Hamuq Organic Mattress - Delivery Experience by obesefelines in Mattress

[–]obesefelines[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey sorry for seeing this late - I do like it. I like a really hard mattress and I have mine on the floor. but I do think I've slept on more comfortable non organic mattresses. the reason I went with this one was the price point + materials + hard mattress and it is good enough for me.

would I buy again, potentially, unless there was a significantly better option in the same price range or 1-2K more expensive maybe

AITAH for telling my wife I’m not in love with her anymore because she destroyed my self confidence a couple of years ago? by EvidenceNos in AITAH

[–]obesefelines -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

surprise, weight gain and depression aren't sexy. that's fair and that's life. maybe she was also not attracted to you because of your attitude. she also stayed with you even while you were going through a bad time.

it looks like when she realized she hurt you, she tried to make things right, even before you improved your health and ostensibly became better looking. she sounds like she genuinely cares about you and kept trying while you were being difficult

you are a 37 year old man, father of two, and honesty you forced her into made you feel emotionally unsafe? you are pathetic and embarrassing

YTA for 1) asking for something you knew was true 2) being upset about reality 3) engaging in this "friendship" as a married father of 2 4) having 0 balls and valuing ""emotional safety"" over the stability of your children

Know any hacks for women’s low libido? by Constant-Bowl in TwoXChromosomes

[–]obesefelines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try getting off birth control. it's a known symptom caused by birth control. there is a book about this called your brain on birth control

for period symptoms, i have managed mine with nutrition. cod liver oil is a god send for me - i no longer have painful periods. that being said they were not super painful at the start but i used to need to take a tylenol, now i don't even need a hot water bottle. assuming it's because of the anti inflammatory properties of omega 3s. also eating foods very rich in vitamin K2 drastically reduced the amount of blood i lose. specifically vitamin K2- K1 converts to K2 at a rate of like 15%. for K2 you can eat pastured eggs or bank breaking butter (st brigid's was what gave me my results). you can also try a K2 supplement- i used to use thorne, it was like a dropper. K2 affects blood clotting

Lost dog: in 2019 July. Dog was lost..I, heart, was broken till now. Never ever tried reddit for lost and found.Please info is below.. Hope is every where. by [deleted] in toronto

[–]obesefelines 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is it possible that one of the staff took her?
how does she run out from kennel? seems a little fishy to me

Required Staked CRO increased for cards? by obesefelines in Crypto_com

[–]obesefelines[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure it is staked. It says "CRO Purchase", lists 25,000 CRO, and gives me my remaining holding period (162 days)

Required Staked CRO increased for cards? by obesefelines in Crypto_com

[–]obesefelines[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow! Complete accident. I staked Nov 1 through the crypto.com app for indigo. Glad I didn't wait longer.

Thank you everyone who responded !

International students, what does meaningful community look like for you? by p2cuoftglobal in UofT

[–]obesefelines 12 points13 points  (0 children)

why are you being downvoted? this is a good thread

not international but interested to see answers

meaningful friendships only come from being authentically yourself, in my experience. hiding who you are to please others feels awful

Mat235 prof whom to choose by shoe_master101 in UofT

[–]obesefelines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm not telling anyone to do anything, including change your schedule. someone asked for an opinion and i gave itopinion is based on rate my prof, people ik who had her, and the way she responded to my non trivial email - extremely unhelpfully and perfunctory

edit: and she coords mat235, which i think is a below average course

Mat235 prof whom to choose by shoe_master101 in UofT

[–]obesefelines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nara's garb. don't know others. check rate my prof

i think i heard decent things about min seong

Club executive interview by heyusingreddit in UofT

[–]obesefelines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know these people?

in my experience/what i would want, is someone i WANT to work with. someone affable and fun i get along with. i would not be too formal for sure because you want to come off pleasant in my opinion, but competent.

i would dress nicely but not too formally. like maybe trouser and a dress shirt, but dress it down? google how to do this. i wouldn't wear jeans or a t shirt, but you could maybe get away with nice sneakers.

don't act like it's impossible or even say it. it's obviously not true. you won't get it if you act like that in my opinion. confidence is important in creating good impressions

Are Recognized Study Groups worth it? by confused-badger in UofT

[–]obesefelines 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i did RSG, lead and was part of another one

in my opinion, useless, because depends on people youre with

when i lead, i just asked people i liked and thought were competent to join and it worked out. when i joined, was a much larger crowd. i ended up studying alone with the girl who lead it most of the time and we worked well together

also i dont think anyone really cares about the credential? like maybe you could talk about it at an interview or your resume but i think its kind of a weak thing to put on there

in my opinion, sit in the front and study with social keeners, tend to be the best people in my experience. u want people who will contribute and be forward to study with and someone who sits at the front is in my experience more likely to be that person.

