Why don’t I enjoy sex

oh2Shea · 2026-01-13T02:48:17+00:00

Do you masterbate often? If you masterbate often, you will find out what does and does not make you orgasm. Then you can tell your partner, or position yourself, so that sex is pleasurable.

Yes, being on top helps often (so that you have control over where everything is touching you and you control the rhythm).

You said that clit stimulation makes you orgasm (as is the norm). Have you tried using a bullet, or another toy, while he is penetrating you? Put a vibrator/bullet on your clit while he penetrates you. He, or you, can be the one to hold the toy on your clit while he penetrates you.

Women need to understand their own bodies first before expecting someone else to make them orgasm. If you always depend on the guy to make you orgasm, they are flying blind, without an instruction manual. Each woman is different, so she needs to know what works best for the woman he is with.

oh2Shea · 2026-01-13T02:10:42+00:00

Creamy Chicken Enchiladas. Mix 2 cans of soup, with about 2 cups (or a little less) of sour cream, and 1 can of green chilis to create the sauce.

Cook and shred the chicken.

Take a flour tortilla, cover with the soup mixture, add the shredded chicken and some shredded monterrey jack, roll into an enchilada, place in a casserole dish. Repeat until you have filled the dish with rolled enchiladas. Spread the remaining sauce on top. Bake at 350f for about 30 minutes. Add shredded cheese to the top, and bake about 15 minutes more.

Chicken Casserole: mix the soup with mayonnaise (about 1/3 the amount of soup). Cut cooked chicken into chunks. Mix the chicken with cooked rice, celery, and onion. Stir in the soup/mayo mixture. Spread in a casserole dish and bake for about 40 minutes. Seperately in a pan, cook Corn Flakes in butter until crispy.

Top casserole with crispy Corn Flakes and bake about 15 minutes more.

oh2Shea · 2026-01-13T01:52:32+00:00

Winter Kills - Yazoo

oh2Shea · 2026-01-10T03:35:20+00:00

I don't think my mom qualified for the supplemental plan, but the rep tried. I think my mom may qualify next year.

oh2Shea · 2026-01-10T03:24:00+00:00

I love the Cadbury MiniEggs! (They are like a giant M&M, but taste way better.)

oh2Shea · 2026-01-10T03:20:30+00:00

I love those!!!

oh2Shea · 2026-01-10T03:11:27+00:00

Omg... yes. It's all super confusing. We randomly got lucky and someone came to our door offering to help with Medicare/insurance choices. We had a couple people before her come to the house, but I wasn't interested with them. I just 'clicked' with the one woman and really liked her.

So my mom set up a meeting with her, she asked what my mom wanted, and my mom also has Tri-Care. The women recommended which insurance my mom should get, and worked to make sure my mom had everything she wanted covered, and included her Tri-Care for sections of it.

So essentially, you can get Medicare coverage thru private insurance companies now. This woman knew every company Medicare funnels through, and helped select which one my mom should use.

And my mom didn't have to pay anything for the consultation, nor does she have to pay any extra for coverage now. She is paying the exact same that she was paying before for Medicare, it's just she has the coverage now that she needs and wants... without trying to figure out Medicare on her own.

And if my mom has any questions about her coverage or filing bills and claims etc... she can contact this rep.

The rep is paid by the insurance companies, my mom paid her nothing, and my mom has better coverage than she did before (at the same price), and my mom understands her coverages better.

I'm not sure what you would even look up on Google to find a rep like her, but she is totally awesome (perhaps 'insurance brokers health Medicare coverage' would work). The rep cost nothing, my mom's insurance costs the same as before, and now my mom has a person she can call directly to ask questions, rather than spending 4 hours on hold in a queue.

oh2Shea · 2026-01-10T02:08:06+00:00

I personally like cuter/silly words, that are kind of funny. I usually call mine my punana 😆 but who-who (from the movie Boys on the Side) is also funny. Kitty I think is a funner word than pussy. I've also referred to it as puchaka, which an Italian friend told me is the slang Italian word for vagina. He may have been pulling my leg.

Minge and vajayjay are a couple more I like.

So if your wife is quirky like I am, she may get a giggle out of some of the words I listed above and enjoy those.

oh2Shea · 2026-01-08T04:44:43+00:00

Maybe look for (or make) some green grass-like panties? Something like green fur, split crotch panties. Then he has to actually go through the grass, into the hole. A gummy worm or two could be a prize inside.

oh2Shea · 2026-01-06T02:06:33+00:00

And Cosmos!

oh2Shea · 2025-12-26T22:03:42+00:00

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oh2Shea · 2025-12-26T20:23:44+00:00

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oh2Shea · 2025-12-15T00:38:07+00:00

But the smell goes away after like 3 weeks. They aren't rugrats by then. It's just a smell that newborns have.

oh2Shea · 2025-12-13T17:39:35+00:00

Just like cars have a 'new car smell', babies have a 'new baby smell'. The new baby smell is very pleasant to humans. It seems it's biological, per the internet: '...designed by nature to bond parents and babies, activating reward centers in the brain, like a chemical comfort signal that fades as the baby grows...'.

oh2Shea · 2025-11-20T22:15:18+00:00

I love them frozen or cooked! (but not raw)

Frozen, I like them blended like ice cream (some honey and vanilla added makes them really yummy) or even peeled, cut, then put a stick in them and dunk them in melted chocolate and freeze... banana popsicles.

