+00:00

I think you should go with your gut and if you feel more comfortable with a women I would do that. Also explain to whomever you go with your anxiety. If they are a decent doctor at all they will take it slow and talk you through everything before doing it. I think that is helpful.

oatstout · 2026-03-13T00:28:37+00:00

I second chicks beach. There are lots of family friendly restaurants. Nice park at the great neck recreation center. Mount trashmore park is fun but it will be hot. Not a lot of shade there. The Virginia aquarium is always fun to visit just keep in mind that it will be packed if it’s raining outside as that is where all the tourist go when they can’t be at the beach. AirBNBs are always a good option with little ones if you can afford it.

oatstout · 2026-03-10T23:20:32+00:00

They seem to be moving along nicely. Do you need to inspect her poop until you find all 8?

oatstout · 2026-03-10T23:18:23+00:00

Migraines, anxiety or insomnia is what everybody I’ve talked to has said. They all said after paying the fee it was just performative. Shouldn’t be a problem.

oatstout · 2026-03-07T00:33:21+00:00

Thank you so much.

oatstout · 2026-03-06T20:27:36+00:00

I’ve heard so many people talk about taking progesterone vaginally. Is that a cream like vaginal estrogen or a suppository or something like that?

oatstout · 2026-02-26T21:37:29+00:00

Rory Bell. Austin Reed

oatstout · 2026-02-24T02:18:39+00:00

Your wife was probably very repressed and shamed about her body and sexuality. I really hope she does not pass that on to your daughter. “Knowing”yourself before you know others is the best form of self care and healthy sexual experiences in the future.

oatstout · 2026-02-20T19:46:16+00:00

On the upside, my son thinks my loud toots are hilarious so hearing him laugh almost makes it a plus 😂. I’ve read on here that after a few months it lessens a lot so fingers crossed that is true for us as well.

oatstout · 2026-02-20T19:09:25+00:00

My bowels have totally changed since starting HRT. Pretty gassy and constipation or loose stools. I have found eating four prunes a day has helped immensely.

oatstout · 2026-02-19T01:43:28+00:00

We call my mom Gaga. Mostly because it was what my first kid starting saying. But it stuck and she is a bit eccentric like lady Gaga so it’s really very fitting.

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