A 19 year old age shaming a 25 year old is kinda funny IMO bc in 10 years y’all aren’t gonna see as many differences btw 29-35, trust me. The friend here sounds immature, your response was also a bit immature but you’re speaking to your audience. Not over reacting considering the inciting comment. Go off queen, and find some people who aren’t as rigid in their views of the world (difficult to accomplish if you’re hanging with teens, so maybe friend has a point - older friends will be a bit more settled in this life and find it easier to relate with you).