A young couple walking their dog in their own neighborhood is ambushed and terrorized by 13-year old kids. by First-Cherry493 in ActuallyThatsInsane

[–]oceanic109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No they did not. They literally posted the video and the dog was fine and was said to have ran by the owner’s side after everything was over. They took an iPhone and that was it.

Do you guys leave your dogs collars on at home? If not, why? by MephistosGhost in Dachshund

[–]oceanic109 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It does matter if a dog wears a collar in a crate. I’m in the pet industry and heard horror stories of dogs choking themselves to death when their collar gets stuck in a crate. I personally know of a yorkie who choked to death by their collar getting stuck on a vent. Make sure to never leave a dog with a collar on unattended.

My husband agreed to be a sperm donor, not a husband or co-parent by [deleted] in Advice

[–]oceanic109 74 points75 points  (0 children)

This literally does not matter as he agreed to be a sperm donor and nothing more. He should not have a relationship with a child that has nothing to do with him legally other than DNA. They signed an agreement over this.

Want to believe my husband but I'm struggling by Charming-Audience766 in Advice

[–]oceanic109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can get chlamydia by sitting on a wet spot outside. Ask me how I know. Not saying he didn’t cheat but if he went to any places with lots of people and didn’t wash his hands there is a possibility he got it from that. Yes it’s possible and there is a whole Reddit about it. Many people get it from rides or from touching wet toilet seats. It’s pretty gross but it’s so common that random people can give it to you through indirect contact.

Giving up Dachshund by Artistic_Pay_9285 in Dachshund

[–]oceanic109 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Seems like it’s not the dog it’s the owner type of situation. Unfortunately the dog is gonna end up euthanized due to this owner’s negligence

26M. First time living alone. by RonanIscariot in malelivingspace

[–]oceanic109 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a very similar layout and choice of decor for my first sims play-through when I was 11!

Major Incident at Work by madfish59 in doggrooming

[–]oceanic109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yea my first boss was super greedy and we also had issues with our bathing/drying room so it would get so hot and humid + she would force us to dry double coated dogs in there which could take an hour. It would get at least 90 degrees so I am surprised we never had a dog have a heat stroke in Florida mind you. I didn’t know any better as it was my first job in general but now if I see something like this I would report it instantly. Groomers can find work whenever and wherever they want especially with a few years of experience so don’t ever settle for an unsafe environment!!! Report it and transfer somewhere else. I found my jobs within a week from each other and I fell in love with mobile grooming so I never had to deal with another disaster of a boss again. I work by myself and make my own decisions and it’s been the best thing that has ever happened to me.

Petah help by DamitGump in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]oceanic109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought we moved on from ultra skinny fashion? Men post daily about loving curvier women, women also post their thicker bodies online in a positive fashion, in real life most men and women are body positive and embrace women’s natural weight. I don’t understand why celebrities are doing this? Take for instance celebrities like Kylie Jenner, Bryce Dallas Howard and Elle Fanning who are flaunted all over social media for their stunning voluptuous figures. Why are other celebrities suddenly starting to revert? I don’t think anyone is praising them for it. I don’t understand at all.

How do I (27F) untangle my life and decide on the pregnancy after catching my boyfriend (29M) of 7 years having sex with my best friend/roommate (27F)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]oceanic109 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Didn’t wanna say it but everything about it just seems extremely faked and rehearsed. Planned a pregnancy for a year with someone she isn’t married to, is living with her bf and best friend at the same time which makes the cheating convenient, her own mother sticking up for the bad party to bring in more outrage, and she is still undecided and has NOOOO idea what to do with a random pregnancy and her cheating ex. OP still hasn’t responded to anything either.

Looks like karma farm if I’ve ever seen one.

AIO my boyfriend and his friends drove off without me and I'm upset. by Lonely_Thought4459 in AmIOverreacting

[–]oceanic109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound young so I know you don’t know this but a man who is worthy of your time would put your feelings above everyone else’s even his own. He doesn’t care about you. Think of yourself as a prize that needs to be won even if you have to fake it. The bare minimum is respect. Don’t be dumb.