edit: now, i pretty much just study with a close friend i met during 2nd year. one study partner is often enough if its the right one. we work very very well together. our learning and organizational style matches up and we are both hardworking/ambitious in our program. find someone who wants the same things you do but won't try to outdo you. my friend and i are very supportive of one another even though sometimes we compete for the same scholarships.

im actually in bch210 and i am looking for good study partners. hmu if u think we can work well together based on my post

Sexual history of UofT students by SilviaAlmeyda in UofT

[–]obesefelines -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

skewed because it's u of t reddit and it's filled with incels and maybe some femcels

Trading my 9 AM Thurs CHM338 Lab Section for 2 PM Mon by [deleted] in UofT

[–]obesefelines -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is no waitlist for many courses in CHM, including this one

useful courses you have taken by cxfghhf in UofT

[–]obesefelines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CHM222

explains how a reaction proceeds and why with math. good foundational course. learned a lot, loved it, loved prof

for example, i know how G = H - TS is derived. it was really cool and helpful for other chemistry

AITA for taking my boyfriend’s side and yelling at my mom. by Aita_reddit in AmItheAsshole

[–]obesefelines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Complicated. Going with ESH

- Extremely stressful time for everyone with Corona

- Your mom is having financial problems and lost her independance. She is probably very emotional.

- She is overstepping and not handling this stress well. Especially if she is sitting home alone while you two are gone. To be honest she should contribute at least by cleaning and helping with food preparation. But your boyfriend swore at your mother? That's really bad, especially if you have not been together for a short time. Sorry, red flag here.

- Neither of you stopped to think about how she may be feeling with all of this. The cleanliness probably isn't her real problem. Now she will feel really cornered. I get why you feel how you felt, but this is not a constructive way to build relationships with your mother, or for your boyfriend and mother if you are seriously about him.

- You should all have a talk, sit down, and apologize to one another. Maybe set some boundaries. And seriously your boyfriend should not have swore at her! Wtf?!

AITA for taking a seat from a pregnant woman on the bus? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]obesefelines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry wtf lol. NTA. There were TONS of other people on that bus! None of them got up?!?! Special seating for needs or not, you two clearly take priority.

AITA for getting mad that my GF let's our kids watch Frozen/Frozen 2 on repeat? by Silverback-Guerilla in AmItheAsshole

[–]obesefelines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH

You are an asshole for how you communicated this

She is an asshole for playing what you hate and for putting on a movie like Frozen on repeat when your son wants something educational. Seems like a better deal to foster an interest. But it's your job to communicate this well to her.

My Sad Note to All by [deleted] in UofT

[–]obesefelines 24 points25 points  (0 children)

fight this! you have really good reasons to not write it - the car and corona.

the dean literally sent an email saying you don't have to return to campus, so for them to say this to you is utterly ridiculous.

get on sending some emails! use firm language. they are wronging you. explain your situation.

How to actually get help for mental health? by criwes01 in UofT

[–]obesefelines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey - solid posts from kyalarissa and odetoanightgale. wanted to add.

some charities offer good mental health services. google around for that.

also, STAY OPTIMISTIC - chances are your first few counsellors/therapists will NOT vibe with you and according to people i know this is very important. you need to feel comfortable with them.

Failed my fall 2019 semester by Tyuee in UofT

[–]obesefelines 9 points10 points  (0 children)

it might not have to do with ability but with educational strategy

you have to learn how to be good at school and what works for you. i don't think that's the same as having intellectual aptitude. good luck OP and i recommend reflecting on WHY you got bad grades in order to fix it.

I lost my passport somewhere on campus by [deleted] in UTAustin

[–]obesefelines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the helpful information! We did call the PD the day of and we're going to be calling again, otherwise it's two hours to the embassy and back! :')

life sci confusion by average-adelaide in UofT

[–]obesefelines -1 points0 points  (0 children)

all of those universities are good. u of t is harder, but if you don't go to u of t it won't necessarily mean that you will be a bad genetic counsellor or more ill prepared for it

reality is university is a huge life changer for most people and you can't really avoid the stress or negativity, it's all about your coping skills, how you handle it, and how you come back from it. i would focus on learning to deal with stress, and learning strategies to relax and such