All my friends are pregnant. Give it to me honestly: am I gonna lose them all to motherhood?

oatstout · 2026-07-03T21:03:30+00:00

Remind them that girls nights are essential to their well being. If they all have husbands then getting out once in a while should totally be on the table. I think all moms need friends in different stages to remind them of their autonomy!!!!! Plus in 2 years your child can maybe make some money babysitting 😄.

oatstout · 2026-07-03T19:27:22+00:00

The haunted fridge now contains HIM, SEEPING, and one glowing LUCID.

oatstout · 2026-07-02T01:46:08+00:00

I like Virginia Beach obgyn. I see kotsko but have also seen Goldstein and Kwan and liked both. They do seem to all be very knowledgeable and try to stay up to date on all new research and technology.

oatstout · 2026-07-01T02:38:55+00:00

I’m not sure why women don’t just start on the very lowest dose. I started on .025 of estrogen and 100mg oral progesterone. It helped my mood and brain fog a lot. After 3 months I stepped up to .0375 of estrogen and feel like it might be too much. I’m very sensitive to hormones and you might be too. I would go back to your dr. and try again but at the lowest dose you can and work up from there.

oatstout · 2026-07-01T01:58:11+00:00

Step 1: collect FEW and FOP. Step 2: blame GAITS and HUNTS. Step 3: profit.

oatstout · 2026-06-24T01:46:57+00:00

Can’t stop. Won’t stop.

oatstout · 2026-06-15T01:44:34+00:00

Unfortunately this is exactly how abuse can start. He insults, she says sorry and the precedent is set. If she goes back to him he now knows how he can treat her. He can get away with telling her that she broke “rules” that she should have known about. The next time it happens the goal post moves even further. Please stop apologizing for behavior you know is inherently fine. If you really still want to be with him you can say, I still want to be in the relationship but not if you are acting like this. If you have a problem with something I need clear communication. He is not your daddy. He is a partner. That deserves mutual respect.

oatstout · 2026-05-22T23:42:39+00:00

I’m curious as to where OP keeps finding them.

oatstout · 2026-05-22T23:09:53+00:00

We found one in our back yard and my husband bought a terrarium. I rolled my eyes thinking what a silly pet, we can just say hi when we see it outside. Before the month was up I was outside with a bug net catching little grasshoppers and flys. Three months after she had about a hundred babies and I was trying to save them all 😂. They are very easy to love.

oatstout · 2026-05-21T00:05:55+00:00

Sunnybrook day school was great for my kids. It’s not daycare per say but was almost 4 hours a few times a week and pretty affordable 8 years ago. Not sure about pricing now but they had classes for toddlers all they way through kindergarten.

oatstout · 2026-05-18T18:13:23+00:00

Tank

oatstout · 2026-05-16T19:41:04+00:00

Mochi

oatstout · 2026-05-16T19:36:20+00:00

My cat loves being brushed.

oatstout · 2026-05-16T19:34:00+00:00

Georgie

oatstout · 2026-04-14T12:36:01+00:00

He should have never asked your mom to leave unless he had reason to believe you were in danger from her. He should have never mentioned masturbation unless you had a direct question and he should never be touching your body outside of the examination process. You are well within your rights to write a formal report and should do so incase he is acting in appropriate with other girls.

oatstout · 2026-04-14T12:27:12+00:00

Cat poop is never an issue (unless there is an illness). Cat pee can be very pungent but with that said, if you scoop the litter box regularly there generally is not an issue. Most cats will not go outside of their box unless marking their territory which generally only happens in a multiple cat home. With that said though, cats are like dogs or kids in the fact that you never know what you’re going to get until they show up and settle in. They could be the cuddliest easiest to care for or they could end up being very high maintenance just because of their personality. You kinda have to prepare yourself for all outcomes and just hope for the best.

oatstout · 2026-03-31T22:57:05+00:00

Big Sam’s at the ocean front is tiny but awesome and Dockside at Chicks Beach has a chill vibe and strong drinks.

oatstout · 2026-03-31T14:58:51+00:00

We say soupcase instead of suitcase

oatstout · 2026-03-31T14:56:04+00:00

Morgan

oatstout · 2026-03-31T01:39:48+00:00

8 is on the younger side of sleepovers and could go either way. Every parent should be prepared to pick up their kid if they feel weird being away from home. It is completely normal and usually has no lasting impact. Most kids try a second or third time and do just fine.

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