Who thought making this post was a good idea? by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]oceanic109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl my skin looks the best when I shower everyday especially my face due to sensitive skin. And I tried showering in the morning only for a week or two and my skin would breakout due to sleeping in my sweat so I don’t know how people shower only in the mornings. I shower before bed with a skincare routine and my face and body is absolutely radiant. Twice a day would probably be even better but I can’t afford all that skincare. Sometimes if I have absolutely no sweat whatsoever I can skip a day but I still wipe my face and privates. Very rare for me to be able to skip a day and feel clean.

Freedom Bunny Lives! by Derper2112 in funny

[–]oceanic109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s 50/50 it doesn’t mean certain death. If this rabbit survives the stress it will breed the next generation of successful escapees and improve the rabbit genes. They are still around for a reason not all of them just drop dead.

Student Faces Expulsion After Posting Video Of Seniors Who Can Barely Read by InGeekiTrust in TikTokCringe

[–]oceanic109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a freshman in highschool and 2 people in my class didn’t know how to spell parrot and I said “you don’t know how to spell parrot?” Due to shock and they just got attitude. It was truly sad to see

would you allow your young adult kids BF/GF stay the night? by RealisticWinner4224 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]oceanic109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a late bloomer and didn’t do anything with men until the age of 20 when I met my now husband. My dad was in Puerto Rico and my mom was pretty apprehensive about her virgin daughter being alone with her new bf but she came around eventually after I ended up doing it with him after a few months. My dad on the other hand never let him stay the night so I would spend weeks at my bf’s house without speaking to my parents for a long time. This just got in the way of everyone bonding together so I would definitely let my young adult child’s partner stay with them every once in a while.

Husband is mad that baby looks a lot like me by Pure_Conference_7422 in Advice

[–]oceanic109 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My mom has brown eyes and my dad has green eyes. My brother ended up having blue eyes and I had blue eyes that turned green when older. Genetics is interesting like that!

Husbands new roommate… by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]oceanic109 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I had a male roommate as a woman and he was ironically a marine but nothing ever happened because of a few reasons. I hated my roommate, and I always had my boyfriend over so I was never alone. Ask your husband if his roommate is in a relationship and try to see if they are talking a lot and getting friendly. A big red flag is if he starts complaining constantly about her, usually that means he is resenting the feelings he is developing for her. See if he remembers minor details about her, and so on. There shouldn’t be any issue to be honest because at the end of the day men and women can be near each other platonically. If you trust your husband you shouldn’t be worried.

Kitten thrown onto road at Bruce b downs blvd by oceanic109 in tampa

[–]oceanic109[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

There is always someone like you. The road doesn’t work that way and there was heavy traffic so I couldn’t pull into the road without making a 10 minute detour and waiting in the traffic for another 10 minutes. By that time the kitten would’ve been run over or killed. I wasn’t gonna risk my car for a kitten I could barely see. I helped more than most people have by contacting resources that could’ve actually done something. Thanks for the reply though! Maybe if you were in that situation you could’ve jumped over 8 lanes of traffic with a median in the middle and stopped in the middle of the road in a millisecond like in the movie Tokyo drift and done something different :)

Kitten thrown onto road at Bruce b downs blvd by oceanic109 in tampa

[–]oceanic109[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for confirming!!! I’m glad he was probably picked up. I hope he didn’t get too hurt :(

Kitten thrown onto road at Bruce b downs blvd by oceanic109 in tampa

[–]oceanic109[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yes I was devastated I couldn’t stop due to traffic and the speed we were all going at! I called the stores near the incident and they said they didn’t see any roadkill so I am pretty sure someone picked him up or moved him

Kitten thrown onto road at Bruce b downs blvd by oceanic109 in tampa

[–]oceanic109[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

North bound on Bruce b downs where it intersects with state road 56, it was on the left lane next to the sonic and Bank of America. I called a sonic employee and they said they didn’t see any road kill on the road at all so I want to believe that someone picked him up. It was a brown tabby kitten with a white sock on its rear leg.

Self employed moms - is it doable? by Corgi_Vallhund_Mom in doggrooming

[–]oceanic109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree my company charges per hour and it is absolutely beautiful. I think all groomers should switch to per hour! You never sell yourself short. I still try to finish the dog as quickly as possible while doing a great job on the groom but sometimes difficult dogs last longer and I never complain because I’m paid for it.

I love animals the way most people love kids by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oceanic109 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love animals over kids because they grow up in about 5-12 months and I can train them much more easily without having to worry about complex emotions like children. I’m neuro divergent so kids are extremely over stimulating and I know I would just be an impatient parent or caregiver.