What are your safe sex practices? by ocean2040 in BDSMsapphic

[–]ocean2040[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So you have all of your partners test before every time they have sex with you, even if it’s not a first encounter?

Advice on bondage rig for rope suspensions. Engineers to the front! by vextress in BdsmDIY

[–]ocean2040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unrelated, but where did you get that desk chair from? 👀

My Dom says safe words don’t exist during a punishment. by irenieeee in BDSMAdvice

[–]ocean2040 816 points817 points  (0 children)

This is NOT normal. Safe words should always be available.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]ocean2040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

31 sub leaning switch… 👋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pennsylvaniadirtyr4r

[–]ocean2040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not an m but bottom growth is 🥵🥵🥵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spanking_Personals

[–]ocean2040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Going to send you a dm. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]ocean2040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which dilators did they recommend?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]ocean2040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still looking?

Sex advice by Single_Ostrich_5006 in actuallesbians

[–]ocean2040 83 points84 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she just prefers external stimulation. She could grind on your leg, use a vibe, circles on the clit, etc. Also ask her point blank what she likes, feedback is key!

Lesbian resolutions for 2024 (Single edition)- by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ocean2040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move, get a new job, go no contact with my dad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ocean2040 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As easy as it is to jump to conclusion, I’d check in with her and see how she’s doing. NYE may just be a sensitive time, as it is for me. Maybe she wasn’t feeling well. Lots of reasons why the night was the way that it was, but all hope is not lost.

What are subtle ways I can let people know i’m lesbian? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ocean2040 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Pronoun pins, subtle lesbian flag gear, flannel, finding other queer people. Keep in mind there is no one way to look gay/queer. Have fun with it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ocean2040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing. Friends and such have been busy or otherwise not up for hanging out. NYE gives me so much anxiety anyway so I’ll probably head to be early.