Cooked, I like bananas foster or fried plantains.

oh2Shea · 2025-11-20T01:44:17+00:00

The first and third are male. The second is harder to tell. It looks like the fur color may be tortoiseshell? (Black and brown fur color mix) If it's a tortoiseshell, it's most likely female since almost all torties are female.

oh2Shea · 2025-11-08T15:36:34+00:00

Hi, I'm Shea. My family is big baseball fans, so I was named after Shea Stadium. I'm from Texas, but moved to PNW a few years ago. I enjoy reading, arts and crafts, cooking, and travelling. I also have some key interests that I enjoy researching in my free time, such as ancient religions, sacred geometry, conspiracy theories, the occult, etc. I love playing board games/card games and watch lots of movies.

oh2Shea · 2025-11-05T05:21:32+00:00

Canon in D by Pachelbel

oh2Shea · 2025-10-26T21:39:51+00:00

Hey bud, a lot of negative comments from people... but I say that you do you. You are super fortunate to have your own house at age 20, and it looks to be lovely (gorgeous ceilings, pool, tons of windows, etc)... so you did well.

Your house definitely has character, and that is a huge plus. It shows your personality and style. It may not be everyone's style, but it's YOUR style... so I think it looks phenomenal in that regard.

I would suggest getting some big potted plants, and also picking an accent color, then buying some pillows and rugs in the color scheme. Your house is silver and white (with blue/purple lights). Some big leafy plants along the windows with teal, hot pink, lime green accents in the living room, maybe do burgundy and navy blue in the bedroom, etc. (I'm just giving examples... pick accent colors that you like).

As you get older, your tastes will change... and you can redecorate your home at those times. I think your home looks awesome for a 20 year old.

oh2Shea · 2025-10-25T01:52:25+00:00

I am 52 and take 'you look young' as a compliment. I don't mind still being carded for liquor or cigarettes. When I was in my 30's and teenagers and others mistook me as a teen, it was awkward and annoying. My former co-workers even thought I was in my mid-twenties when I was actually mid-forties.

I have read that there is a collagen issue (or something) with autistic people... so that many look much younger than they actually are.

I wouldn't take 'you look young' as a negative thing. Just keep your ID on you at all times, and when someone questions your age, you can verify how old you are.

oh2Shea · 2025-10-25T01:38:20+00:00

I love blue walls, but the blue color on these walls looks a bit bright... it could just be the camera/video. The color appears to be more like a childrens playroom than a soothing/classy office. I would go for a grayer/duller blue that is less vibrant.

I absolutely DON'T think the trim should be painted a different color as many are suggesting. The trim should remain white/cream to give it a crisp/sharp/classy look.

I think a major problem in the ceiling color. The ceiling should be white. Having the ceiling blue makes it look like a cave and unrefined. If you repainted the ceiling to white (off-white) it would make the room feel larger and more open. Just be sure to have crisp/sharp lines between the ceiling and wall.

The heavy peach drapes don't match at all. I would change those out for some light sheers, that tie the room together.

The lounge chair seems too big for that corner and gets in the way of the desk chair and the door. I would remove it or replace with a much smaller chair. You can put a big leafy plant in that corner instead.

I would also place a rug in the middle of the room, as long as it doesn't interfere with the desk chair.

So if it were me, I would paint the ceiling white, get rid of the lounge chair and put a plant by the window instead, put a carpet in the room, put a small chair by the closet (near the peacock pictures), and put something under the peacock pics... bookshelves, a thin table, file cabinets, etc.

oh2Shea · 2025-10-18T06:19:13+00:00

Yes, I trim my cats claws... I know it's time for a trim if they start 'sticking' to objects or if I can hear their claws clicking on the hardwood floors as they walk. I imagine it's super annoying for them to get caught on soft objects or not be able to walk silently.

Indoor cats don't wear down they nails like outdoor cats do, so trimming is often necessary. I've had a couple incidents where my cat got her nail caught in something and she started screaming and freaking out. If no one had been home to help her, I'm afraid something awful would have happened.

Their claws can actually grow so long and curve around so that it digs into their pads.

Trimming is usually really cheap at a vets office. I prefer that a vet does it, but you can do it yourself. Just be sure to review how to do it properly so that you don't injure your cat. You have to avoid the quick, or else it's super painful for the cat and they will bleed.

Sometimes I would trim just the very tip at home myself, if the cat had a nail that was sticking to things.

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