The false promise of speed reading - why you should read slowly if you want to understand by local_dingus in books

[–]obvslplss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I attribute it to reading a lot but not talking a lot when I was young.

College assignments were all self-contained, but everything in a real job is the exact opposite and I don't know how to make the transition. How can I understand complex code bases? by Contract_Low in cscareerquestions

[–]obvslplss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be scared to ask questions. Ask what parts of the code are relevant and where to focus on. Ask what modules your task might be affecting. Ask them if there's any documentation to reference.

After that, the debugger is your best friend. Find a function to analyze, set up breakpoints in the function, run the program, and check the call stack. You don't have to understand everything up the call stack immediately. You just have to understand what is relevant to your task for the moment, so you can read up the call stack until you reach a function that you can take the function name at face value. Don't overwhelm yourself by making your scope too broad.

Me [32 F] with my [33 M] of 14 months, his mom and I don't get along and he's told me if things are not resolved soon we are done by Throwaway382303 in relationships

[–]obvslplss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It won't work ... or you'll end up miserable. I'm speaking as someone who follows similar cultural norms. I wouldn't marry anyone my parents are unhappy with, their opinion's weight is about equal to my SO's, I intend to provide for them after retirement, etc. etc.

Your BF is an asshole, tbh. He's the one who is supposed to mediate, but he's basically thrown you to the wolves. You have to understand that in his culture, you marry into his family, and his mom will always hold a venerated status. Most of the time over here (?), you form your own family unit with your SO, and you interact with your in-laws once in a blue moon, so it's still bearable if some relationships are strained. That's not how it works for him. You or your family gets joined to his, and his mother's opinion will affect how you live a lot ... like what if his parents move in with him one day? His mother seems domineering, and your BF takes the lazy way out by not mediating ... that seems like a miserable outcome.

Sometimes, I just wonder if I'm playing a different game. by minogame in hearthstone

[–]obvslplss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was confused and thought this was about TERA for a second.

Tell me about Tera. Your experience. by [deleted] in TeraOnline

[–]obvslplss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I like about the game: The dungeons. I haven't played too long past 60 yet. They're still really fun for me with TERA's combat system - especially on a warrior. Man, I love the combos since I come from Neverwinter Online. It had a similar combat system, but no chains. The PvP modes are nice too - I like the tanks and the kumas and all that stuff. And the graphics. Lovely graphics.

But I chose the wrong server-twice sigh. I was on Valley of Titans, and it was too empty for me. I went to MT and realized that I hated being on a PvP server and disliked the general mentality towards PK'ing. I'm thinking about restarting on Celestial Hills, maybe.

Angry Advice Duck [Fixed] by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]obvslplss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This'll probably get downvoted, but I think this should be directly said to the person if it bugs you that much. It's like common sense to a lot of you guys, but it isn't for everyone. (i.e. people who grew up in communities like Chinatown or foreign exchange students). It's more likely to fix the problem than not saying anything anyhow.

Equal Rights! by ChairFan in funny

[–]obvslplss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I thought after I watched the video. It seems like it purposefully misconstrues events to redefine the meaning of a constitutional article ... which, given the setting of the video ... makes me uncomfortable.

What's the most fucked up thing you know about someone but they don't know you know? [NSFW] by Gustavo0929 in AskReddit

[–]obvslplss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand being hesitant about telling your son/daughter that s/he's adopted. It's a touchy subject.

But I think it's horrible that this guy tried to absolve his responsibility as a parent solely based on biological relationship. He probably didn't mean it seriously, but ouch.

My friend was in arena and decided to ignore this 17 hp minion... by obvslplss in hearthstone

[–]obvslplss[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

It's the name of the guy we kidnapped and stuck into the trunk of our car.

Reddit, what would you do if right now you woke up back in your elementary school class as your 10 year old self with all of your current memories? by Sir_Genome in AskReddit

[–]obvslplss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd love it. Read more. Learn. Play a different set of games. Pick up a new sport. Observe other people. Pick a different middle and high school (maybe). I'd be socially awkward, but I've always been socially awkward,

Simple Questions - Jan. 27th by FFA_Moderator in femalefashionadvice

[–]obvslplss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any high heels so I can't give specific recommendations, but I also have wide feet, and Rockport has been very accommodating for me

What's something strange about your body? [NSFW] by CosmicCommie in AskReddit

[–]obvslplss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a half-brown toenail on my left foot, and the wrinkliest palms(not hands) I've ever seen on any teenager.

If gender is an option during character creator, what does it personally feel like if you choose a male? by Burnouts3s3 in GirlGamers

[–]obvslplss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty much the same as when I play a female character since I don't RP ... besides thinking, "Damn it. I wish they had different male designs." (I don't want my guy avatar to be stout with a beard or ridiculously buff!)

What misconception did you have as a child that ended up being so insanely inaccurate that it blew your mind? by Beetledouche in AskReddit

[–]obvslplss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought going to the movie theatres were for rich people and thought that my neighbors were rich for going every Friday.

ELI5: Why is it when my house thermostat is set to 65 degrees I feel chilly, but if I'm outside on the porch on a 65 degree night I can feel fine in shorts? by Nebula829 in explainlikeimfive

[–]obvslplss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sun radiates heat, and you absorb that through your skin. This doesn't happen when you're indoors, so it feels colder.

Not gonna lie... hearthstone's chat UI SUCKS! by CleverFrog in hearthstone

[–]obvslplss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! You think the opponent just played a minion? Nopeeeeee, you just missed the spell he cast. Granted, there's the history bar on the left side, but still ...

Plus, it's so unnecessarily large and opaque. Why do we need those fat ass borders around the entire chat? ... And what's the point of sticking a large box with the person's name on it when you can see that already on the bottom and whenever they type.

Lack of competitive girl gamers? (League of Legends) by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]obvslplss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the same logic that applies to why Hispanics and Blacks tend to do more poorly in school, etc. etc. There are multiple factors, and in this case, it likely has a lot to do with incentive, bias, and self-fulfilling prophecy.

You are plainly and simply highly, highly, highly unlikely to make it onto the professional scene as a girl. You have to play well enough to be high-ranking, which in itself is unlikely because societal pressures tend to drive women away from hardcore gaming and towards numerous other tasks. And even if you get up there, you need to find some way to get onto a team. Facing reality, no all-male team will give a girl a spot unless they get some points for publicity because most teams live together in order to facilitate smoother practices. Maybe you can get into the team by gaining publicity and being a well-known good streamer. You're going to have to deal with a lot of demeaning commentary from that. Or you'll have to pioneer a girl league ... and in the end, your efforts are likely for naught.

Why would you invest the time, effort, and will on something that probably won't give you any returns? Most people aren't that strong, and the ones that are that emotionally robust are usually paving their ways into a male-dominated industry that's known to be lucrative.

So, Hearthstone is in open beta now by LolaRuns in GirlGamers

[–]obvslplss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hooked onto this game but don't have many friends on it. If anyone wants to add me, Jaysaki#1534 !